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What your favourite sad song when It comes to being broken hearted.

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I'm not broken hearted;but when on a youtube mooch last Saturday when on own I came across Shirley Bassey - You can have him.

I just wondered what songs men listen to when they are broken hearted.

My other sad song is the Streets - Dry your eyes mate.
Randy Rogers Band - "I miss you with me"

://.youtube.com/watch?v=9ov5CWJQiJQ

On a side note (guys), this is a good one to use if you've screwed up and want her back. Burn it to a CD, tape it to her car window with a note, and cross your fingers. lol
THE ONLY CONTRIBUTION I CAN MAKE TO THIS WAS WHEN MY PARTNER PASSED AWAY......
AARON NEVILLE AND LINDA RONDSTANDT - I DONT KNOW MUCH, BUT I KNOW I LOVE YOU
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THE ONLY CONTRIBUTION I CAN MAKE TO THIS WAS WHEN MY PARTNER PASSED AWAY......
AARON NEVILLE AND LINDA RONDSTANDT - I DONT KNOW MUCH, BUT I KNOW I LOVE YOU


Awe, So sorry to hear that. That is a beautiful song.
Haha. This thread is funny! I'm not listening to sad songs. The only people that need a soundtrack to give them background music for crying and whining about getting dumped are women. People need to get over it, not wallow in it. Get back out there on the market and live it up. Guys should be celebrating they get to be single again not keying up Enya and Celine Dion for a sob session.
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Haha. This thread is funny! I'm not listening to sad songs. The only people that need a soundtrack to give them background music for crying and whining about getting dumped are women. People need to get over it, not wallow in it. Get back out there on the market and live it up. Guys should be celebrating they get to be single again not keying up Enya and Celine Dion for a sob session.



What the hell is so funny about this thread dude?
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Haha. This thread is funny! I'm not listening to sad songs. The only people that need a soundtrack to give them background music for crying and whining about getting dumped are women. People need to get over it, not wallow in it. Get back out there on the market and live it up. Guys should be celebrating they get to be single again not keying up Enya and Celine Dion for a sob session.


Oh my fuck, dude...have you ever been in love? It doesn't sound like it...
Mine is If I can Dream by Elvis. It was mine and my first boyfriends song that he would sing to me when he was drunk and would change the lyrics to fit our names in. Always makes me think of him, the bastard.
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Haha. This thread is funny! I'm not listening to sad songs. The only people that need a soundtrack to give them background music for crying and whining about getting dumped are women. People need to get over it, not wallow in it. Get back out there on the market and live it up. Guys should be celebrating they get to be single again not keying up Enya and Celine Dion for a sob session.


Oh my fuck, dude...have you ever been in love? It doesn't sound like it...



Haha he clearly hasnt.
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Haha. This thread is funny! I'm not listening to sad songs. The only people that need a soundtrack to give them background music for crying and whining about getting dumped are women. People need to get over it, not wallow in it. Get back out there on the market and live it up. Guys should be celebrating they get to be single again not keying up Enya and Celine Dion for a sob session.


Oh my fuck, dude...have you ever been in love? It doesn't sound like it...



Haha he clearly hasnt.


Life has been too crazy for serious relationships for me. Unfortunately I have ADD and as such a short attention span has always been a problem when it comes to women. And it is true I don't know what it feels like to get dumped and heart broken. I have always been the one to call the shots and end something when it wasn't working. I do feel bad for the ones that get their hearts broken on both sides of the fence though. Maybe music does help them work it out in the same way that good music helps me rev up at the gym. Music is a powerful force. Just look at that tune by Elton John that was about Marilyn Monroe's death and then got reworked when Princess Diana died. Clearly the key is the sound of this epic piece and it becomes a blockbuster again. Amazing!
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Haha. This thread is funny! I'm not listening to sad songs. The only people that need a soundtrack to give them background music for crying and whining about getting dumped are women. People need to get over it, not wallow in it. Get back out there on the market and live it up. Guys should be celebrating they get to be single again not keying up Enya and Celine Dion for a sob session.


Oh my fuck, dude...have you ever been in love? It doesn't sound like it...



Haha he clearly hasnt.


