I was asked this by a female friend of mine and I honestly couldnt answer her, so I'm asking you guys for your opinion on this.
Why are guys so obsessed with lesbians or two girls kissing etc?
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Why do guys like lesbians??
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Fairly simple answer: Q. What is better to a guy than a single beautiful female? A. Two beautiful females, naked and writhing!!! ;) I've spoken to quite a few girls about this, including a couple of bi or lesbian friends - they understand where I'm coming from, but it doesn't commonly work the other way round. Most females aren't turned on by two guys together...weird that it works mainly in one direction only?!
I do, have a theory about why men enjoy watching two chicks go at it. It mostly has to do with the female form. Women have beautiful, curvacious bodies, complete with long, gorgeous hair and lots of other features that men generally find attractive. Men, by comparison, have very utilitarian bodies. We've got bigger muscles, hair in all the worst places, and a pretty unattractive set of sex organs.
Guy watching a pair of lesbians. He's getting a double-dose (or triple, or quadruple, depending on the kind of film we're talking about) of what he likes to see: nude women doing very naughty things.
It's not at all about being invited in. That thought is naive. Sure, it's a nice fantasy, but in reality, it's not going to happen.
For the rest of us, it's about satisfying curiosity and taking a look at something we enjoy: women. The fact that those women happen to be touching each other is just adds to the fun.
Guy watching a pair of lesbians. He's getting a double-dose (or triple, or quadruple, depending on the kind of film we're talking about) of what he likes to see: nude women doing very naughty things.
It's not at all about being invited in. That thought is naive. Sure, it's a nice fantasy, but in reality, it's not going to happen.
For the rest of us, it's about satisfying curiosity and taking a look at something we enjoy: women. The fact that those women happen to be touching each other is just adds to the fun.
I agree that in the abstract (porn for instance) watching two female bodies is erotic. But in real life it makes me feel a bit left out.
For personal involvement, however I find it different. I was married to a bisexual woman for a while and I never was fully comfortable with her lesbian side.
For personal involvement, however I find it different. I was married to a bisexual woman for a while and I never was fully comfortable with her lesbian side.
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The same question would be why do girls like gay men?
Prob because they can talk with man like that and shop. So why de we like lesbians? Btw not all lesbians, but because they are as sexualy aware as men. They cant act like girls because lese nothing would happen, so they show of their sensuality more and that atracts us guys. And of course seeing 2 girls naked hahhaha.
Prob because they can talk with man like that and shop. So why de we like lesbians? Btw not all lesbians, but because they are as sexualy aware as men. They cant act like girls because lese nothing would happen, so they show of their sensuality more and that atracts us guys. And of course seeing 2 girls naked hahhaha.
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I asked a beautiful lesbian why she liked women & she responded simply ''because women are beautiful'' and I couldn't have said it better!
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If you mean personally, it is because they are friends without any of the m/f, emotion/entanglement issues. The lesbian and bi girls that my gf and I know are fun, open people who don't get offended nearly as fast as the average straight. Besides, Butch lesbians are usually into the same things as guys, like motorcycles, pick-up trucks etc.
Now video and/or story/fantasy lesbians are a whole different subject. One theory is that guys don't feel threatened by having another girl with a girl; another thought is that, each being with another woman, they prove they have a wide sexual appetite; yet another possibility is the sheer erotic value of twice the sensual output.
Now video and/or story/fantasy lesbians are a whole different subject. One theory is that guys don't feel threatened by having another girl with a girl; another thought is that, each being with another woman, they prove they have a wide sexual appetite; yet another possibility is the sheer erotic value of twice the sensual output.
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Well, we love to see women having sex with each other...but seceretly, I think we believe that we are the cock that's going to turn them...
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Women are perfect creatures.. it's a much higher form of sexuality and sensuality that men aren't privy to.. and they don't have to be just lesbians to feel that bond between them..
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okay personally here are my reasons for liking lesbians. Firstly 2 beautiful female bodies, secondly the passion lesbians share is amazing, and thirdly if they are truly lesbians then of course the thought of not being able to participate and the forbidden is a turn on. Most guys want what they can't have and I am one of them guys
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i dont discriminate just because a woman is a lesbian
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Ok, I like lesbians because of the female form and what it represents. When I think of a woman in this kinda context I think of smoothness, delicacy, tenderness, intense sensuality...
Watching two women at it is like all of that squared! A serious turn on
Watching two women at it is like all of that squared! A serious turn on
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I think its because the two girls and guy thing attracts us.
When I see two girls going at it with each other I think 'hey warming her up for me'.
When I see two girls going at it with each other I think 'hey warming her up for me'.
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if it's just watching then i think it's just curiosity. If ever i was to get involved,i'ld really like a buddy to help me.
Trying to sound cool. Too much work left.
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Double the pleasure, 'Nuff said... 
