Come introduce yourself and tell us a lil about you.

26 Oct 2013

Hello there everyone.

I have been reading here on Lush for about 2 years now, when I first got here I would have sworn I was a vanilla as possible. Yet after a few weeks of reading stories here on Lush i began to realize something i would never in a million years have guessed, I was in fact I enjoyed being dominant in my fantasies. About the same time I had started wandering into the chat rooms here on lush, meeting some cute young girl for a night of fun, that kind of thing. The more that happened, the more i grew in my interest of the Dom / Sub relationship. I will be the first to point out that I am probably not the average Dom. In fact, I find that the few Doms that i respect are self proclaimed out of the norm Doms.

I will agree there are a lot of guys, and im sure a woman or two, here on lush, who claim to be Doms but really just as a way to excuse being a douche bag and begging people for photos and to be their cum puppet for the night. Needless to say, i am less than a fan of these people.

Personally, I find that what I enjoy the most as a Dom is the intimacy and trust between the people in the relationship. I find the most rewarding part is being able to bring my partner happiness, that being physical, emotional, or even helping keep them in line. I have been told a lot that I am not the cold, stern, Master that many women here have come across, or i assume think of when they think of a Dom. But I am more interested in being me, and if that makes me the perfect Dom then good, and if that makes me a horrible Dom, thats ok too. Im not a title, im just myself.

27 Oct 2013

I am training to be a dom . I have asked a friend here who is a dom to give me pointers. I have always admired the lifestyle and I am willing to learn everything about it.

11 Nov 2013

Hi All! I'm Nobie, I've been on the fence of a few lifestyles due to my now ex husband. Due to his violent actions and bipolar behavior I haven't found a true partner to explore with. I want to find my Dom/Master .....the reason why nothing's felt perfect before.

25 Nov 2013

A great big Hello & how do ya do ?! I have been reading this forum for quite some time and feel as if I know some of you through the words that you have written. I am fascinated by so many of you! Your each absolutely beautiful!
I am new to this lifestyle . The knowledge I have gleaned about BDSM has mainly been through self education.
I have read EVERYTHING I can lay my eyes upon. Book knowledge pales in comparison to life experience.
My spouse has been active in this lifestyle for 2 or more years. Unfortunately he was not active with me. It has only recently come to light...
What I know I WANT and NEED is a Daddy Dom.. what my spouse is ,at heart , is a sub and @ times he does like a little switch every now and again.
His Mistress has almost complete control over his mind. She has helped him become the absolute BEST lover ANYONE could ever want! Good Lord how that man melts me!
I am a strong woman. I come from a long line of strong women in my family tree. However I do not want to be in control or put the guise out that I am.
Inside this middle aged body of mine is a small flawed frightened child . In need of structure, discipline & tuff love.
What I am trying to do is put what I need , want & like away and give my man what it is he needs .. A Mistress that will help him succeed in life in every aspect. I am working hard to discipline myself & lock that naughty little needy girl away forever. In her place WILL stand the best educated ,kind hearted,in control, rose petal soft with barbed wire edges Mistress.
Aha what a conundrum ....

26 Nov 2013

hello, I am 2dmhorny. 44 and I have been into bondage stuff since I was like 9 or 10, I was making my own bondage suits without ever having known what they where called. im now wanting to get into making my own latex suits. somewhat of what society whould call a total perv if they could open my brain and see all the stuff running around in there. don't have anyone in the outside world to talk to r share with about this kind of thing either..

26 Nov 2013

I am a sex starved married guy. Have always had a thing for younger ladies .i.e around 10 years younger. Then in my 40s had affair with lady 20 years younger. These days I luv checking out girls 16 to 20. This lust has increased since coming to this site.

Also am bi and luv sucking a nice cock occasionally. This is another fetish that stared later in life

27 Nov 2013

Hi, my name is James and I really get turned on my being vulerable to a woman's power and command. I also love to be in power of a oman and giving her what I want to. Never explored it as far as I would like to though. I am very interested in being tied up, teased and used by a very sexual woman.

5 Jan 2014

My name is really Ceiran - my parents were Irish immigrants from the Gaeltacht region of Co Cork and liked traditional names for me and my siblings.

I have two girls (mid and late twenties actually) who call me Sir, though they don't live with me. I can usually count on at least one of them being at my home when I get there from work, dinner either ready or close to it. They do my cleaning, laundry and shopping. We do have contracts that expire yearly, but in the five years with one and three with the other, neither has shown any inclination to do anything but renew.

I'm not much into the S/M part, more rely on the D/S with some B/D when they need to be corrected. They're both very turned on by all of it and more than willing to do just about anything I ask of them.

