Isn't it all about your personality and your sexual preferences? Why do people have to fit a mould or be one or the other? It isn't binary. There are no rules. You are free to take on what ever role you wish. If that means submitting to one person but dominant with other, then it is what it is. If you like to be in control sometimes and be controlled other times with a partner who shares your values, then so be it. And if you are a switch and find yourself in a relationship where you feel like you get more out of being the submissive, or the other, then you are. Its one thing that bugs me when I read peoples posts in this part of the site. So many people think that you have to be labelled in some way. I think switches are far more interesting. It just means you like variety. I'll never be owned or have a master, nor will I be a domme to some sissy. I dont want someone totally submitting to me, I see that as weak. Fight a little, push back. I like to fight for control, as I do when being controlled. I find that far more exciting that being meek and just taking it. So, once a switch, always a switch? Its an individual thing. There is no right or wrong answer.
Didn't read all of the reply...as for me its like bisexual....wanting it all...the complete experience....top and bottom
For the right person ...with the right person...I am in....I am in cyber bdsm ...switching...no apologies...
Only recently I discovered that I can switch from a Sub to a Dome... I don't enjoy being a Dome though...