Life has been too crazy for serious relationships for me. Unfortunately I have ADD and as such a short attention span has always been a problem when it comes to women. And it is true I don't know what it feels like to get dumped and heart broken. I have always been the one to call the shots and end something when it wasn't working. I do feel bad for the ones that get their hearts broken on both sides of the fence though. Maybe music does help them work it out in the same way that good music helps me rev up at the gym. Music is a powerful force. Just look at that tune by Elton John that was about Marilyn Monroe's death and then got reworked when Princess Diana died. Clearly the key is the sound of this epic piece and it becomes a blockbuster again. Amazing!


I hope you do find love one day,dude...it's a powerful thing...
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Oh my fuck, dude...have you ever been in love? It doesn't sound like it...


Clearly he hasn't... but I digress.

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For me, it's not a single song. It depends on the moment, what's broken my heart and different songs sooth different pains.

For instance, when my sister died, I found Yngwie Malmsteen's "Crying" a song to mourn too. There are no vocals to it. It's a beautiful guitar piece.

Back in high school, I had a girlfriend I was really into. We were both recovering drug addicts. She started back up in the drugs and I couldn't follow her down that path, so I broke things off. Metallica's "Fade to Black" got me through that time.

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Haha. This thread is funny! I'm not listening to sad songs. The only people that need a soundtrack to give them background music for crying and whining about getting dumped are women. People need to get over it, not wallow in it. Get back out there on the market and live it up. Guys should be celebrating they get to be single again not keying up Enya and Celine Dion for a sob session.


Oh my fuck, dude...have you ever been in love? It doesn't sound like it...



Haha he clearly hasnt.


Life has been too crazy for serious relationships for me. Unfortunately I have ADD and as such a short attention span has always been a problem when it comes to women. And it is true I don't know what it feels like to get dumped and heart broken. I have always been the one to call the shots and end something when it wasn't working. I do feel bad for the ones that get their hearts broken on both sides of the fence though. Maybe music does help them work it out in the same way that good music helps me rev up at the gym. Music is a powerful force. Just look at that tune by Elton John that was about Marilyn Monroe's death and then got reworked when Princess Diana died. Clearly the key is the sound of this epic piece and it becomes a blockbuster again. Amazing!


Your day will come, sweetheart, and having ADD is only a fall back excuse.

Oh, and your generalisations about women? Well, get over it. Those are just generalisations, and the real world awaits you, in the next fifty years or so you likely have ahead of you.

Your flesh will sag, your hair will fall out, you will need glasses if you don't already, and good grief! you aren't going to be able to keep it up, or keep up with it...

Or with her, or with many women.

Have a nice weekend, now!



I try to not listen to sad songs when I'm upset. I try not to dwell on things. Songs that remind me of a break up won't really help me get over the break up.
"Oh yes, the past can hurt. But the way I see it you can either run from it...or, learn from it." - Rafiki, The Lion King
When some woman rips out my heart, sets my balls aflame and emasculates what remaining threads of my tattered masculinity might remain...instead of soaking myself in Dan Fogelberg or Bette Midler ballads...I slap on some 1980's one hit wonders ...and - Party on, Garth!

Yannno..cuz I know what women want. And the next one might be watching how I react to being Nagasakied by the last dominatrix to shred me.



Get with the program, Driver...if you're gonna go retro with the spiked hair, go really retro with the tunes too. This only works with two sizes-too-tight - Pacific blue OP jams, a white wife-beater muscle T and some 3/4 high top Air Jordans though. Laces undone.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Maybe because music is so emotive to me and because I have many music memory moments that remind me of people, that any song a fast one or a slow one remind me of people I have lost...sometime I'll hear a line that reminds me of someone in a song lyric...so it depends on who I've lost
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Maybe because music is so emotive to me and because I have many music memory moments that remind me of people, that any song a fast one or a slow one remind me of people I have lost...sometime I'll hear a line that reminds me of someone in a song lyric...so it depends on who I've lost


I'm like that too. Right at the height of it's popularity, Avril Lavigne's "Complicated" was one of those songs. It reminds me of my prom date, who I hoped would be so much more. She had a bit of an Avril look going on too, which helped tie that song to her. The song came on the radio while we were driving to prom. So any time I hear that song, I remember this absolutely beautiful girl sitting next to me in my car, singing along to that song on the radio.
Hmm, the only prom I ever went to I had a male friend as my date haha. Plus we Europeans pissed off an American girl (math geek) who apparently had a Pi tattoo above her ass.
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Your day will come, sweetheart, and having ADD is only a fall back excuse.