I won't be around much as my time with work and them is valuable. But I do hope to make some contacts here, perhaps to learn some new and interesting ways to keep my pair on edge smile

9 Jan 2014

Hi, I'm Sara and new to "Lush". I have a rapidly developing urge to be submissive, but only in regard to my sexual pleasure. I love the feeling of being sexually teased by another woman, but denied any sexual release until she approves. Most dommes seem to demand full control of their subs.

31 Jan 2014

Hi I'm Whitney, I've been interested in this type of relationship for a long while now but only actively have participated for the last few months. I am a sub and love kind but strict Doms and guys in general who know what they want. I love all types of D/s relationships

3 Feb 2014

Hi I'm looking for a couple in jboro that will help me not scare me I've been interested since my teens but in ark its been hard to find someone when your shy. I'm married but seperated and my friend of two yrs has said that he'd be with me if this is what I want to do.

10 Feb 2014

hey im a lesbian sub curious to chat with a lesbian dom

4 Apr 2014

*bows*

Greetings. I am new to Lush (almost 1 month and asked my bf to join the same day I did, hoping to read and write stories together). What I know about BDSM has mainly been through my own observations and insights. (Self-taught?) confused

IDK... I had a little help.

I have been involved and a self-professed BDSM-er for about a year and 9 months or so, now. July 12th will be the ["official"] 2 year anni for me and my boyfriend [who knew each other for about a six months prior and were close friends and then bestfriends before we began dating in early June] which just after we officially started dating we both quickly realised certain things ~ together. We knew of BDSM things, but were not a part of the lifestyle yet. He had never been a D/s relationship and I had never been in one (not in the BDSM-sense), until we got togther.

My Dom is actually a Daddy-Dom. I do not call him a "Master" -though it may have started that way. I consider myself much more of a submissive, but I am a Switch. I call him Daddy. Rarely am I a Mistress to him rather than his Little Girl.

It has been a thrilling and intimate experience and relationship. We BOTH discover things at the same time as the other one, things happen organically and naturally - it is a real turn on. We really like that we have a serious, exclusive relationship & we are a very good match for each other as well as inlove. If we should marry and continue in the furture, I would imagine this will continue to be part of our lifestyles and lives. We have always agreed that keeping a relationship kinky and exciting, as well as trying new things, is something that we feel is a very good thing. We know where we draw certain lines, and yet in other ways we have yet discover those limits.

We are an interracial (?) couple or maybe you would call us "intercultural"/interethnic relationship, and we have a good sized age difference that makes for another interesting aspect. I am the one who is older & had not dated a younger man except once or twice. I am divorced and have a boy who is almost grown. None of that has seemed to matter in a negative sense, though, and I feel our relationship is quite rare. We actually met online on another site that was not about kinks or a dating site or anything...so a relationship was not something I was wanting or looking for.

Into the D/s and the B/D more than the S&M - but we do some: spankings, some non-painful discipline, some {natural}, some kinks/fetishes. We have our favourites & yet are generally playful, affectionate, & loving. I was NOT into butterfly kisses, snuggling or cuddling. I would rather FUCK than have foreplay (even if I liked it, I was impatient)! I also had not found someone so super sexy or loving that they could seduce all of my senses and understand me or 'how.' He has helped cause me to appreciate those aspects and enjoy them very much. In turn, I have unleashed sides of him, like his animal lust, where he can now get into and truly appreciate rougher sex.

My child had not seen this side of me, and was too young to remember when I had a relationship, so I do look forward to the empty nest, though I love him with all my heart and we are great friends too. He knows I am a bit kinky/pervy now (knows no details or anything), but he really wishes us the best. I am very lucky (BLESSED) to have both these great guys and to be loved like I am by them!

I waited a long, solemn time...

I have enjoyed living out our shared dreams and fantasies with my Love/Mate, cerebral or otherwise.
Looking forward to exploring more!!
fish

4 Apr 2014

Years ago before I went back to the vanilla world I was in a very happy Daddy/Little relationship for 10 years. I still love her, but she decided her business life was more important then our relationship. I am also a real Daddy that has raised a real daughter (and two sons).I am now looking for a someone who would like to be with a Daddy that will treat her as his daughter with love, kindness, tenderness, respect and loyalty and with a strong hand when needed. I would like her to be able to play with other girls. My real daughter is aware of my lifestyle and when it comes time she will answer any of your questions you may have about me being an excellent daddy.

