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I am curious. When did you find out about the lifestyle, and did you like it?
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When did you come into the lifestyle?
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Hi I am assuming that you mean BDSM rather than just swinging. Well I got into swinging in 1980 and around 81 I met a Domme called Angela. Though I had played with other women she was my first full on Lesbian lover. She was defiantly a Domme but it was all about control and psychology not physical. however she used restraint, dress control and control of my sexual activity when we were together. After Angela I moved to a more traditional Dom called Peter who was very skilled in the use of erotic paints would have been 82 /3 and since then I am an addict. I love to share the thrill of erotic pain and the deep sensuality it can lead to
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It all started after I have had a lot of bad experiences. I was a new lesbian. I was studying in Holland and I visited lesbian bars.
There I met a lot of girls with whom I slept. They invited to come to their apartment and we had sex. But that is all it was.
I only had one night stands or two night stands with them. My study lasted four years. I kept on going to lesbian bars and sleeping with girls.
My studies were over. I went to Germany. I wanted to be submissive. I was thinking as a submissive girl my relations will be long term.
That was true. In Germany I met a very sweet lady. She invited me to her home and there I found out that she is a Mistress. She taught me a lot.
She was replaced by her company to another country. I could not follow her and our relation ended. Then I met another girl. She was no Mistress.
We got together and I told her that I'm submissive. I asked her to spank me. She did spank me and she decided to become my Mistress.
After her I have been together with four other Mistresses. But the relation with the Mistresses was all the time long term.
There I met a lot of girls with whom I slept. They invited to come to their apartment and we had sex. But that is all it was.
I only had one night stands or two night stands with them. My study lasted four years. I kept on going to lesbian bars and sleeping with girls.
My studies were over. I went to Germany. I wanted to be submissive. I was thinking as a submissive girl my relations will be long term.
That was true. In Germany I met a very sweet lady. She invited me to her home and there I found out that she is a Mistress. She taught me a lot.
She was replaced by her company to another country. I could not follow her and our relation ended. Then I met another girl. She was no Mistress.
We got together and I told her that I'm submissive. I asked her to spank me. She did spank me and she decided to become my Mistress.
After her I have been together with four other Mistresses. But the relation with the Mistresses was all the time long term.
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I got into the lifestyle when I was 15, starting with online Masters, and then moving onto in person Doms when I was a little older. Met the man who is my husband at 18 so that was it for me. As far as swinging, similar story, but we still swing.
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When i was in school my mom and dad trained me.
Resident Otaku
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At 16, introduced to it by my online Dom who was 17. We were meant to continue a relationship in person 7 years later but I decided the distance was too far. I'm actually a switch who heavily leans towards dominant though.
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BDSM is not for me - I have tried it and didn't like it.
Advanced Wordsmith
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It's just a given. You know it, and when you realize it, you begin to develop it, transforming it into lifestyle
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In my early teens, and I haven't looked back
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my oldest friend. First, her patronage, then trust, her experience, and indisputable great authority, then experiment and curiosity.
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This is the same as asking "tell me about yourself". I don't remember ha-ha. You have to come to this intuitively. Feel it with every fiber of your soul.