I am a submissive typically and i enjoy following set rules and risking punishment when i break the rules. I want to bring up this desire to my partner but I would like to have some ideas for him when I do. Any suggestions?
I tend to be very hypercritical of myself so as a sub i love rules that make me take notice of myself.
Standing in front of a mirror naked and listing good things about myself
Never talking bad or making jokes about myself when nervous
As far as rules from a Dom i like one who has rules about the respect they want.
Waiting to be told before i can touch them
Certain ways i need to walk close to them, or even always be touching them slightly in public
Having to check in and write about my day.
I think any conversation you have can spark some ideas. Go slow and have Him think of what he would like to see. Rules will be an ever evolving part of your relationship.
As above really. Any punishments should be within your set boundaries of course. It is something best discussed between yourselves .
