I know i shouldn't judge it because i have not tried it but...
But before i explain let me say this first, I am a very sensual guy. I love to feel connected with someone. AND NO I AM NOT GAY! I would rather eat my own vomit than have a guy do something to me or me him. I think it is wrong and disgusting.
That being said, I do think anal is absolutely awful. Something I never want to try.
For one, I do not see how it can be pleasurable. 2ndly, it seems like it would be too tight. 3rdly, i prefer (but dont always follow this) positions where i can look at my partner. Another thing it makes me feel gay, which is a major turnoff. I would much rather have regular sex with my partner.
The only good thing i would enjoy about anal sex, is that i wouldn't have to wear a condom/wouldn't have to worry about getting the girl pregnant.
I think it is utterly disgusting and I will never want to do it.
first: it is different hole to be fill in
second: it is nice to be inside in a tight ass
third: it is a great cum inside the ass
I do find it quite amusing when women suspect that a man's enjoyment of anal sex with a woman suggests he might be gay. Like women don't have ass holes for fuck's sake?!?
Anal, done right, is an intense beautiful experience for both partners, whether it be slow, deep and gentle, or hard, fast and animal. And it's not just about enjoying her total submission, because prolonged for any amount of time, eventually she will ride that cock like Kali, and you will be the one gazing up in awe feeling fucked.
Women who don't enjoy anal, basically have a problem surrendering. And that is just a general extension of her need to control, which will no doubt permeate every other area of her life. So, paradoxically perhaps, women who don't want anal are actually the ones who need it the most. Anal will hurt them because they just will not relax and let go.
Id say because its a tighter hole, also its just plain dirty really and not part of the norm. Me personally its not a huge want for me. Ive done it a fair few times and my gf at the time loved it when done right. It just another aspect of sex to explore.
Its not who i am, but what i do that defines me.
i don't know why but i really like it but only if the girls into it too
I'm still trying to persuade...
I will try most things and even negotiated a deal (not me but us) whereas I had my ass played with first - tongue, finger/s and a vibe. Bloody good session but no Green Light
She loves my tongue and fingers in there but still no to the pecker.
I'll keep trying though - and probably just because i'm not allowed.
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Never had it. Want to. She says NO.
I"ve done it and love it. Though I don't get it as often as I want it. I love the feeling of having the tightness around me dick then havin just my head in there without anything around it. It feels completely different than being inside the vagina. Just an awesome feeling.
I love it but it is always up to the women if she wants to or not.
I enjoy doing it every now and then. It's a different feeling in my opinion. And also has a ummm. Guess you could dominating? Feeling as well.
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To say all men are obsessed is simply not fair...
but there are some that seem to be, so to them I say ok you want anal sex here's the deal you let me shove something in your ass, maybe a big vibrator or a shampoo bottle and you let me fuck your ass, then the next time you want to fuck mine your on.
It has been scientifically proven that any woman can be satisfied with only 3 1/2 inches --- and it doesn't matter if it is Visa or Mastercard
I have not done anal....I have talked to girls who have an hated it, and ones who have loved it. I think itis fun to talk about as a thing....but, cant imagine anything better feeeling than when I am behind a woman with my cock in her pussy....holding her hips...that is the best feeling ever to me. I dont need more. And I certainly am not the type to need to use something like that to demonstate power over someone. I like a partner in bed and life.
Its a thing thats why i like it but I'm not OBSESSED by it, my current parter won't do it so thats that!
other times i have done it was at the request of the girl so that completely discredits the title of the thread!
I'm not a huge fan of anal....i've done it of course and have dated a few girls who were really into it. I think most guys like it because it seems so dirty...so forbidden. My experience is that a tight wet pussy is much more satisfying.
Its not just anal sex I'm obsessed with, it any sex at all. Givin that, I would have to say that I find anal sex very enjoyable, both receiving and giving. As long as both people are attentive to each other it can be great. Its not something you want to push on the other partner though, they have to willingly receive.
I would not say that I am obsessed. I consider it as another act of making love as opposed to having sex. So long as the woman is up for it
and you respect her feelings I cannot see anything wrong with it, or it being an obsession.
i have done it on occasion. i would not veer towards the ass everytime i have sex. but i think it is the heat of the moment thing. i have never asked for it but the girls have. i think you will find that a guys first time doing anal it is usualy the girl who asks for it.
i am not obsessed with it just something differnt for a change
The women I know who enjoy anal sex tend to be submissive women. the women I know who dislike anal sex usually are controlling women. Men - at least THIS man - likes that it's , very warm, snug and a very accepting thing for a woman to submit to. At the same time it's not the Holy Grail of sex, so if a woman doesn't enjoy it or is flat-out afraid to try it, she has every right to set that boundary.