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Whatever.......
Quote by Mikeintexas
Whatever.......


By this, do you mean whatever punishment you've received has worked for you? That's great! Maybe you'd like to share that list with everybody, since that's what the thread is about.

Edit: Ooo, I spy subterfuge! I think you need to try something else on her. :
Ut incepit fidelis, sic permanet.

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Quote by Mikeintexas
Whatever.......


I'm not sure I understand what you mean by that, can you elaborate please?
I find that the punishment should reflect the deed and depend on how well the Sub learns their lesson.

Funishments... Totally different story :P
My profile picture was a punishment....
My profile picture was a punishment....
My profile picture was a punishment....
Reading through this thread, I see there is a general consensus here on a couple of points.

One of those points is that punishments should be given based on the crime, and that one standard punishment for everything isn't really practical. Which, except for certain circumstances, is something that I agree with.

The other major point is that punishments which are sadistic are somehow bad. Which, as a sadist, thoroughly amuses me. Punishments are not supposed to be pleasurable.

Now, when it comes to the whole punishment thing in general, there are three things which I think are very important and which I use.

1) Communicate. These things should rarely be made up on a whim and tossed out on a dime. While that can be done in certain relationships, that level of power exchange is something that comes from years of knowing each other and understanding what is and isn't appropriate. Until that depth of understanding is accomplished, if it ever is, communicating about this is necessary. Talk about what methods of punishment are okay and what is too far. Talk about what things are punishable, and what can be overlooked. Communicate. Even the silent treatment has its practical uses, but just like everything else it should be talked about first.

2) Respect boundaries and limits. Through the communication phase, a lot of these will come up. When there is something that they are not okay doing, do not make them do it to punish them. Be okay with the fact that they aren't willing to do certain things, and find other ways to enforce discipline.

3) Reward. Punishments are nice and all, but I have found that including a potential for rewards usually works better. With a desire to please me and experience something enjoyable, that alone is often more than enough to not need a punishment. And, again, communication is necessary to figure out what is rewardable and what isn't.

Another thing to keep in mind is that a lot of people are simply different. One submissive might rather scrub the bathroom floor with a tooth brush instead of taking on the Tabasco challenge mentioned earlier, and another might rather be whipped for a solid hour than spend one fourth of that time scrubbing the bathroom floor.

That is why communication is important. There is no one size fits all to anything. You have to learn your partner as you go, and that requires talking.
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Silent treatment is the worst along with dissapointing my master. I'm an insecure little shit so I get get really upset when Master doesn't talk to me, is angry at me etc. I feel like everything is my fault and that I don't deserve anything. When master is dissapointed my heart constricts and I start crying and then I eventually fall asleep in self pity.
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