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why do men always want to stick their cock in someone's ass?

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me too - i usually carry a little jar of it around and sprinkle it over them before the the mating ritual begins.


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I have been told its because they are soooo tight,I believe in fair play. So will always agree as long as i can do them with my strap on first . Scares 1/2 off the other 1/2 are glad they said yes
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I don't want to "always" stick my cock in someone's ass. I mean, when I'm cooking bacon, mowing the yard, climbing a fence.. I don't want to stick my cock in someone's ass then. While fucking, yes.. the thought crosses my mind. Often.


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Cause it is kinky, , feels omg so tight.and is sexy watching from behind..
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Quote by notlooking5
I have been told its because they are soooo tight,I believe in fair play. So will always agree as long as i can do them with my strap on first . Scares 1/2 off the other 1/2 are glad they said yes


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i can't imagine why most men like it
tried it once and didn't feel that good + the awkwardness afterwards is unbearable
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Well bless my soul...I must be a mutant...I have never done it! Thought about it sure...what might I be missing...maybe...butt it seems like a one-way valve and I don't want to wreck it
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Kitten86,

The men I've been with say the texture is different from a pussy: smoother, less ridges. It's , naughty, a nice change of pace from the pussy. I don't mean to offend, but you sound a wee bit bitter about anal sex. If you don't want anal, don't do anal?

Best of luck, and happy humping!
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My first time was to see what it felt like. A NEW experience.
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Never have mainly b/c I could never find a willing participant. So maybe I don't know what I'm missing but I don't really jones about it.
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As for the guys that insist on fucking the women they are involved with in the ass go, they are almost always pretty morally and psychologically suspect in my opinion: It is a pathetic domination thing, particularly if the woman doesn’t get anything out of it but pain. Some women do get pleasure, but most in my experience, don’t… It tended to get used when there weren’t condoms and she wasn’t on the pill which makes ZERO sense as far as protection from the virus, goes…
A guy who chooses most any woman’s asshole over any woman’s vagina has a prurient, abusive, or other type of corrupt agenda. Yeah, het anal was like the holy grail with so many guys I knew, it was crazy and really very vile, if you think about.
Relationships ended over it. It was actually a passive way to end a relationship for some guys. "Won't do anal, then you don't really love me" or some nonsense... Sick.
These are the kind of rotten boys who would just bend me over. For Shame! Then they could just think of a girl whilst I made very convincing girly noises, pump a load in me and treat me like a pariah afterwards…
As far as sensation goes the vagina is a far more comforting place to be when I am with a woman! There is simply no choice to be made, there is no comparison as far as your sensation and her responsiveness and kinetic variety goes. You can give so much pleasure with your cock, hows that for a reason?
Your question excluded us Bi and Gay boys, however, tsk tsk, smile! We have something special at times - A magical thing called a prostate and a perineum that is electrically charged. Thats just my take on the subject!
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There are no whys' some people like it some people don't
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Because a gorgeous ass is just soo tempting !! i think the answers on the first page more than covered it ..
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It's so naughty......
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Tightness - and it feels amazing. It's the /kinky/dirty thing too. Girls - try it if you haven't...lots of lube and a good sense of humour and you will have an amazing time
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There just to close togather.You see one you got to have the other. And its good if both like it.
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First, please don't shove all men into the same box. It gets crowded and we don't like it in there together all that much, no matter how much we like each other. I'm awfully tired of the stereotype that all men want the same thing and women are all perfectly unique snowflakes. Let's dispense with that notion right now.

Just like women, men like different things, and anal sex is a hugely dividing subject between men. It's not just for gay/bi men, and it's not just about the ass. It's another way to have intercourse and some people like it better, but most individuals who are into it just like it differently. Men who like it when their partner doesn't are jerks- and occur just as often in the gay community as the straight community. In times long past- in this case times before birth control was widely accepted- there was a desire to have sex and not risk pregnancy. Now it just has to do with what people are into and many, many women really enjoy having their asses fucked.

I'm biologically male, and when I was routinely having sex with men I really didn't like anal intercourse on either end of it. It's not for everybody. Many men just want to try it, and when they do, discover they're not honestly that into it.
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Because it is soooo NAUGHTY....
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I think any guy that wants to give anal has to take it with a strap on. It's only fair and what I'd do.


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idk cuz im a female but it feels amazing
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Just because it feels so good to cum in that dark, warm, moist hole!
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Quote by sprite


me too - i usually carry a little jar of it around and sprinkle it over them before the the mating ritual begins.


Sprite! You always make me smile, or squeal!



I can't believe how many people are so all or nothing. Not all guys want anal, and not all girls hate it. I like to see my partner excited and if he knows what he's doing it can be an amazing experience. For me it really is more about trust and being able to feel safe. Each situation is different. If my guy was really not into exploring it or was fixated on "taking it" or jackhammering away with no focus on my pleasure, it would be an absolutely not and awful hard to get excited about it.
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I agree with defirenze. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Right on.
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Because those that ask for it usually have no idea what it feels like to be on the receiving end.
I've been asked for it 3 times, and each time my answer was the same, he can do it after I get to stick Johnny in him. (Johnny is my favorite . .. naughty-time toy- this is lush, you guys know what I'm talking about)

Someone has yet to say yes, it probably doesn't help that Johnny has a face and sports every color under the sun (it's like having sex with a rainbow)


True!
I absolutely agree!
I would have done the same!
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Because those that ask for it usually have no idea what it feels like to be on the receiving end.
I've been asked for it 3 times, and each time my answer was the same, he can do it after I get to stick Johnny in him. (Johnny is my favorite . .. naughty-time toy- this is lush, you guys know what I'm talking about)

Someone has yet to say yes, it probably doesn't help that Johnny has a face and sports every color under the sun (it's like having sex with a rainbow)



I couldn't disagree more. Most guys have never sucked cock, would you require them to blow Johnny before you blew them?

Most women have never licked pussy. Should she have to eat muff before getting eaten?

I've never had my pussy smacked, do I need to have a sex change before I can smack someone's pussy?

If you don't want to have anal sex, that is fine. It's your decision to make. Coercing someone into doing something THEY don't want, for any reason, is a shitty thing to do. If you don't want to take it up the ass, just say so. Life moves on. Sex isn't about bartering. It's an intimate act between two people. Asserting superiority or dominance in an equal relationship is perverting the intimacy. Unless both parties are into it.



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i don't know but i love anal and feels so good when done right so i'm glad they do.
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Because they cant stick it in their own ass!!!
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I can proudly say that I am probably the only guy on the planet that does NOT want to stick my dick in an ass. I find it gross, disgusting, sick and more importantly, unhealthy to both involved. As I always say, it's an EXIT, not an entrance. To each their I suppose.
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Because they cant stick it in their own ass!!!


i think there's some porn out there that proves you wrong, Nikki smile

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