Depends on how long an engagement we are talking. At my age time is of the essence.
Depends on how hot she is lol.. If we can still have oral sex and mutual masturbation. Then yes I would let her keep her virginity until after marriage.
I waited 33 years for her to say yes and discovered the bitch had lied to me
That's unfortunate, Adagio. Hard to believe, even. I'm sorry to hear that's true, but many, if not most women (and men) who choose to wait are not in fact evil bitches. To everybody who isn't the guy with a lot of pent up rage about this, I realize we're only hearing a small fragment of one side of the story.
Well let's put it this way. Since I'm not a teenager (and would not be dating one), I'd be very unlikely to be dating a virgin in any case. As I see it, if she's still a virgin by my age of interest, sounds like there are sexual issues involved as well.
So in answer to the question, I'd be very unlikely to be willing to 'wait until marriage'.
But I probably wouldn't be interested in a virgin in the first place.
But what about my statement would you use to support that statement, Jack_42?
Me personally, I absolutely would. If I was in a relationship that could lead to marriage to an amazing girl then I'd do anything to hold onto her.
Okay. I was excepting her, except I don't really believe that the story was true in the first place. I was just saying that you can't extend that generalization to everybody. I suppose in retrospect the point didn't really need to be made, but the guy was so mad, and I wanted to remind him that there are other women who might be better for him.
Just as long as she is saving it for me.
Absolutely would wait if she wanted.
Someone else has already said its your decision.
It's your virginity to give not your boyfriends to take
If he loves you he will wait, it's not as though you are denying him the pleasures of your body, just penetration.
Yes I would wait, the greater pleasure when you are ready and offer to me.
Did that and celebrate 39 years of marriage next week!!
It wouldn't bother me. If someone wants to wait till marriage it is a truly noble thing, and the other person has to respect that. And as others have said you can have a sex life without going all the way.
Sex isn't everything, there is so much more to a relationship than that.
Yes definitely.. Think of it this way the sex would be just insane when you finally are married obviously if the girl is a virgin not so much at first but after that you will be floating in the experience and still it's an interment experience that I'd rather have with my wife then a one night stand!
I couldn't wait till marriage before sleeping with a girlfriend. To me sex is a very important part of a relationship. What if you are not suited to each other?
I could see that, I agree sex is important to a relationship, but they can survive without sex. Sometimes I think it could actually derail a relationship. They see everything there is to see too early, and then they end. So really, you can only go by this rule on a case by case basis, I think anyway.
I waited for her and would do it again if I had to do it again.
If the guy really loves her, I believe that he should wait until she's ready - even if that means putting a diamond ring on her finger.
Sex isn't and shouldn't be the most important part of a relationship.
yes i would but that does not mean i wouldn't continuously try to change her mind or hurry her up
I would defiantly be a boyfriend like that i kept my virginity till i met my wife she is one of only two people i have had sex with and the other was in a threesome with her so yes i would i dont think it is right to try to force someome (NOT PHYSICALLY FORCE) but emotional force someone with beging and lies to get them to fuck if she wants to stay a virgin till marriage thats her choice and you should respect that choice.
I think 30 years ago you wouldn't have a problem finding someone who would, but in todays day and age I think you would be hard pressed to truly find someone who would. The days of waiting until marriage are behind us, and sex is something that people do because they want to fuck, or they love each other. Certainly the prior can grow to the latter. Nonetheless, most guys would say that they would wait, but eventually get fed up and tired of waiting.
And remember...good conversation leads to excellent sex
-Little Bambi
Most certainly...companionship is creative and more inspiring