Without doubt sex chat can be a great turn-on, and I love doing it here on Lush. I have been - on certain occasions very close to orgasm due to such intimate discussions, requiring a minimal amount of physical stimulus to achieve a satisfying climax. However most men haven't even scratched the surface of verbal seduction. I dare say everyone here on 'Lush', chats to one and all hoping to give and receive sexual stimulation of one type or another. When a guy to whom I've extolled all my fantasies says: "I'm jacking myself off .. can you say something really dirty to make me cum" ... well that screws it all up for me and the sexual bubble immediately bursts. I then know that once he's orgasmed his next words will be: "I gotta go now".
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Of course...when it feels right!.........with the right person.
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chat can be fun as long as its two way and continues both ways.
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Susan (SexySusan) says it very nicely; she kind of puts my thoughts into words.
Sexy / naughty chat can be a real turn-on for me, enen when the intent of my chat wasn't that --but it must be with the right woman and one who has mtual feelings. On several occasions, I've received messages from women tanking me for our chat (or e-mai) and she would let me know how excited she had been either during the chat or afterward while she "replayed" our conversation.
Yeah, at my age there is more sex between the ears than between the legs.
Sexy / naughty chat can be a real turn-on for me, enen when the intent of my chat wasn't that --but it must be with the right woman and one who has mtual feelings. On several occasions, I've received messages from women tanking me for our chat (or e-mai) and she would let me know how excited she had been either during the chat or afterward while she "replayed" our conversation.
Yeah, at my age there is more sex between the ears than between the legs.
Gramps
The quiet and always horny old guy in Sunny Florida USA
The quiet and always horny old guy in Sunny Florida USA
Naughty phone chat can raise the excitement in an instant, but so can the written word ! I had an online `Affair` for many years with a lady who I met at work. It started with flirty emails in the office which quickly turned to phone text and then to emails at home. Yes we were both married which made it even more exciting and so naughty, but unstoppable !! The outcome was of course a bonus for myself and for my wife although she never knew the reason for my virility. She responded to my dirty talk by whispering even more dirty talk, it was so fantastic ! Sadly, my email lover has moved on, I hope to be lucky enough again one of these days !
I love naughty chat but as with stories I read I like the scene to be set first.
I'm having a sexual relationship with someone at the moment who's really into it and is good at it. We discuss fantasies and he will whisper stuff in my ear when we're fucking. Tonight we discussed a fantasy where I was asleep and then he came round to my house and acted it out. It was very hot knowing that whilst he's fucking me he has this fantasy going on in his mind.
I love masturbating whilst having sexy chats too.
I'm having a sexual relationship with someone at the moment who's really into it and is good at it. We discuss fantasies and he will whisper stuff in my ear when we're fucking. Tonight we discussed a fantasy where I was asleep and then he came round to my house and acted it out. It was very hot knowing that whilst he's fucking me he has this fantasy going on in his mind.
I love masturbating whilst having sexy chats too.
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With a good chat partner it can be really good but with someone not so good at it I find it more frustrating than anything.
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it depends on the person... with some people its an amazing adventure but other times you get people who just.... well you all know. The best partners know who they are and its always a pleasure
Advanced Wordsmith
Have to agree again with the right person and the right circumstance sit can be stellar
Rookie Scribe
well of course i would have to say ya if you have the right person on the other end .......
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Not so much cyber, but some friendly flirting is always great.
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lol, what are we on lush for if not to have some naughty chats?? ;) seriously though, i agree with many on here that it's only as good as your partner. if ur able to find someone u feel a connection with, naughty chats can be amazing otherwise it's just an awkward, fumbling and frustrating mess.
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I have been known to indulge but only after talking and finding a connection. It takes someone with intelligence, humour and a willingness to use their imagination for a "naughty chat" to work for me. Its no fun if you are doing all the work and your partner in crime is only after their own release. Like in all things of a sexual nature it take the participation of both to make it work
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No, I'm a naughty chat virgin.JTe2bnwPM3oaFzJq
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For sure! With the right person the results are usually great, especially if both are truly open minded and confident.
I believe 90% of how people are turned on is by what comes out of their online sex partner's mouth, not what they look like. There must be a reasonable amount of fake profiles on here, especially among those who are just looking to get their rocks off as their sole aim of joining the site. If this is the case, how do you know that, instead of talking to a mid 20's hottie, you've been flicking your bean to a mid 40's guy with no teeth? It's by what comes out of their mouth! Physical attraction and the ability to turn someone on are not necessarily the same thing in the cyber world so when it comes to cyber sex, I stick to a few hard and fast rules generally.
The key thing for me is whether or not I actually believe someone I am chatting to is the person they claim to be. Photos are a big help with this, lots of photos that look like pictures the person, or their friends and family, may have taken i.e they all look the same person, and aren't professionally done poses cos they just scream "downloaded off a website"!
