For me not only does it feel very good, it's also a dominace thing. Sometimes I like being dominate in bed and that is the best way I've found to satisfy that urge. I've had anal performed on me, too, when I was dating a guy. It was quite a submissive feeling too. I liked it a lot myself as long as plenty of lube is involved.
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It is not all males that are obsessed with anal sex. The few times I have had anal sex 90% of the time it was requested by the woman; and the other 10% it was only after a conversation with women who had never tried anal and wanted to try it to see if they liked it. They did like it, enough to do it again, but it wasn't a priority for those women
never done it and not that interested
it's not just males, girls are as well.
Dominance. That is all and I shant elaborate much. Just know that being inside of a girl's ass gives you (or maybe only me) an awesome rush of power.
it is more fun to think abput than actually do -
It's never something that's held a great deal of appeal for me, I've done it when asked to by women I've been with but it's not something I generally initiate, I find other areas of sex much more stimulating.
I've never taken the opportunity to go through with it. When mrs P asked me not to hurt her and myself having no experience, it made me think twice. I wouldn't want her first experience to be bad just because I have no idea how to do it properly. I would however like to experience it at least once being that so many seem to enjoy it, I think the tabooness of the whole idea is very erotic and probably has something to do with it as well.
Usually guys like anal sex because a woman turned them on to it. Just sayin.
I've never had the desire or even interest for anal sex. I had the opportunity once but declined it. Sorry, an anus is not a sexual organ.
Guys are generally into anything related to sex so...
Particularly me am not really interested on anal sex.
no idea but i know im not. your ass should be exit only. not enter and exit
Women's asses certainly get my attention. The ass is a very sensitive part of the body and needs to be treated gently and with respect. But if stimulated in the right way it can add a whole new dimension to love making for both women and men.
I've never actually had anal sex with my current partner but gently teasing, stretching, rubbing and fingering then rimming her seems to turn her on and does the trick.
Its the forbidden fruit thingy. It feels diferent in a good way. its tighter and no worries of pregnancy. My favoorite words from an ex gf of mine was "Do you want to put it in my butt?"
For the guys who get asked by the girls, and are unsure of the smell or getting stuff on yourself, why don't you just wear a condom? It not only keeps you clean (from any potential mess, which there shouldnt really be any), but also there is more lube which is always a good thing.
I wouldn't say all dominant females don't like anal, I'm quite dominant, but from time to time its nice to be pushed in submission so to speak (which hasn't really happened for a long time). Unfortunately my husband is less into anal than my ex was (which is when I first tried it), and will only do it if he can wear a condom ... just in case of message.
Anal sex without condom I prefer so much more, as you feel more connected, its just a very different experience.
Very interesting input to the conversation MissPlum and it got me thinking a little deeper about the whole thing (apologies for the pun). Anal sex is something that obvious both partners have to be comfortable with. A long time ago a girlfriend introduced me to anal and we explored even anal fisting both ways. I really enjoyed the erotic and adventurous nature of the sex during that time we had together.
My current wife is not interested in anal sex (either way) while we have played a little in the shower she said it is basically a turn off and does not want to go there. I respect that and what's the point in pushing something if basically it makes your partner uncomfortable. So obsession! given the opportunity would i like to do it again hell yes. But am i turning over every rock i pass to see if the chance arises no. I have a sexually active relationship with my wife and we explore other ways of keeping the flame alive.
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We are obsessed with it in the same way we are obsessed with your mouth and vagina... If we can stick our dicks in it, then it's one of our main focusses...
I could say because it is the one act that allows me to feel the same sensations a woman does or because if feels so good and let's you give up control totally.
I'm assuming though that isn't the answer you were looking for so let me give you a more conventional male insight.
I like doing a woman anally because of the intensity of the act. Watching her struggle as I enter her and squirm as she adjusts to be an incredible high. I don't get off on her pain and do my best to make her feel as little as possible but there is usually that initial sting and pressure. The moans she makes at that time drives me wild.
Also the view of a woman's back arching under my entry and the movement she makes is absolutely intoxicating.
Otherwise it really isn't as good as vaginal sex. Trully a pussy feels better on my cock but the shear nastiness of the act makes it something I love to do.
Perhaps, because it's rather a different thing, and some men usually have the need to do different things to boost their male ego...it can also mean they were in control and women just have to submit to them and these men fuckingly love such an idea...it can also be liking the image of penetrating something so tight, most of the times, virginal holes...
Sometimes, a bitch is just a girl who wears a mask to hide what's real inside her
I am not obsessed, but my wife and I do enjoy anal sex together.
She has done it to me also. With us it is another sexual act that brings pleasure to both. We make sure whoever is receiving is loosened up and lubed very well, and ready to be penetrated.
For me, I think it's mostly a matter of knowing that the woman is wiling to give her ALL to me. Besides, as I SURE someone up there has stated by now. in MOST instances it's tighter.
Not a fan, maybe it's too many years as an ER nurse, the things I have seen impaled in rectums. There are some freaky ass people out there!
I don't think it's any mystery. It's there and if it's available (she gets to decide that) then I'll do it. I happen to like it a lot but it's not the end all of existence.
I put it in her mouth, if she's into that, and everywhere else she will tolerate or likes. I've done her armpit, with and without hair, behind her knees, between her breasts, her feet, her toes, her hair, the middle of her back or just rubbing it all over her. Not even touching, just watching each other masturbate is a mind blowing experience. Anal is just a part of the mix and we all get to chose what we like.
My favorite is her hands. You want tight? It doesn't get any tighter. Face to face and a lot of oil, kissing, licking, breathing each other's exhales, whispering and her working me with her hands. They are the second most versatile sexual apparatus she has, the most versatile is her mind. If you can get that going you're on your way to heaven.
Although I have never done anal, it still remains a fantasy and will until my dying day. Perhaps because while women are quite willing to perform oral, and demand vaginal penetration, most see their tightest orifice as off limits. Maybe they are afraid it is to tight to accept a hard cock, maybe they fear the pain. Perhaps some feel it is to "dirty". My best explanation for why guys are obsessed with anal is because a lot of women won't allow it. It is something off limits; . Being denied something makes us all crave it more.
Clever observation... Finally!
