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I would only have sex with my husband
I have no problems with it.
I always use protection, if it's not on, it's not on.
Although I have one exception to what others seem to have, I see no reason why a one night stand or FWB's cannot be sensual and have some feeling - without love.
Sex isn't complicated, it's all the emotions that get wraped up with sex in so many peoples mind. We all love lots of people we don't have sex with, why is it strange for some people to think of sex with people they don't love? I'm not out to change society as a whole, just giving people something to think about.
I have found "casual sex" is difficult for most people, some can, some can't. It's always tricky, there's no such thing like they show in the movies, it's another person with feelings and you both have to be on the same page or you'll make a terrible mess.
I am in a relationship with 2 other women and3 men. To accept this form of relationship one has to be prepared to know and see that the other members of our FWB group can and do enjoy sex with the others in the group in the same way they do with you. It is truly recreational sex. Emotions do enter into some of the affairs. These emotions must be controlled and last no longer than the post orgasmic period. Love is word that must be used with utmost care and refer to the experience you are or have enjoyed and not to the person with whom you have just enjoyed a period of great emotional sex.
In our group we each have our favourite partner but that does not exclude or reduce the desire to be with one or other of the group whether it be M or F. I live and co habit with one of the girls but we both can enjoy being with another partner with no emotional misgivings. Three way affairs are not uncommon.
I would never entertains affair with a man I knew was married unless I was aware his wife condoned the intimacy and more likely to be a third party. This has happened at a swingers party but I no longer enjoy this form of activity.
In saying this we are not raving sex maniacs and the "group" activity is not a regular affair but it can and does happen as a 3 or 4some occasionally and very occasionally all 6 of us get together. A weekend away would be the most common for all 6 to be together. It is not a regular occurrence but it is great fun when it happens as we all understand the way we can and do share and share alike.
I can understand how many couples could not possibly condone or accept the fact of their partner sharing the joy of sex with another partner. As a teen I have been jealous of boyfriends who did and I think we have all seen the results of transgressions of this nature. I will never engage in sex recreationally with anybody I know to be in a strong relationship, whether it be male or female.
I agree with the sentiments if BethanyFrasier above.
I love it. Sex should be fun. To me pussy is pussy/dick is dick. Yes some are bigger/smaller, skinnier/fatter, hairy/shaven... ect. I think you should be able to have sex with a friend and hang out with them the next day like nothing happened. Maybe even talk about what was good and what was bad so you both can grow your "in bed" skills.
If done right there is nothing casual about sex.
I've had some very hot casual one night stands. But with someone you know and see around from time to time, I think it is an impossibility. Things get complicated quickly. That's not a bad thing. Sex and love is supposed to be messy. I like messy.