Does anyone practice male orgasam denial. My wife & I have entered a wife led relationship & one of her request is that she decides when & if I should have an orgasam. We still have intercourse but she has me stop befor I finish. She has plenty of orgasams but as of yet I have had none. Any thoughts on this practice
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The Engineer
Well i am a virgin so no sex for me but none the less.... i have seen videos on net u know where girls instruct you to cum ,not to cum,make fun of you...its nice!!! i like it
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The Engineer
Well i am a virgin so no sex for me but none the less.... i have seen videos on net u know where girls instruct you to cum ,not to cum,make fun of you...its nice!!! i like it
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Sounds positively daft to me. Sex is about giving and taking the ultimate pleasure and thrills nature has bestowed us with and I love to know and feel my man cum wildly inside me as often and as powerfully as he can and wants to ... but I like to have my orgasms also and as many as my body tells me I need.
It's just a two way thing where two peoples flesh fuse into one for the privilege of mutual satisfaction ... and any corruption of that is strange and is not normal to me.
It's just a two way thing where two peoples flesh fuse into one for the privilege of mutual satisfaction ... and any corruption of that is strange and is not normal to me.
Cheeky Chick
I've been the Domme in a relationship and often did the denial route. I did it for fun and sometimes I did it for punishment.
I love having that control. It's very thrilling.
I love having that control. It's very thrilling.
Story Verifier
I have to be pretty close with a guy to know both that he's into this, and that I'm the girl to do it to him. I love what I get later when I do it, though, ;)
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The reasoning behind this practice is that the male directs all his sexual energy towards pleaseing his wife, he is also ready to have sex with her,orally all the time. My wife allows me to have intercourse with her but after she has an orgasam I must stop. When she is in the mood for a man to explode in her she has several friends willing to help her out
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I have often told him to 'pull out" but never denied him the opportunity to finish it off personally.
When I'm on top; hubby knows I will control his movements. It's a game I play. Sometimes when we are rocking and he's close, I will purposely stop and tell him 'not yet' or 'not now' Or stop, not say a word, lay forward and kiss his lips. The denial is there. After a few minutes, we are rockin' again and both cum at about the same time.
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The reasoning behind this practice is that the male directs all his sexual energy towards pleaseing his wife, he is also ready to have sex with her,orally all the time. My wife allows me to have intercourse with her but after she has an orgasam I must stop. When she is in the mood for a man to explode in her she has several friends willing to help her out
Are your balls aching?
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Are your balls aching?
That made me giggle. I have denied orgasms before, but have always given in later. I enjoy having that control and power to know what it takes to make my guy cum and to also know if I say stop he will. It's very erotic during the heat of the moment. I have also had the tables turned on me as well. Both equally hot.
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It sounds like it might be wicked fun. Well, maybe for a little while.
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Does anyone practice male orgasam denial. My wife & I have entered a wife led relationship & one of her request is that she decides when & if I should have an orgasam. We still have intercourse but she has me stop befor I finish. She has plenty of orgasams but as of yet I have had none. Any thoughts on this practice
You say, ".. but as of yet I have had none" How long has it been since you'd been allowed to orgasm? If we're talking a few days, or even a week, then that could be fun if you're both into it. But, since you say you've had NONE.... and if it's been a month or several months or a year, then that is not good at all. That is abusive and unnecessary. A true dominant would never be so hateful to her sub to never allow release. Orgasm denial is one thing, never is something completely different.
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It's a fun game we play from time to time.
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The reasoning behind this practice is that the male directs all his sexual energy towards pleaseing his wife, he is also ready to have sex with her,orally all the time. My wife allows me to have intercourse with her but after she has an orgasam I must stop. When she is in the mood for a man to explode in her she has several friends willing to help her out
The several friends explode in her or girlfriends help her help you explode?
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I don't really call it denial, but I've had a few girls bring me to the edge, back and forth for literally an hour. It's very extreme and when I finally cum, spectacular. One particular girl literally "milked" me for a full hour! Wow I cannot describe it in words
Edging.
It. Is. Awesome! when you finally cum.
"Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than open one's mouth and remove all doubt" - Mark Twain (or Lincoln, or Confucius, or...)
When I was in college I dated a lot of married women. They were the horniest and most open about it...very honest about what they wanted. Hubby would sometimes get to watch but my rule was 'only if he's horny'. In other words, his wife denied him sex for a minimum of 3 days before she and I would get together. That made him very horny and more obedient to our commands and wishes. It was necessary if I was going to have him clean her after I fucked her. If hubby had jacked off or wifey had fucked him, he didn't want to get his mouth down there and suck our sex slime out of her freshly fucked pussy. If he was horny, he couldn't wait...much to the pleasure and amusement of his eager wife. The girls loved the control and I gave them the reason they needed to deny him. He could eat her out all he wanted but wasn't allowed to fuck her or jack off. All this because of denial.
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I find the practice totally boring. I much prefer edging and making my guy cum uncontrollably then the real fun begins teasing that sensitive cock till he can't take anymore.
Bunny12
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off!
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off!
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Being pent up and horny is much like being drunk. It lowers one's inhibitions and can make everyone else appear to be more attractive. In this regard, I can certainly see the benefit. It'll make him more willing to do various things and it will take far less to get him in the mood. Not to mention that having sex without cumming is basically a form of edging. When that orgasm finally does happen, it's gonna be huge and intense. Seems like a win-win to me.
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When I'm on top; hubby knows I will control his movements. It's a game I play. Sometimes when we are rocking and he's close, I will purposely stop and tell him 'not yet' or 'not now' Or stop, not say a word, lay forward and kiss his lips. The denial is there. After a few minutes, we are rockin' again and both cum at about the same time.
Do this sort of thing all the time. Is that orgasm denial, or just trying to time it right?
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All I can say is "To each his own." As long as that pleases you, have fun with it (doesn't sound like fun to me, though). Honestly, that kind of denial ("so far I have had none") is completely foreign to me.
I practice "temporary" denial - a sub-genre of edging, more like "orgasm deferred". When I play, I like to play for at least two hours, my favorite being three (three hours just feels right - if I'm with a partner or partners who can't keep it going, or keep it interesting and exciting for that long, I probably won't have a very long relationship with them). We change it up with different locations (kitchen, living room, hot tub, bedroom, ESPECIALLY out in the back yard) and of course different positions, permuting the possibilities.
If you like your habits and find your kind of denial rewarding, then more power to you, and go for it!
"I'll give you many, but I require at least one in return."
I practice "temporary" denial - a sub-genre of edging, more like "orgasm deferred". When I play, I like to play for at least two hours, my favorite being three (three hours just feels right - if I'm with a partner or partners who can't keep it going, or keep it interesting and exciting for that long, I probably won't have a very long relationship with them). We change it up with different locations (kitchen, living room, hot tub, bedroom, ESPECIALLY out in the back yard) and of course different positions, permuting the possibilities.
If you like your habits and find your kind of denial rewarding, then more power to you, and go for it!
"I'll give you many, but I require at least one in return."
Advanced Wordsmith
I like watching this kind of thing but fucking without ejaculation is not really my thing. it's like chewing food and spitting out
colin123
My wife often plays this with me, I pleasure her and she will stroke my balls and cock afterwards but I am not allowed to cum. This can be done for many days until she decides I am allowed to cum. Her favourite is to let me cum on her tits but I have to agree to lick them clean afterwards.