well you can try slipping the word "master" in while you are engaged...you know, sort of start planting the seed..
You might think about selecting a story or four from the Lush library. There are several fine tales here.
Something with the general theme which turns you on greatly...and email your man the web link or the actual story via email.
If he reads it and likes it...you'll probably know. Likewise, if you freak him out...well, there ya have it.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Just be up front and totally honest with him...You would want him to be honest with you right? If he is unsure have him look online about it to get more information. Hope it turns out well for you! Good Luck!!
"Haters make me FAMOUS!!!"
Sassy
Little things, riffing on what others have said...
Even simpler than 'Master'....use the word 'Sir'. It allows for a bit more freedom and, from my experience, isn't as threatening to a person who is unfamiliar with D/s scenes and lifestyle.
Besides, if you're not 100% about his reactions and you want to try this out...starting small with stories and videos is a great idea. Getting him to read up on some of the simpler aspects of D/s culture, and read along with him. Always be opento questions and concerns that he might have. and start out nice and slow.
Good luck =)
I am not into sexual domination but would rather have domination in football.
I love being dominated by my Master. However there is no abuse in our relationship. but to have a man protect me and tell me no...mmmmmm awesome
doing my best to be good..
Just as you finish and are comming down from the euphoria, say something like "wow, that was great, I want to do that a lot more"
I am sure he will not complain!!!!!
i love a man to dominate me-always-the way it SHOULD be.
there's a lot sense in the "subtle moves" posted higher. But what if he's just a "normal guy" more prone to alternated or reverse roleplay? May you please keep updating your progress.
Trying to sound cool. Too much work left.
there's a lot sense in the "subtle moves" posted higher. But what if he's just a "normal guy" more prone to alternated or reverse roleplay? May you please keep updating your progress.
Trying to sound cool. Too much work left.
True and natural dominants (male or female) demonstrate their personality through actions and words. The "natural-born leader" shows it when called upon. The "control" needn't be enforced with sadism or brutality, however. Many subs/slaves talk about "The Look" -- there's something in the eyes, the voice, the sheer expression of a dominant that most people recognize as "Obey!" or simply "Don't mess with this person". It doesn't have to be fear necessarily, but it is total respect.
There's also a lot of talk, especially from newcomers, about "How can I become a Dominant?" I believe either you have it or you don't. Strength of character is important, too, but it's not about being a "control freak", rather it's being in control of yourself and easily confident. Submissives are crafty and can tell in a heartbeat if someone is dominant or not.
You already play with some light bondage, so during one of those great bondage fuck sessions, when he is really worked up and pounding you hard, start to talk dirty to him. Say things to him like “My body belongs to you; use my body; You own me; that’s it, fuck me like a slut; fuck me hard; fuck me like your slave” It may intensify his excitement and open the door to a conversation after where you tell him exactly what you want.
helppppp? xx
