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Rookie Scribe
Someone who's not afraid to hurt me make me feel make me scream or moan
Rookie Scribe
Someone who's not afraid to hurt me make me feel make me scream or moan
Active Ink Slinger
I think it’s different for each, it’s like puzzle pieces and they have to fit together. Personally I appreciate a loving caring domme who is intelligent, graceful and commanding.
Active Ink Slinger
My first Dom was one of my high school teachers that I started dating when I was 17 and he was 25. About two months into our relationship I accepted his collar. We were a Master / sub couple for four years. This was all very new to me but I did know there had to be love and trust between my Master and me for this to work. My two stories posted here are about a gang bang he brought me too. They are titled, "My First Gang Bang and Golden Shower Parts 1 & 2."
My second Master is Hubbie. I became his sub about a year after we were married over 38 years ago. I have been his sub for over 37 years. Again this required both love and trust. Trust that your Master will not go beyond your establish limits, he will respect your safe word and caress you after the scene.
I have also be loaned out and auctioned off to other Masters for a short term like a weekend to a whole week. In this type situation I had to be comfortable that the trust was there. I few were part of our swing group so there was some love and trust. In the auctions all the Master / bidders were vetted by the organization sponcering the auction. The trust was there due to the long running reputation of the sponcering organization. I was involved for 11 years and did not have a problem of even hear of a problem of the Master going beyond the established limits or not honoring the safe words.
Brandie
My second Master is Hubbie. I became his sub about a year after we were married over 38 years ago. I have been his sub for over 37 years. Again this required both love and trust. Trust that your Master will not go beyond your establish limits, he will respect your safe word and caress you after the scene.
I have also be loaned out and auctioned off to other Masters for a short term like a weekend to a whole week. In this type situation I had to be comfortable that the trust was there. I few were part of our swing group so there was some love and trust. In the auctions all the Master / bidders were vetted by the organization sponcering the auction. The trust was there due to the long running reputation of the sponcering organization. I was involved for 11 years and did not have a problem of even hear of a problem of the Master going beyond the established limits or not honoring the safe words.
Brandie
Active Ink Slinger
Obviously, because we are all different, we all have different needs or wants from our Dom/mes.
For me it is important that I am spanked often and spanked hard. I equate spankings with love. That is, when my Mistress spanks me, it is then that i feel She loves me. When I am not spanked I feel She doesn't care. It is the one thing that sets us apart from other couples. Without the discipline we are just good friends... very good friends, yes, but just friends.
As a submissive i am offering my body up to her to use as She wants and She takes that offering and uses it because She loves me. If She isn't taking the offering, then where is the love?
For me it is important that I am spanked often and spanked hard. I equate spankings with love. That is, when my Mistress spanks me, it is then that i feel She loves me. When I am not spanked I feel She doesn't care. It is the one thing that sets us apart from other couples. Without the discipline we are just good friends... very good friends, yes, but just friends.
As a submissive i am offering my body up to her to use as She wants and She takes that offering and uses it because She loves me. If She isn't taking the offering, then where is the love?
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by mixedbabygirl.
This is to all the submissive men and women out there. What do you look for in Dom, Daddy, Master, Mistress?
Just curious
I would say someone who knows my limits, able to laugh and Cates about me.