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How do you liked to be spanked or to give them?

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sassycheergirl
Lollipop Girl
I rather be spanked...Only with a hand or a wood paddle havent tried other things yet not sure if I want to at this time...
"Haters make me FAMOUS!!!"



Sassy
Daddypleaser
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Over the knee. Start out soft and get harder. Talk to me the whole time, dirtier the better. After a bit, spread my legs so the spanking reaches everything. Oh yes. Thank you Sir, may I have another?
Guest
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I like being spanked over a mans knee with my skirt or dress lifted up
AliCinnamon
Active Ink Slinger
I've always enjoyed taking a firm OTK hand spanking, but not until last year (in my late 30s) did I ever consider switching. However, after finding myself in bed with a very experienced Switch woman, who absolutely insisted on being spanked, I tentatively gave it a go, and....found it an unexpected but absolutely massive turn-on!

I'm constantly amazed at how people can suddenly unlock previously hidden parts on their sexuality at any age. I spent two decades being spanked (although never in a true D/S relationship, only once in a while in vanilla relationships to 'spice things up' occasionally lol), without ever realsing how much I'd love to be the dominant partner administering the punishment!
Guest
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As I'm NOT a sub, BEING spanked is OUT! As to the method employed in "giving" that is dependent upon the sub. As the old saying goes, "Different strokes for different folks." Some enjoy a MILD spanking, others prefer more spanking and still others are into extreme spanking. Each Dom and sub need to work out IN ADVANCE what IS and IS NOT "on the agenda".
Ember
Active Ink Slinger
Being spanked!
pentup47
Active Ink Slinger
Soooooo love being spanked. Message me if you you'd like to try it via Lush.
Baby_Rain
Active Ink Slinger
I like to be spanked and prefer it the good old fashioned way of over the knee
Im here to make you squeal one way or another
Meggsy
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I don't mind a slap across the ass during a doggy. Thats about my limit though.
easyalice
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Enjoy a light to moderate spanking, especially in the doggie position.
ChuckEPoo
Chuckanator
I give them in the heat of passion. But I olny spank very very good girls.
Tifft10
Rookie Scribe
Spanked, OTK, is my favoritesmile
NaughtyG
Active Ink Slinger
I like to be spanked.
playhard52
Rookie Scribe
I like to give with her over my knee and her legs open so I can sexually tease her as I spank. I start with a light spanking then play with her until she is close to orgasm at which point I resume the spanking a little harder this time. I keep doing this until her bottom is a nice shade of pink and she is begging for me to get her off. More than one woman has said their orgasm has been very intense when I do this.
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I can give a very good spanking, but I prefer to receive. My favorite, is to be in a room full of clothed ppl and stood behind the sofa wearing only stockings , heels , and panties (usually red satin) with my hands bound behind me. Then, bent at the waist with my head in the seat cushion. My legs straight and spread wide , with my ankles tied to the legs of the sofa. My back arched and ready with my ass straight up in the air. Then holding in position for a bit of time for all to casually stroll by and caress and grope my ass for a while.. then taking turns giving my ass swats
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Like to be spanked
theweeman
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I love to be spanked but my favourite is the crop. My preference is to be naked with my Mistress fully clothed. I do like to be across her lap, however the use of some implements makes it more practical for me to be on all fours on the bed, so that a full swing can take effect.

When it starts I am nearly always fully erect. The spanking really starts to take effect though, once the erection has subsided. At that point it is the pain kicking in and not the sexual arousal, although for me there is always some sexual arousal.

I love to feel the crop being gently rubbed across my buttocks in between sets. I love feeling it gently dragged between my cheeks until it touches my scrotum. I love that I know this will lead to more punishment. I love the feel of new implements be they wooden spoon, table tennis paddle or leather strap. I have not yet been caned - we were always fearful of leaving too long lasting marks (since our relationship was illicit) - but I am keen to feel that pain the cane provides. But despite all that my absolute favourite is feeling Her hand caress my burning cheeks.

When the spanking is over and the tears are still in my eyes i love - I absolutely love - being cradled by Mistress and watching whilst she releases a breast for my mouth to suckle. Lying across her lap suckling after a hard painful spanking is when i feel most at peace.
Guest
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To give them lol
Guest
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An old flame loved to dominate. She would tie me to the bed. What she determined to be "Bad" behavior by me would get a leather paddle across my plugged ass. By the time she would finally make me cum, I was so horny, so I would prefer to get a spanking!
MRGGG
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I've ALWAYS loved a bit of OTK - EROTIC SPANKING. Nothing too intense pain-wise and it can be mutual too.

For anybody who has tried the GSpot technique and found that it works AND likes a spanking now and then - COMBINE the TWO. (( ))

A good OTK and every 10 swats or so give her two to five rapid G-Gasms and then 10 swats. Alternate that back and forth. Keep it rapid and frenzied, pull her hair, lock only one leg down so she can kick the other around, keep one arm firmly over the small of her back so she feels
(and IS ) trapped and can't get away. MAKE her submit just a little longer than she wants to. She'll be screaming and begging you to stop. Don't. Part of the thrill for her is NOT knowing if you'll just keep going until she goes completely nutz or passes out from the intensity. I don't think most women can continue this for more than two or three minutes once they start having G-Gasms. It is just too intense. The spanking combines the kinkiness and submission AND the GSpot orgasms can be administered almost like spanks..."WHAT did you call me? OK - That's TEN more!!" It is awesome.

Afterwards reward her with a COLD cold cream bum rub. Aloe Vera based
body lotions are great. Put it in the fridge for a while first. When you start spreading the COLD cream over her red cheeks she'll melt. Give her a few more (slower - softer) G-Gasms while you're doing the bum rub.
Bustysub
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I love being spanked but definitely prefer to be with a hand as opposed to other tools. I like the connection of flesh against flesh, much more personal in my opinion
Bustysub
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I love being spanked but definitely prefer to be with a hand as opposed to other tools. I like the connection of flesh against flesh, much more personal in my opinion
Oli_
Butterfly
I love the feel of hands over my ass... stings and burns are so arousing no matter how hard you spank me with your hands :P
puppett
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hand, though i did enjoy the one time with a flogger.
over the knees or with butt up and face down in pillow.