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Quote by collcatgirl16
I want a master whos experienced! And knows what he's doing and doesn't have to ask me what i want
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Wanting a good Master is normal. You need to have an understanding of each other way before you enter into a M/s relationship with him. Much needs to be discussed on both sides. He HAS to know your wants, needs and desires as well as your limits and fears otherwise how is he to teach and guide you? Or push your limits and help you grow as his submissive. There is so much that goes into this and good communication and trust is the key.
Without that you are opening yourself up to so much including abuse if you enter into this with the wrong man. Just because a man calls himself a Master, does not automatically make him one. Many of us do not know exactly the extent of what we want to need, the level of control or domination we are comfortable with until we experience it. Its a learning process for you as his submissive to soak up the knowledge he has to teach you to become the best you can be for him.
It took me over a year to find the right one for me and when I did we talked for a long time before even considering entering into this type of relationship. I can't stress enough to have patience and seek out the best Master to suit your needs and you his. There are many wannabe's out there and want to just "play" the part. You have to decide if you want a strictly online type of relationship or if you want something in real life as well. For many its a play choice and for others like me, its a lifestyle choice. Once you figure that out, the rest will fall into place and be easier for you to find what you are looking for.
The best of luck to you in your search.