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Why are high heels so hot while having sex?

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Why does a woman look so hot fucking in high heels? Men, do you "require" high heels for those special nights?
Only in porn! They're a damn nuisance to actually fuck in!
Catching a heel to the eye or the nuts ain't any fun. It does look sexy, but be careful if you do it.
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Only in porn! They're a damn nuisance to actually fuck in!


Beth, you'd make combat boots look hot!
Well, they simply add a sexy visual element during sex, much similar to any other piece of lingerie. They provide this luxurious/assertive aspect to the woman wearing them, which is fun when you want to pretend that you're fucking an upscale slut. But yeah, they can get in the way in some positions and it's harder for the girl to keep balance, especially when you're in the mood for something a bit more forceful and physical. And they really aren't mandatory.

The best way to use them is to fuck her pussy from behind, while she's either bending over or leaning against some furniture (positions shown below). This is particularly hot with shorter girls, because her heels then become some sort of slutty-accessory that she uses to render her pussy more easily accessible:


What a silly thought, actually it's very funny lmao biggrin
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All, thanks so much for taking the time to respond. Special shout to Serene: loved your response and the pics! The one on the left is an instant turn on for me. smile
sexy high heels make sexy feet even sexier and sexy legs longer
There is no way I would have sex with shoes on, or anything else for that matter.on a bed A quickie knee trembler possibly if I need the height.
I am always fascinated by the pics of women having sex with high heels on, Why? I ask myself. I have always assumed it was one way of saying I am a porn star.

I tried sex with the guy wearing spurs once. - never again - I was bruised for days.
I have had sex with high heels on many times. Just for the height when being bent over and taken from behind. I usually take them off for any other position.
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I have always assumed it was one way of saying I am a porn star.


Well personally, that's one reason why I think that high heels can be nice: contributing to the 'pornstar look', which can be fun every once in a while. I've slept with a few women that weren't all that different from that a few times, with sexy lingerie, high heels, bubblegum lipstick and thick eyeliner.

It's hot when you want to indulge in those occasional porn fantasies:


Sorry, double post. I might as well post more of that sexy Lindsay Marie.


I LOVE her in her heels 'cos she looks like a hooker.

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I've never had sex with a woman wearing heels. It would be completely ridiculous! I don't find women in porn wearing heels to be sexy. It looks silly to me. There are occasions where I come across porn where guys are wearing sneakers and THAT'S just fucking hilarious!!!
why limit yourself to just 'those special nights'? she would be in them every day if it where up to me over here....
When in a relationship with a particular girl, one is going to become acustomed to her body. She will feel a certain way when you hug, you'll have to lean a certain way when you kiss, and overall she will look a certain way. By putting on heels it does more than make the girl taller. For one, being up on her toes will make her butt and breasts 'pop', highlighting her curves and making her look a little different than usual. Second, the height difference will make her feel different, specifically when hugging or kissing. These two things combined, at least in my experience, make it almost seem like the girl is a completely different person. I wouldn't say that it is specifically quenching into some subconcious 'cheating' thirst (although it may be doing that for some men) but more so bringing things back to a sort of 'first date' mentality. This person looks different, they feel different, and all of a sudden what used to be familiar seems new and exciting. I love it when a girl puts on a pair of sexy, tall heels for a special ocassion because it can turn an ordinary night of dinner and a movie into something just a little bit more. Plus, it subtley hints at sex later on that night and it's hard to not get just a little worked up at that prospect.

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Personally I HATE high heels during sex. Sometime they may look hot sure, and a woman can certainly turn up the heat in them at times too. But once the clothes start coming off, those heels better be on the floor too.
I agree that women look great in heels. I'm not sure why but then again I don't spend time trying to figure out why - I just think heels are fabulous. As someone said earlier, it does look great in porn but I sure don't need that in real life. They're friggin' dangerous!

Maybe that's the appeal.
Simple question simple answer, MOST of us men LOVE the look of a garter belt and hose (YES, me too!) AND high heels seem to 'go with" that look. (Oh and I've seen the little babe in the gif and she's just HOT PERIOD!)
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Beth, you'd make combat boots look hot!


Here here Buz!!
They don't do a thing for me.
Not that I am particular or anything, but I find shoes in bed to be annoying.
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I think it is hot as hell.

Just the other night I came out of the shower and my wife had on her CFM heels with a sexy robe just barely covering her breasts in a nice pose. Was hot as hell. Dropped her on the bed on her back licked her real good, then with heels still on, pulled her legs all the way up straight in the air, spread the legs and fucked her good. We both came so hard. It was really hot.

@Meggsy - To each is own, I suppose. I know for my wife it makes her feel sexy and if she feels sexy the sex is great.
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Beth, you'd make combat boots look hot!


Or just about anything, even these.



I tend to think three or four moves ahead and as such, those heels wouldn't even be noticed during the actual sex act until they started to impede certain positional movements. Then, major mood destroyer.
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High heels on my lady, might lead me to bed, but I prefer to remove them once there.
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I love it because it retains an element of "she's fully dressed, and we just did it right there and then" which is even better if that's the whole truth!

I guess it lends itself to the fantasy element of fucking someone spontaneously in a public place without any of the actual inconvenience of being caught.
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Did it once...turned me on more than him..they were red they were slick and they and I were fabulous

Now hearing the heel to the nuts lol sticking to red toe nail polish
high heels are sluttier ..anything thing slutty is hot
I've never been an admirer of high heels. I just don't seem to see the attractiveness of a lovely lady in heels that most fellas do.
Perhaps it is because (to me) they look so incredibly uncomfortable and often painful to wear.
I am a strong believer in my partner being comfortable and relaxed - two things that don't spring to mind when I see heels.
I certainly wouldn't argue if someone was to wear them whilst we were in the act, but it's not a huge turn on for me and not something that I would request.
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