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i dont i dont have a chance with one i like bisexuals
Damn thats funny.
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Fairly simple answer: Q. What is better to a guy than a single beautiful female? A. Two beautiful females, naked and writhing!!! ;) I've spoken to quite a few girls about this, including a couple of bi or lesbian friends - they understand where I'm coming from, but it doesn't commonly work the other way round. Most females aren't turned on by two guys together...weird that it works mainly in one direction only?!
not true ....
many straight women love two men in porn, because as far as the women are concerned, they'd rather watch men than some twat getting fucked and screaming unrealistically
as far as men enjoying two women getting off together, the fantasy is that they wish that they were the meat part of that sandwich. But, as most women who have lesbians as friends know .... men won't have a snowball chance in hell to partake.
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for me, there's more than just the sexiness of watching two women. i love the sensuality between women; the kissing between them can be an excruiatingly great turn-on...seductive, passionate, lovely lips and tongues. i find very few guys like to share full blown make-out kissing, like some lesbian couples i know do. kissing is highly erotic to me. there's also the softer side that i think many men are afraid to express within themselves and at least by watching they can see that part of themselves acted out. finally, i like to imagine myself as one of the women, feeling what she feels and where she feels it. imagining myself as a women and still having sensuous sex with another woman...yummy.
Guys like the idea of having sex with two women at once.
Lesbians don't have sex with guys.
So, guys don't like lesbians.
Guys like girls who are freaks in bed and like to suck dick and fuck dick while another girl is around. Guys like bi-girls because it introduces the possibility of threesomes where the guy can bed two chicks at the same time.
As a corollary, I have heard a lot of bi-women friends and exes talk about how guys are jealous when she mentioned she wants to fuck, experiment, or have long-term relationships with girls outside her primary relationship with the guy. The girl doesn't want to end the relationship with the guy, but she does like women and wants to satisfy those urges. But the guy is jealous of it, just like if the girl had said she wanted to fuck another guy outside their relationship.
Having said that, there is one caveat. There are guys who actually like bi-sexual girls for more than the possibility of having a mff threesome. I'm one of those types. In fact, I'm dating a bi-girl now and I encourage her to have relationships with women and girl fuck-buddies outside our relationship. But, most guys aren't build internally to handle that. Even I had to sit-down with myself and think through what that meant to have my girl fucking other girls and me not having a piece of the action. I realized I'm fine with that. I'm just that kinky.
That's fine if guys want to fuck 2+ pussies at the same time. That's cool. The more in the bed the merrier and if a guy can pull that off then more power to him! But I just wish they'd stop saying, "I like lesbians". They don't. It doesn't even make sense.
Lesbians don't have sex with guys.
So, guys don't like lesbians.
Guys like girls who are freaks in bed and like to suck dick and fuck dick while another girl is around. Guys like bi-girls because it introduces the possibility of threesomes where the guy can bed two chicks at the same time.
As a corollary, I have heard a lot of bi-women friends and exes talk about how guys are jealous when she mentioned she wants to fuck, experiment, or have long-term relationships with girls outside her primary relationship with the guy. The girl doesn't want to end the relationship with the guy, but she does like women and wants to satisfy those urges. But the guy is jealous of it, just like if the girl had said she wanted to fuck another guy outside their relationship.
Having said that, there is one caveat. There are guys who actually like bi-sexual girls for more than the possibility of having a mff threesome. I'm one of those types. In fact, I'm dating a bi-girl now and I encourage her to have relationships with women and girl fuck-buddies outside our relationship. But, most guys aren't build internally to handle that. Even I had to sit-down with myself and think through what that meant to have my girl fucking other girls and me not having a piece of the action. I realized I'm fine with that. I'm just that kinky.
That's fine if guys want to fuck 2+ pussies at the same time. That's cool. The more in the bed the merrier and if a guy can pull that off then more power to him! But I just wish they'd stop saying, "I like lesbians". They don't. It doesn't even make sense.
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Because we want to crawl inbetween them!
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I agree with Mal, lesbians are a turn off for me, it isnt natural, as mal said, guys want to join in not watch 2 girls enjoying themselves on their own, give me a straight girl any day!! Sorry
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As for me I love seeing a woman totally surrender to her physical pleasures & sensuality .... and I believe they more readily do this with another woman .... I for the most part find lesbian acts very sensual !
obviously two women together is better than one, but there are all sorts of readings that can be made from a man watching two women, if your a man who loves women sexually and otherwise why wouldnt you want to see these two beings have the same feelings you have for them for each other? in a way its the height of your attraction to women because there's no man involved but you know you cant get involved because its spoiled by your touch, having a threesome is great don't get me wrong but why wouldn't you want to experience what you love while imaging you were what you love? the idea of being female to make love to another woman is attractive for man and it doesn't neccessarily make you transgender lol no offence