Im new to lush and to the whole domination thing my girlfriend really wants to try it out and it seems like fun i just dont know anything about it!
Any ideas and or links would be greatly appreciated!
whos being the dom and whos being the sub ?
Thank you very much for the insight and thanks for the link!
I'll read them over to see which ones seem best suited to our thoughts
It is a lot of fun. A good book to get your started is SM101 by Jay Wiseman.
I would first start off with a little light bondage. Tie her hands behind her back and blindfold her.
The possibilities are endless from there...licking, spanking, nibbling, teasing - mmmm.
See if she likes that, then you could move on to more things! Enjoy!
One of my favorites is also orgasm denial.
Don't let your woman cum for X number of days. Have her play with herself to the point of orgasm, but make sure it stops there. If she does cum without your permission, she will be punished. You will need her to be very truthful with you, if she does cum she has to be open and honest. That is what makes this task even more challenging and exciting.
Punishments do not always have to be physical and I think that's where most people misunderstand the BDSM lifestyle. Sure at times they do in the form of spanking, whipping, rough sex etc but not always. You could find something that she really likes (chatting on Lush, her iPad) and let her know that could be one of her punishments if she disobeys you.
Hope you two can enjoy this lifestyle, remember trust is key.
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