I'm becoming curious about it more and more. I am completely ignorant on this subject as I've only read about it (websites and fiction) and have not had an opportunity to have a frank discussion about this with someone that understands.
I'm a control freak in my day by day life, which leads men to believe I want to control sex as well (and planning the romantic/date night dinners that lead to sex). I really do not want this and enjoy when a man takes over my body. However that has only happened once to me and the relationship ended after 3 months, leaving me feeling empty and unfulfilled.
How do I go about finding someone who understand my need give up control with my life in regards to the sexual part, but retain it outside of that? Is it possible in this kind of relationship?
I'm don't mean to sound like a complete idiot and if I'm romancing this too much, then please tell me. From what I've read, I've seen a few different aspects of a Dom/Sub relationship. Some are about complete control, some about a lot of pain, some about humiliation and some about handing over my sexuality to a Dom.
I do appreciate anyone that can educate me on this matter. Thank you so much.
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