Another clue is, are they friends with people I trust? If so it's doubtful me and my Lush friends would all have been fooled, the Muffia is good at things like this, especially spotting horny young guys who just wanna get off by talking lesbianese!
Finally and, most importantly, the chat. Do they just launch into sex talk without a) getting to know you and b) getting to know what you like? If the answer is yes, I generally don't go for it because the chances are they are fakers or the first time will be really awkward and I could have just missed out on some good cyber lovin in the future by rushing in unprepared. I also like to get to know my potential cyber play pal cos I need to make a connection at some level even if it's just to find out if we both like dom or sub cos then one of you isn't going to get any fun! Getting to know somone first adds to the enjoyment unimaginably! Nothing can put off a really good time more than the wrong word screamed out in passion over the chat window, a lesson I've learnt a few times! If the person you're with really likes you, they're not generally in it for a quick fix so will be happy chatting even if it turns out you're not compatible, you've still got a friend out of it! If you're really lucky you can find someone so in tune with how you are and feel about things, the rest is just incredible!
This seems like a long drawn out process but it can take a very little time and effort to get to the stage when I am really comfortable with someone enough to make their toes curl and visa versa. Incidentally another great way to find out whether you're with a faker or just a selfish bastard is, as has been pointed out above, if they're very quiet their end, don't join in and piss off straight away afterwards!
P.S. During the actual online sex part, my main effort is on getting my girl off, not getting myself off, and hopefully they're on the other end doing the same
The key thing for me is whether or not I actually believe someone I am chatting to is the person they claim to be. Photos are a big help with this, lots of photos that look like pictures the person, or their friends and family, may have taken i.e they all look the same person, and aren't professionally done poses cos they just scream "downloaded off a website"!
Another clue is, are they friends with people I trust? If so it's doubtful me and my Lush friends would all have been fooled, the Muffia is good at things like this, especially spotting horny young guys who just wanna get off by talking lesbianese!
Finally and, most importantly, the chat. Do they just launch into sex talk without a) getting to know you and b) getting to know what you like? If the answer is yes, I generally don't go for it because the chances are they are fakers or the first time will be really awkward and I could have just missed out on some good cyber lovin in the future by rushing in unprepared. I also like to get to know my potential cyber play pal cos I need to make a connection at some level even if it's just to find out if we both like dom or sub cos then one of you isn't going to get any fun! Getting to know somone first adds to the enjoyment unimaginably! Nothing can put off a really good time more than the wrong word screamed out in passion over the chat window, a lesson I've learnt a few times! If the person you're with really likes you, they're not generally in it for a quick fix so will be happy chatting even if it turns out you're not compatible, you've still got a friend out of it! If you're really lucky you can find someone so in tune with how you are and feel about things, the rest is just incredible!
This seems like a long drawn out process but it can take a very little time and effort to get to the stage when I am really comfortable with someone enough to make their toes curl and visa versa. Incidentally another great way to find out whether you're with a faker or just a selfish bastard is, as has been pointed out above, if they're very quiet their end, don't join in and piss off straight away afterwards!
P.S. During the actual online sex part, my main effort is on getting my girl off, not getting myself off, and hopefully they're on the other end doing the same
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I agree with many who have said that if there is a connection, or if it is with the right person, it can be great. With the wrong person it really can be awkward, with lots of silent pauses, and usually that's the last time you chat with the person. It's hard to say what makes a good chat partner, but my guess is that it is someone who is comfortable enough with themselves that they are prepared to take chances and look foolish, simply because chat is no different than live sex / social interaction. It's not about ego or looking good - it is about listening as much as it is talking, if not more so - and it is about taking risks because you are trying to excite/arouse another person.
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Alex - you are so right! Couldn't have put it better myself. I've been very, very fortunate with my choice of friends on Lush.....thank you all for being so great! xx
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Since I have been with Lush, I have had some of the most incredible naughty chats... When our inmaginations click, it's a breathtaking experience... and I wish we could go on all day and all night... just like being with them pysically.. Here's hoping that all of you derive the same pleasure we have in our naughty, naughty chats!!
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Pretty much agree with a lot of women here. I have had naughty chats with a lot of women in this site, but I must say that it feels the best only when both of you feel a connection. You got to understand what the other person needs and you got to have a real nice imagination. I did have a real nice time with one of them. Thus, its important to always start with normal conversation to know a person better.
It is important to put the other person's needs before yours, thus not bein in a rush with the chat. Conversating with the person and asking her, how she likes it is a real good start. I always start it by asking her about her wild experiences and then slowly raise the naughtiness until I know that she too wants to chat about it.
I would be happy if any women out here would like to have a chat with me sometime. Feel free to add me
It is important to put the other person's needs before yours, thus not bein in a rush with the chat. Conversating with the person and asking her, how she likes it is a real good start. I always start it by asking her about her wild experiences and then slowly raise the naughtiness until I know that she too wants to chat about it.
I would be happy if any women out here would like to have a chat with me sometime. Feel free to add me