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Which is it? To or With?

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Is sex something you do TO a woman? Or is sex something you do WITH a woman?
Meagan
With. Even if your are in total control breaking down walls, it’s still something you are doing together.
What he said. I want my partner, female or male, to be an active part of the sex, not just a sex toy with a pulse.
I'm gonna say both, depends on the context of the sex i suppose, not really sure what you're going for here. Sounds like a state of mind question.. Technically speaking, its hard to anything TO a women WITHOUT her...
There are many things I'd like to do with a particular woman, as well as many things I'd enjoy doing to her.

There are also a myriad of things I'd like to do for her, as well.

There are a couple of things I'd like to do on her, in her and above and below her too.

It's a slippery slope, Meagan.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
With.
Quote by BradCarpenter
With! It's if you do it to her.


Not necessarily, but definitely more likely. Could be a strong dom-sub element with the woman as the sub. An argument could be made that it's still "with" to the extent that woman deliberately submits but it could equally be argued that she is submitting to having things done "to" her rather than "with" her. Semantics comes into play, IOW.
The expression to seems to go with ''making love to''
The expression to seems to go with ''making love to''
Quote by Jack_42
The expression to seems to go with ''making love to''


Actually, maybe "making love with" works just as well. Implies, IMHO, a more equal connection and level of involvement from both partners regardless of who they are. That the love is something they are making together, rather than one making it for the other (though the latter is still valid, to be clear).
When I reach down and grab a big handful of ass, I did it to her!
I make love with my lady, not to her, she is one half of the sex action we are taking part in together
Quote by trione
I make love with my lady, not to her, she is one half of the sex action we are taking part in together


+1
ultimately it's with. but effectually? it's what she's wanting silly
I have sex with my partner. Its like dancing. One person may be leading but your still dancing together.