I would love to tie a girl down spreadeagled and put ice cubes in her pussy and then continually apply pressure with a vibrator. The thought of her not being able to stop and just screaming in pleasure is a real turn on. Is this normal.
Ice cubes at the pussy is such a turn on, as is the vibrator!!!!! I think I would scream with pleasure yes!!!!
While playing with the cold, have your favorite hot beverage handy, take a largiss drink and hold it in your mouth transferring the heat to your tounge and lips, then return to your oral attentions and hold on!
All I could say is that it depends on one's point of view.
No such thing as "normal" One person's normal is what other people might see as weird and vice versa.
If it works for you then it is normal, sometimes emotions such as guilt, disgust and surprise can make us question what is the in the realms of normality
Holding the vibe, or an ice cube on her erect little love button can drive her crazy too.
Normal is a setting on your clothes dryer. It doesn't really apply to sex between two (or more) consenting adults.