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Stop talking sense it's not allowed in this thread. I only joined it to see your neon lit willy!
Nice.PaeiVmzrDaxXXuDq Flashes as well, that's sexy.


Haha quality :0)
Quote by daddysweetheart


you wanted the attention, and now you have it!




we all want attention, but we can all decide what kind of attention we get!
some get it in sad oh woe is me poems or from writing sexy stories.. some get their attention in chat
rooms.. and some from private chats... so on and so on! It is one of the joys of lush!
Dani
I don't know why they do, maybe ego, maybe for the fact they think they are Gods gift to women. I, myself, read profiles before asking to be a friend. If the bio matches what I like, I try to become a friend. But if it clearly states, "I don't want guys to add me" I will leave them alone.
As far as I'm concerned, I wish Lush could and would run a sweep and clean out ANYONE and EVERYONE with more than one profile! There is NO above board, legit reason for that nonsense!
Getting back to the OP, I rarely send FR's and when I do it's only after I HAVE had a look at someone's profile to get a feel for the type of person they are. I have become MUCH MORE selective regarding the FR's I RECEIVE! As to the content of a FR I keep mine respectful just as I would in person...ANYONE, regardless of gender, who doesn't should NEVER be accepted and in my estimation, there SHOULD BE site guidelines regarding what is and is NOT permissible content. (What you CHOSE to discuss with one another from the time of acceptance on is your own business, as is whom you delete and why.
I must say, completely off topic, that forum signature is going to literally scare some people when they see your forum posts.

edit 8th May - Now thats much more forum friendly thank you smile.
some people feel the need to be like and popular...I"M glad i dont have that need
Quote by ginger86
i no longer care what you think, tami/kinkygirl deleted her account, she had been here for almost 4 years, had over 99, 000 thousnds views on her profile. so screw you


No one ever said anything about kinkygirl.

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Quote by ginger86
ok , finally fed up with the shit. i started this thread to see what men were thinking but guess only women will post . first off, i am not kinkygirl and never was. having two profiles is not acceptable and since both me and her had been here for close to 4 years, either gav is not the computer whizz you all say or i am not her. after trinket started her crap over a year ago, i
am sure they checked it out. i no longer care what you think, tami/kinkygirl deleted her account, she had been here for almost 4 years, had over 99, 000 thousnds views on her profile. so screw you


Apart from the people coming in here to sling their shit, you've received some pretty sound answers as well as advice from both males and females.

Furthermore, uncovering multiple accounts has nothing to do with one's computer genius. Just time. As someone else has mentioned previously in this thread, crosschecking IP addresses can be somewhat time consuming, so therefore it's only done when there's a reason. Like if a member is suspected to be running multiple accounts. This is usually brought to our attention by other members, and then the IP address is checked and if it matches another members, the matter is then dealt with. Whether the account has been deleted or not, the IP address can be matched to an already existing account. But again, without motive, there's really no need to go through all of this.

Also, no one ever said anything about kinkygirl.

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guess you not gone far enough back
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guess you not gone far enough back


No, there was mention of a jeni account where someone mentioned her bio, and you said that you created it when you were younger, but no mention of kinkygirl.

The Jeni account is gone as well.

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we all want attention, but we can all decide what kind of attention we get!
some get it in sad oh woe is me poems or from writing sexy stories.. some get their attention in chat
rooms.. and some from private chats... so on and so on! It is one of the joys of lush!
Dani


And some like to copycat me and friend all my friends...
It's not a coincidence..I won't expand on this..
Some are even obsessed.


A lot of people like my poetry..I have a lot of page views considering I never show pics of myself and it's not all t & a.

Some people are real ***** to me..but I don't stoop to their level.
coughs

And yes, you're still blocked.

Have you ever written a poem honey?
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No, there was mention of a jeni account where someone mentioned her bio, and you said that you created it when you were younger, but no mention of kinkygirl.

The Jeni account is gone as well.


no problem, like others you read half then make decision
Quote by ginger86


no problem, like others you read half then make decision


I just read the whole thread: no mention of Kinkygirl until you wrote it. Perhaps whatever post you're referring to has been edited.
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no problem, like others you read half then make decision


It wasn't my decision to make.

Other than posts made and subsequently quoted by the now defunct kinkygirl account, no one ever actually mentioned kinkygirl except you.

