Or would you rather be the one doing the tying?
If you've tried it, did you enjoy?
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Quote by ralphbranca
The answer is yes, I would let myself be tied up or restrained. I have experienced it - from a woman - and enjoyed it a great deal. It was, well, educational.
I would certainly enjoy retraining someone ( I'm not real good with ropes) - cuffs, spreader bars, etc - but I'd like to watch or receive other training. Some rough play is great but I don't really want to hurt anyone, not into humiliation.
Quote by Metilda
I've been both the tie-er and the tie-ee.
I think I prefer to be the tie-er, though... because I love when he's hard and helpless.
Quote by ralphbranca
The answer is yes, I would let myself be tied up or restrained. I have experienced it - from a woman - and enjoyed it a great deal. It was, well, educational.
I would certainly enjoy retraining someone ( I'm not real good with ropes) - cuffs, spreader bars, etc - but I'd like to watch or receive other training. Some rough play is great but I don't really want to hurt anyone, not into humiliation.
Quote by NawtyGuy504
In a true loving Dom / sub relationships you only use the areas that turn on the sub. Brandie (NOLAHotGal) loves to be restrained and called very vulgar names while being fucked really hard fast and rough. She is in the mild to moderate area when it comes to pain like when getting flogged.
Would you consider administering pain and or humiliation if you knew it would bring about a tremendously strong orgasm. My role as a Dom is to administer to the sub what it takes to bring about her best and strongest orgasm. I would probably never administer to any sub more than they are willing to receive. That is where the art of administering, let's say a flogging scene, to the right area of her body, building the intensity to its greatest point to deliver the best orgasm for her with out having her even think about using her safe word.
This is why it is VERY, VERY, important to know your sub and built her trust. When she has the trust she can consentrate on her pleasure instead of will he hurt me to the point of using my safe word. It makes for a better orgasm for her.
The gritting to know your partner and how far to go applies to the so called plain vanilla sex also.
A lot of uneducated people relate BDSM to domestic violence. In our context every thing is consentual.
Nawty
Quote by Natural1ndoors
Absolutely. Would love to be tied down and massaged, teased, edged to almost unbearable peaks of pleasure, and finally made to cum everywhere. Any combination of the aforementioned with clothed/unclothed women, couples, or better still a group of like minded people conjurs endless fantasies for me on this one! Would happily be on the other side of the restraints and do the pleasuring as well. Have tied a partner during sex before and found it very hot.
Quote by FirstBlush...with a girl I'd rather do the tying...with a guy I'd prefer to be tied...
Or would you rather be the one doing the tying?
If you've tried it, did you enjoy?
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Yes most sure not on the frist meet.
Quote by Aramis
I've tried it both ways, and each has it particular attractions. But I will say that I have to REALLY trust the woman to let her tie me up, and on the other hand I understand that the woman has to REALLY trust me to let me tie her up.
Any man who says that he's never had a fantasy of being helpless and at the mercy of a hot woman is a lying sumbitch!
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Quote by VirgoGo
It's happened...both directions...and both directions can be fun if you're with someone imaginative and competent. Bondage isn't rocket science, but it does require a modest level of diligence and care.
Quote by ChuckEPoo
Let myself... No! Has it happened? Unfortunately yes!
I fell asleep after a night of fun and games. Woke-up tied to the bed blindfolded with someone (my wife) running a ice cube on my sides. I am the most ticklish person on the planet. I was insane with hysterical laughter. Then it occurred to me there were more than one set of hands. (My wife's GF). It was a day to remember.
Quote by hopp3r
I've been tied and I have been the one to do the tying. I welcome either so long as the mood is right but definitely prefer to be the one administering the knots. However, the few times that I have been tied, it was enjoyable to experience her using my body to achieve her strongest pleasure. There is a certain enjoyment that comes from witnessing a woman ride and grind me, using any way and any part of me that she feels to urge to take. The sensation of being desired like that makes me feel oddly powerful, in a round-about sort of fashion. Plus, it's easier to handle bites when one can flex into the restraints.
Quote by ChuckEPoo
Let myself... No! Has it happened? Unfortunately yes!
I fell asleep after a night of fun and games. Woke-up tied to the bed blindfolded with someone (my wife) running a ice cube on my sides. I am the most ticklish person on the planet. I was insane with hysterical laughter. Then it occurred to me there were more than one set of hands. (My wife's GF). It was a day to remember.
Don't believe everything that you read.
Quote by EricRhodes
Yes, I have, by my wife. Tied with silk scarves and blindfolded, never knew what was coming next. It was very exciting and highly erotic...Reverse Fifty Shades of Gray without the pain.
Quote by FirstBlush
This reads like my ideal bdsm situation! Interesting for a guy to submit to a blindfold though, considering the need for visuals?
Quote by EricRhodes
It was a fun thing to do. The visuals were in my mind, however, the tactile stimulation was the most exciting and biggest turn on. I highly recommend it.