Cruise: Caribbean, sexual play

27 Aug 2015

The wife and I are going on our first cruise in November (on Carnival).
I have heard everything from very sex charged, lost of sleeping around, to bunches of elderly (70's 80's) people.

What are these cruises like for a middle ages couple?

I'd love to see my wife get "hit on." I'm not quite sure how she would react, but regardless I think I'd be in for some good fun!

2 Nov 2015

no advice from anyone?

2 Nov 2015

1. Carnival Cruise Lines? Eek.

2. Anything you've heard about sexually charged cruises (especially on Carnival Cruise Lines) is all probably just fantasy. A typical cruise is no more sexually charged than any get-away. So I hope you're not expecting an orgy on deck. Most people will be too busy stuffing themselves at the 24-hour buffet to be bothered with stuffing themselves with anything else.

3. Carnival Cruise Lines? Eek!

There will probably be people who are looking to get laid by random strangers, but for the most part, these commercial cruise lines are more family oriented than anything else.

The sex-charged cruises tend to be privately chartered, extremely organized, and extremely exclusive. It wouldn't take place on a commercial cruise line.

I do hope you and the wife find what you're looking for, though. Good luck!

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2 Nov 2015

Quote by ccc333
no advice from anyone?

It's been many years, 25 to be exact, since my girlfriend and I took a Carnival Cruise to the Bahamas, it was the second voyage of their newest ship, Fantasy . I was 25, she was 19. She had been on a cruise before, but I had not. She wanted to go, so we booked the top-of-the-line accommodations. Our cabin had a wet bar, a love seat, and our own private veranda. One thing that I'm not sure still occurs, is that when you are in the dining room, your waiter/steward, uses that window of time , while you're dining, to make-up your cabin, Now, here is the interesting part, in the evening, during dinner, he would turn down our bed and place mints on the pillow . . .but also, he would select lingerie, from my girlfriends wardrobe, and have it laying out on the bed for her. My girlfriend was aware of this being standard practice on Carnival, but I'm sure that many passengers were not. Not sure if this tradition is still carried out, but be prepared . . .I think it would be a good lead in if you are in conversation with another couple, and want to steer it towards the bedroom. "Did you know that they used to" . . . or " Were you surprised by your steward laying out your . . ." We made friends with one couple, about our age, because they were partaking in many of the same onboard activities that we were. There are bars, nightclubs and a casino onboard, and we "did the rounds." The passengers seemed to be all couples and families, perhaps a few singles, but it was definitely not the "Love Boat." When in port, in Nassau, we signed up for a day trip to an island day resort. We rented a wave runner, ate, drank, and sunbathed on the beach. And yes, we ran into the couple there too . . .I'm recalling how cute she was, Italian or maybe Greek, petite, with her straight black hair pulled back into a pony tail, strapless bikini top, small breasts, awesome little butt . . .okay, if you're wondering, my girlfriend was a natural redhead, 5'4, 130, 34b-25-34(maybe), two years removed from high school, where she had been a member of an elite cheer squad, and she was also a very seasoned water skier, very strong arms and legs as a result. I almost forgot to mention, on the second night of the cruise, as I lay in bed, she came out of the bathroom wearing her high school cheer uniform (many months earlier, while looking at some photos from her "cheer days," I had commented how I had always fantasized about the cheerleaders when I was in school, but unfortunately it, my fantasy, had never been fulfilled), needless to say, I was in heaven. We parted ways a year or so later, but I will always remember our cruise, as one of the spectacular highlights, of which there were numerous, of our relationship. Have a great time! Feel free to contact me if you want . . .

2 Nov 2015

Quote by ArtVandelay1

It's been many years, 25 to be exact, since my girlfriend and I took a Carnival Cruise to the Bahamas, it was the second voyage of their newest ship, Fantasy . I was 25, she was 19. She had been on a cruise before, but I had not. She wanted to go, so we booked the top-of-the-line accommodations. Our cabin had a wet bar, a love seat, and our own private veranda. One thing that I'm not sure still occurs, is that when you are in the dining room, your waiter/steward, uses that window of time , while you're dining, to make-up your cabin, Now, here is the interesting part, in the evening, during dinner, he would turn down our bed and place mints on the pillow . . .but also, he would select lingerie, from my girlfriends wardrobe, and have it laying out on the bed for her. My girlfriend was aware of this being standard practice on Carnival, but I'm sure that many passengers were not. Not sure if this tradition is still carried out, but be prepared . . .I think it would be a good lead in if you are in conversation with another couple, and want to steer it towards the bedroom. "Did you know that they used to" . . . or " Were you surprised by your steward laying out your . . ." We made friends with one couple, about our age, because they were partaking in many of the same onboard activities that we were. There are bars, nightclubs and a casino onboard, and we "did the rounds." The passengers seemed to be all couples and families, perhaps a few singles, but it was definitely not the "Love Boat." When in port, in Nassau, we signed up for a day trip to an island day resort. We rented a wave runner, ate, drank, and sunbathed on the beach. And yes, we ran into the couple there too . . .I'm recalling how cute she was, Italian or maybe Greek, petite, with her straight black hair pulled back into a pony tail, strapless bikini top, small breasts, awesome little butt . . .okay, if you're wondering, my girlfriend was a natural redhead, 5'4, 130, 34b-25-34(maybe), two years removed from high school, where she had been a member of an elite cheer squad, and she was also a very seasoned water skier, very strong arms and legs as a result. I almost forgot to mention, on the second night of the cruise, as I lay in bed, she came out of the bathroom wearing her high school cheer uniform (many months earlier, while looking at some photos from her "cheer days," I had commented how I had always fantasized about the cheerleaders when I was in school, but unfortunately it, my fantasy, had never been fulfilled), needless to say, I was in heaven. We parted ways a year or so later, but I will always remember our cruise, as one of the spectacular highlights, of which there were numerous, of our relationship. Have a great time! Feel free to contact me if you want . . .

This all sounds reasonable. I saw a "Rusty Trombone" on the room service menu the last time I went on a cruise.

2 Nov 2015

Don't expect much excitement of a sexual nature on a Carnival cruise unless you take it with you. Try Windjammer Barefoot Cruises instead. They are smaller, more intimate, and designed for a younger crowd. They have a fleet of tall-masted sailing ships, but if you get seasick easily, forget it!

3 Nov 2015

Thanks, all! We'll see what happens. Two day in New Orleans, should start the week out right! And Bethany, I'll take plenty with me!

As far as Carnival goes, I'll report back. My travel agent they were fine, plenty clean and not the rough crowd.

16 Nov 2015

I have been on a few cruises, and apart from our own sex, there was not much opportunity for anything else. Different at a resort though. We have had lots of fun at resorts!
If you are interested the series starts with this story on Lush: "Husband Shows Me Off on Our Honeymoon"

I am looking forward to hear how it goes! We are planning on another cruise next year, so always looking for advice.