Active Ink Slinger
when a lady told me to kneel, and lick her feet and I did.
Join the best erotica focused adult social network now
Login
When did you know you were submissive?
Rookie Scribe
I honestly never came across as submissive. I’ve always been loud and more outspoken. But recently I was scrolling across tumblr and saw different photo sets of the bdsm lifestyle and was very interested. Also came across a link to this site and decided to join. During a chat with another user I figured out that I was extremely submissive. No going back for me
Active Ink Slinger
I've always known I was submissive but never knew what that really was. That is, I always allowed others to have their way and I recall, as a teen, being turned on by older women "looking after me".
As I grew into an adult I kept a desire to be dominated hidden, even from my wife, though she playfully spanked me a couple of times. Eventually (around the time i was about 40, I started looking around online and met a wonderful Mistress who I had an 8 year relationship with. She taught me so much and brought so much of my inner self out, encouraging me to be open with her about my fetishes and desires, which I was.
As I grew into an adult I kept a desire to be dominated hidden, even from my wife, though she playfully spanked me a couple of times. Eventually (around the time i was about 40, I started looking around online and met a wonderful Mistress who I had an 8 year relationship with. She taught me so much and brought so much of my inner self out, encouraging me to be open with her about my fetishes and desires, which I was.
Active Ink Slinger
it was always lurking however so many people just do what i say because my husband is important. when a lover REALLY treated me like a submissive toy, i was so aroused. So now with lovers i am submissive and love it!
Active Ink Slinger
I was 19 and had just lost my virginity to my then bf. As our sexual relationship developed he would be more rough, pinning me down, biting, spanking me, telling me to fuck him like the cock hungry slut I was. It didn't take long for him to realise how wet and horny it made me so continued to push my boundaries and encourage my submissive nature
Active Ink Slinger
From my first experiences, the guy always making the first move, being fondled and later when I was eased down onto my knees to suck cock I had no doubt I was naturally submissive. In my thirties I've experienced the same with two assertive women on separate occasions.
A vivid memory of an incident in my early 30s put a lot of things into perspective for me.
I was always shy and socially awkward, especially around sexually assertive women. (Ironically, being shy and awkward, the few women I was with when young were very assertive---they basically had to conk me over the head.)
I had a girlfriend in my early 30s, the most serious (and longest) sexual relationship I'd ever been in. One night I was at her place. She had cooked us dinner and I was washing the dishes. She slid over to the sink, cupped my crotch and asked, "How's my dick?"
In a flash I understood something I'd never thought before: I wanted it to be her dick. I wanted to belong to her.
Unfortunately, she ended things and that was that. I still think of her and credit her with awakening me to some truths about myself that, before her, I could not see at all.
I was always shy and socially awkward, especially around sexually assertive women. (Ironically, being shy and awkward, the few women I was with when young were very assertive---they basically had to conk me over the head.)
I had a girlfriend in my early 30s, the most serious (and longest) sexual relationship I'd ever been in. One night I was at her place. She had cooked us dinner and I was washing the dishes. She slid over to the sink, cupped my crotch and asked, "How's my dick?"
In a flash I understood something I'd never thought before: I wanted it to be her dick. I wanted to belong to her.
Unfortunately, she ended things and that was that. I still think of her and credit her with awakening me to some truths about myself that, before her, I could not see at all.
Active Ink Slinger
6
Advanced Wordsmith
I was born submissive. I am intrigued at all the different views in this forum IRT what individuals believe submissiveness is.
It all started as I had moved to Germany. I had been studying in Holland and I visited lesbian bars, I was sleeping with a lot of girls.
My study lasted four years. And I never found a long lasting relation. The relations were most of the time one night stands or maybe two night stands.
I moved to Germany. I wanted to be submissive. I felt as a submissive it would be easier to get a long term relation.
That was true. I have had Mistresses with whom I had a long term relation. They were spanking me and I learned a lot from them.
My study lasted four years. And I never found a long lasting relation. The relations were most of the time one night stands or maybe two night stands.
I moved to Germany. I wanted to be submissive. I felt as a submissive it would be easier to get a long term relation.
That was true. I have had Mistresses with whom I had a long term relation. They were spanking me and I learned a lot from them.