The other account you were accused of holding was Jeni because of the lapse made by you in this very thread. That account is also defunct. No one's judging, but these are facts:

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Quote by jeni
I now see why people seldom ask serious questions on Lush. Some of you take all as a joke, some dislike a person and find a reason to put them down, and a very few actually answer the question asked. I thought this was a very relevant question and wanted to hear truthful answers but seems most of you wanted to express past hated, not liking the person, or loving her, or just be an ass. Only a few actually answered the question. My avatar isn't me either, so fucking sue me, is yours?


The question itself seemed to me more rhetorical than anything else and I'm sure it was only posted out of frustration. As has been pointed out already, the types of guys she's aiming the question at aren't the type to come on here and throw their hands up and say "yeah, my bad".

The truth is, people add popular people. If you have a high presence on here you'll get a lot of FRs. It's almost as if people see the Socialite badge and think "well she must add anyone!"

Personally I wouldn't send you an FR because I would have read your profile and thought - and I apologise for this in advance - "23 year old, bisexual, topless waitress - yeah, right!" - fact or fiction it just sounds ridiculously implausible to me. I stress, that's just my impression from when I read it. A lot of other guys here will lap that kind of stuff up though and be desperate for you to be their friend.

Most guys here don't have lots of friends and don't know how to go about getting any either so they will just fire the FRs out indiscriminately . Girls generally don't have to send FRs because they will just end up in their inbox anyway and multiply like fungus.

I hope that was a serious enough answer to the question for you.


I was actually 22 when i wrote this
. I guess there are no topless waitresses in your town
or somehow you think the angels serve you. You made it apparent us girls don't exist. have fun and bye


The bolded bits were details of Jeni's bio, but again, defunct now.

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i was trying to be funny when i made that post. i thought jenny would come in and say something but she deleted instead. if i was really her don't you think i would have tried to delete. no matter
Quote by ginger86
i was trying to be funny when i made that post


You were successful.

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ok, read my lips all, kiss my ass
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ok, read my lips all, kiss my ass


1. You're typing. We can't read your lips...just your text.
2. Please let this matter die so you can keep the dignity you still have left intact.

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i tried but you or no one else will let it go
Quote by ginger86
i was trying to be funny when i made that post. i thought jenny would come in and say something but she deleted instead. if i was really her don't you think i would have tried to delete. no matter


Five days and this is the best you've got?

Seriously?

This is not where you make up some half-baked crap excuse. This is where you straighten things out with the friends who are standing by you.

You fucked up but the only damage control you should be doing is with those who trusted you.

Try it. You might be surprised to find how forgiving they are.
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Quote by ginger86
ok, read my lips all, kiss my ass


I'll pass..unless you were a guy with a hot ass or a hot guy..



i did explain to my friends, since i don't know you, felt no reason to talk to you
Quote by ginger86
i did explain to my friends, since i don't know you, felt no reason to talk to you

Take your own advice and just ignore the thread. The whole thing has turned from a perfectly reasonable question into a mud slinging contest.
The thread has been destroyed and ended up like so many others. Unfortunately when we would normally be told keep on thread or don't be personal, those same people are posting.
Quote by daddysweetheart


And some like to copycat me and friend all my friends...
It's not a coincidence..I won't expand on this..
Some are even obsessed.


A lot of people like my poetry..I have a lot of page views considering I never show pics of myself and it's not all t & a.

Some people are real ***** to me..but I don't stoop to their level.
coughs

And yes, you're still blocked.

Have you ever written a poem honey?


hmmm hit a nerve honey? we have never been friends, so why would you block me??
Don't be so paranoid or should I say conceited?? I have no interest in you at all, just posting my thoughts on the forum!
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hmmm hit a nerve honey? we have never been friends, so why would you block me??
Don't be so paranoid or should I say conceited?? I have no interest in you at all, just posting my thoughts on the forum!


I block those who are rude to me..

That's why you friended my best friend and pumped him for information about me?

And you were annoyed because he was my Daddy?

Then when you unfriended him you asked him why you weren't friends.


Okkkkk.


Strange. out of 200,000 members, at one point 9 of your 15 friends were also my friends.

Coincidence? I think not..

Mathmatically not randomly possible.
Let's keep this on topic please.

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Let's keep this on topic please.



Ok..
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I block those who are rude to me..

That's why you friended my best friend and pumped him for information about me?

And you were annoyed because he was my Daddy?

Then when you unfriended him you asked him why you weren't friends.


Okkkkk.


Strange. out of 200,000 members, at one point 9 of your 15 friends were also my friends.

Coincidence? I think not..

Mathmatically not randomly possible.




I am not trying to take your friends.. or be you or anything else.
If you make comments on here then you should expect to have people respond!
I have no idea who your friends are and don't really care...
Please grow up and leave me alone!