Ok so I have a desire to have my hands and legs tied and to be used By men and women while being tied up. I want to know if this a bdsm desire because I love being smacked across the ass and having someone be aggressive with me. However I'm not a huge fan of body violence to the point of blood. I want to know several things ;
1. Is this a bdsm desire?
2. Am I the only one with this desire?
3. Has anyone been in this situation?
4. Anyone help me work on this desire?
I am very submissive and my fantasies border on the edge of too violent. I think that everything is good in moderation and that you should really research pain play and aftercare. It is important that everything is done carefully and consensual and that the proper aftercare is given. Pain play is a fast growing population of sexual people and it can be so rewarding when done right. I would be happy to answer any questions you have.
I love being tied spread eagled to the bed and have my gf tease me and tease me but not lettng me cum, until i am begging and pleading for her to get me off. She always does in the end and have the most powerful orgasms. Love being so submissive and defenceless that she can do what she wants to me.
Hi,
Trust is essential. Once with someone you trust then as a sub there is something so unique to being tied down - preferably over a spanking horse with wrists and ankles in leather grips.
I do like to be able to release myself. I never do, nor have to, but the ability to do so somehow makes me more relaxed. The pain is more enjoyable when your choices are taken away. That is why trust is essential.
Best
Peter
I would love to try it some day
I am a guy and I love the ide of being tied up and teased and having someone's full attention on me. Never explored it properly only ever touched into it.
I love being tied up helpless. With men and women but I have found more men who enjoy tying me up and using me for their plaything and pleasure sexually. I enjoy being tied spread eagle both ways on my back and stomach tied feet above my head with bottom exposed to everyone for access and for the pleasure of spanking and whipping
Being an Alpha male, I don't like to be tied, but love doing the tying. Restraining a woman so that I can do what I want with her and make her my little fuck toy is a wonderful feeling.
I love being tied up, I'm straight, so only by women, but helpless is a massive turn on for me, especially when she sits on my face!
i have always been the dominant and i enjoyed doing the tying. but recently i have began thinking about being tied myself....i must admit that i get hard thinking along those lines so i have been interested, lately, about letting a woman dominate me in that fashion....just havent found anybody yet
I enjoy being tied up and I enjoy tying others up
Just keeping the thread going
I would love to meet someone (m or f) where there is enough trust to try that...both ways. It sounds very erotic to give up total control to another knowing that boundaries will be respected.
Havent found anyone in the real world I trust enough to tie me but we can live in hope.