Active Ink Slinger
Can't really pinpoint when exactly...but the 1st time I fucked a dominant woman , and she ordered me to kneel in front of her and ordered me to sniff her pussy through her panties .......Mmmm , I dont know who was wetter...her or me❤
Love and accept yourself 1st?
I think it was my 'first time.' I was with two great lads and it just felt right to allow them to do with me and to me all they wanted to do. From that afternoon, as we experimented together, I knew that I was totally submissive. I realised too that by acting in such a way caused them the biggest erections as they enjoyed using me how in the way's they wanted!
Active Ink Slinger
Before I knew what sex was. I don't remember a time when I wasn't fascinated by women. Unfortunately (or, rather, fortunately) the feelings were not reciprocated, on account of me being [number redacted]. I put a lot of it down to that: not knowing what i wanted, not being able to get it, but being willing to do anything to be around the people who, I somehow knew, had this mysterious power.
At a more acceptable age, I recall being friends with a group of older girls. They liked giving mew makeovers, and I adored the attention. I entered my first proper D/s relationship when I was 16. We switched a lot, but it gradually reached an equilibrium with me very much on the bottom. We tried everything under the sun, most of it twice, and I got my first weekend job so I could afford to buy her toys from Anne Summers.
At a more acceptable age, I recall being friends with a group of older girls. They liked giving mew makeovers, and I adored the attention. I entered my first proper D/s relationship when I was 16. We switched a lot, but it gradually reached an equilibrium with me very much on the bottom. We tried everything under the sun, most of it twice, and I got my first weekend job so I could afford to buy her toys from Anne Summers.
Once there was a man with a little too much time on his hands...
Active Ink Slinger
Ever since I can remember. I have always loved to please.
Rookie Scribe
the first time a man picked me up i ended up staying with him for two weeks while he dressed me an turned me into his plaything teaching me the joy of pleasuring someone
Active Ink Slinger
Ever since I was young say 12 13
Marx Sister
Before I ever had sex. Discovered that I'm pretty switchy later on.
My Featured Stories
The Snowglobe Conspiracy – Solving a great mystery | There Is No Butterfly – Time Travel competition entry | Incurable Arousal – Most viewed | Toxic, But Not Sinister – Mutual loathing at its finest | You Were – An experience in the second person | Desiderium – A scattering of lovers
The Snowglobe Conspiracy – Solving a great mystery | There Is No Butterfly – Time Travel competition entry | Incurable Arousal – Most viewed | Toxic, But Not Sinister – Mutual loathing at its finest | You Were – An experience in the second person | Desiderium – A scattering of lovers
I was younger (edited by admin for content) and working as a busboy in an upscale restaurant and when Ms. Susan was hired as a waitress (she was getting her PhD), the kitchen manager told her I was a virgin and she should I might be the last virgin she would ever meet and so why not take advantage of the opportunity to take a boy's innocence. She had no intention of doing me any favors, but over the next few weeks she asked me all sorts of questions about my life, my family, my personality, my experience with girls and I began to think she was just interested in me the way a big sister might be and I tried to push out any hope for anything more.
One Saturday, a few hours before closing, she came to me and invited me to go home with her and have a drink with her and her roommate, her very hot roommate she emphasized. Of course I accepted.
When we got to her apartment she introduced me to Darla, her roommate, and told me that both she and Darla preferred boys who could follow directions and do what they were told. She asked me if I could be a "good boy" for them both and do what they told me to do and when I said yes she made me strip down and when I was completely naked she began to explain the lifestyle of female domination and male submission. Since I was so inexperienced sexually, the sexualized way everything was introduced had a big impact on me and in some ways still does, and the following week when I returned to her house she told me that she owned me and I was hers to do with as she wished.
I remained hers for over six years and was released when it was time for me to begin college.
One Saturday, a few hours before closing, she came to me and invited me to go home with her and have a drink with her and her roommate, her very hot roommate she emphasized. Of course I accepted.
When we got to her apartment she introduced me to Darla, her roommate, and told me that both she and Darla preferred boys who could follow directions and do what they were told. She asked me if I could be a "good boy" for them both and do what they told me to do and when I said yes she made me strip down and when I was completely naked she began to explain the lifestyle of female domination and male submission. Since I was so inexperienced sexually, the sexualized way everything was introduced had a big impact on me and in some ways still does, and the following week when I returned to her house she told me that she owned me and I was hers to do with as she wished.
I remained hers for over six years and was released when it was time for me to begin college.