I would like my Little to want discipline when needed, but mostly lots of cuddles and kisses all the time. She will never go to bed with an angry word or alone.
I would like her to act as my daughter at all times public and private. We can color together, listen to music, go to the movies, eat popcorn and ice cream. I'll want to buy her nice things and take her traveling with me. I do not punish heavily. I prefer spankings, and time-out to canes and other hard ways. I am open to exploring other ways she may be interested in - but no bodily waste, diapers, or any type of harm that would leave serious bruising or permanent damage.
It will hopefully be an LTR with someone 18-30 who likes to travel, read and write. (It'll be a profitable bonus, for us both, if you can design and program websites) Together we'll share lots of love and fun. I'll be relocating to Cyprus - gateway to Europe and Asia in the summer.

4 Apr 2014

Quote by Scriptwriter66
She will never go to bed with an angry word or alone.

It strikes me that, here, we sound like we are into almost exactly the same things. XD ... many things I relate to and they speak to me, but most of all this quote REALLY touches my heart. It has always seemed so important to me.

I wish you ALL the best, my dear friend.

4 Apr 2014

Retired Navy. 25 years. Married 40 years. Still working as a Hydraulic Tech.
Enjoy looking at all the pictures of the Ladies and enjoy most of the stories. Not much of a writer, never good at English in school (even though that was years ago), and a bad speller. Love to spend the time with my Lover to be sure she enjoys herself. Enjoy watching her cum then relax, only to build back up to that climax again. Licking a clean shaven Pussy is something I can do for hours and all I ask is to please return the favor. I will send a private message (compliment or question) but very little other communication.
Spend as much time in the saddle of my bike as I can, mostly with the wife riding right behind me.

8 Apr 2014

hello everyone I am a switch although I prefer to be submissive

14 Apr 2014

I seem to always end up where I need to be. Now l am here , looking for like minded people.I am a lesbian ....girls....
Women ...I love them hard ...I love them very hard....I love them soft....they are my air...food.. My lust...
I must not tell all......l taste you....I smell you....commmmmmmmme with me ?

17 Apr 2014

I'm into the lifestyle but currently unsure of the difference between a brat and a submissive, so I'm currently juggling between the two.

Hiya, looking for friends on here, hope to make your acquaintance. (#^.^#)

21 Apr 2014

Hello my name is Tanori. I'm a Little Sub or Babygirl, whatever floats your boat. I've been in this lifestyle for 6 months until my Daddy Dom decided to leave me. So now I don't know what do because he is gone.

2 May 2014

I'm submissive...I like age play and edging. ( and other things)
I think I've been too trusting in the past.

7 May 2014

I have been trying for a very long time to find someone that would help me with my desire to be humiliated. Have been mainly looking on Craigslist and that seems like nothing but a waste of time. Suggestions?

10 May 2014

Hello, in the past I leaned toward submissive with men, and dominant with women. I hadn't ever done serious BDSM, just some dabbling, and fun every now and again.

However the current boyfriend has expressed a wish to be dominated, which isn't hard for me to do, except that I fight the urge to be submissive around men.

He is very willing to submit, and I have taken on the role once, briefly. He would make an excellent submissive, and the idea of taking control really turns me on. (As long as we reverse every now and again.)

I need to learn more about being a dom, if this is a relationship that is going to last. Which is why I'm here, now.

17 May 2014

All my bondage sex is still a fantasy, but one I totally adore.

I do love the idea of being tied up and then having my brains fucked out - by men and/or women. I'll happily slurp on whatever is presented to my mouth.

17 Jun 2014

Hi everyone. I'm Alice. I've been in the lifestyle for almost three years now, I think. It started with a boyfriend who became my Master, but that relationship ended almost a year ago. I'm hoping to find a close relationship that blossoms into something like that again someday soon. For now, I'll wait. smile

19 Jun 2014

23 Jun 2014

Hi. I'm Leigh
I have been in the lifestyle for a few years.
I have had a few different masters; but, I have found that being a Little is my perfect fit.
I am naturally submissive and always have been.

17 Jul 2014

Hi, I'm Rae. I am a complete sub, although obviously I have my hard limits. Everything I'm comfortable going over is in my about me section on ny profile really but um, well, I thought I'd Vetter post a little something here. Hope this was good enough

18 Jul 2014

I am Dominant, or a little more specifically a service Dom (so I have been told), I don't Dom for my personal enjoyment, its just part of what I am, being a sub would be like me writing with my left hand, just something that isn't really me.

As for how I do it and why, I enjoy being the one trusted guide a woman that step outside of her comfort zone she never did, knowing that she wants to, and that she is willing with my support, its something that makes me feel good. Its not about me seeing how I can mark her or even pushing hard limits, its about her wanting to hand her trust to me.

20 Jul 2014

hello everyone...
i am 22 going to be 23 in aug 2
im a switch
i like to Dom
but i alway love being submissive
i recently broken up with my girlfriend
we have been together for 8 years
we were gonna get married next year
but i do have twins from a ex (yes i was with a guy before i met her)