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Quote by varv

With whom? I agree with you here. But what does age have to do with it?


i wasn't actually responding to the age part with that answer, but to the part where it felt like the question was being asked 'what does it matter if you're submissive' which sounded to me like the assumption was, if you're a sub, you don't really have any say in things. smile

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

I so want a dom man friend to please. I want to be a sub sissy for him
If he's a few years younger than I am, that's fine, but I'd have a hard time taking them seriously if they were like 10 years younger than me. But as others have said, its mostly about the person, not the age.
I like to have my FEMDOMs 10 years either side of my age, but if shes 20 years younger I won't write her off.

The Domme I am seeing at the moment is 22 years younger than me. It doesn’t seem to be a problem for either of us.

When in my submissive phases, what I seek and expect from a Dominant is stability, maturity and experience... it is way difficult to find that in a ylunger person...

As has been said before, age does not matter but maturity and attitude do. I need a Mistress with a mature outlook, who understands not just her role but human nature and cares enough to look after me properly and encourage my self development which means I'll be able to serve her better

Personally I prefer older than me.My Mistress is 13 years older than me. However I would allow a younger woman to dominate me

Within reason it wouldn't matter to me. I'm not someone to have sex randomly, so the relationship part is just as important (if not more) as the bedroom part. If there is a connection between the two of you then it shouldn't really matter. Even if they had less experience with BDSM than I did, that doesn't mean I can't enjoy the process of discovery together. If anything, that would strengthen the relationship, and might even let me discover something new I to enjoy.

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Quote by varv

With whom? I agree with you here. But what does age have to do with it?

if you prefer to be with someone of a certain age group, then that is your choice, not the Dom/mes. Some people like older Dommes, some prefer closer to their own age, and some might want a younger Dom/me.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

Quote by Peter242
Does the age of your dom matter to you? Would you feel at ease if your Dom was twenty years younger than you?

Age does not matter. I'm 10 years younger than you. I am at your beckon will!