Oh, and your generalisations about women? Well, get over it. Those are just generalisations, and the real world awaits you, in the next fifty years or so you likely have ahead of you.

Your flesh will sag, your hair will fall out, you will need glasses if you don't already, and good grief! you aren't going to be able to keep it up, or keep up with it...

Or with her, or with many women.

Have a nice weekend, now!


Haha, it's late as fuck here, it's been a long night and I was just about partied out. Then I read this and it made me laugh. Thanks babygirl, even though it feels effed up to call you that while I look at some old black dude playing a guitar in your screen pic. You must really like the blues. I hang out at the House of Blues sometimes. A buddy of mine gets me tickets to all the primo shows. Funny thing is, most of them aren't blues music at all so whats with the name of the joint? Who knows but it's a good scene there when a big name comes to stage.

But I get off topic so easy, don't I? There's that ADD again, haha.

I do live in the real world, the same one you do. Unless you are like those other guys that don't think LA really exists, or whatever. I'll tell you something about my outlook, and its honed from a self-actualization retreat that I went on with a bunch of industry people up in the Sierra's last year, and also from the teachings of the Hindi, who inspire the ayurveda yoga that is part of my training regimen. Some serious hot ass honies doing yoga too, by the way, so it's a personal contacts avenue as well. Multi-tasking at its best.

Back to the point, which is that I look forward to getting older. You know why? Because good looking men look better as they age. We get more sophisticated, the panache comes out, and we are suddenly better options than the young kids out there trying for their attention. I'm one of those young ones now, and I knock the bottom out of plenty of tail, trust me, but in a few years? Watch out world, and lazy husbands haha, I'll be rocking the armani and really pushing the interesting gentleman vibe. You seem like you are out of your teens, so tell me: would you rather have a seasoned man, rugged from more than a few years on this earth in manhood? Or do you really want to take a roll in the hay with Justin Bieber or Chace Crawford? You might not even know who those young dudes are, which would prove my point.

Bring on the graceful age, this world keeps getting better and better!

I would rather not wallow in my own sadness and sad songs, so I agree with a few others. I love music too, but not as something to help depress me when I really need to push on and climb back into the light.
well.. at the risk of being a sissy.. when my high school first love left me for another boy.. 'Don't Let the Sun Catch You Crying' by Gerry & the Pacemakers was playing.. that's my sad song..
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Your day will come, sweetheart, and having ADD is only a fall back excuse.

Oh, and your generalisations about women? Well, get over it. Those are just generalisations, and the real world awaits you, in the next fifty years or so you likely have ahead of you.

Your flesh will sag, your hair will fall out, you will need glasses if you don't already, and good grief! you aren't going to be able to keep it up, or keep up with it...

Or with her, or with many women.

Have a nice weekend, now!


Haha, it's late as fuck here, it's been a long night and I was just about partied out. Then I read this and it made me laugh. Thanks babygirl, even though it feels effed up to call you that while I look at some old black dude playing a guitar in your screen pic. You must really like the blues. I hang out at the House of Blues sometimes. A buddy of mine gets me tickets to all the primo shows. Funny thing is, most of them aren't blues music at all so whats with the name of the joint? Who knows but it's a good scene there when a big name comes to stage.

But I get off topic so easy, don't I? There's that ADD again, haha.

I do live in the real world, the same one you do. Unless you are like those other guys that don't think LA really exists, or whatever. I'll tell you something about my outlook, and its honed from a self-actualization retreat that I went on with a bunch of industry people up in the Sierra's last year, and also from the teachings of the Hindi, who inspire the ayurveda yoga that is part of my training regimen. Some serious hot ass honies doing yoga too, by the way, so it's a personal contacts avenue as well. Multi-tasking at its best.

Back to the point, which is that I look forward to getting older. You know why? Because good looking men look better as they age. We get more sophisticated, the panache comes out, and we are suddenly better options than the young kids out there trying for their attention. I'm one of those young ones now, and I knock the bottom out of plenty of tail, trust me, but in a few years? Watch out world, and lazy husbands haha, I'll be rocking the armani and really pushing the interesting gentleman vibe. You seem like you are out of your teens, so tell me: would you rather have a seasoned man, rugged from more than a few years on this earth in manhood? Or do you really want to take a roll in the hay with Justin Bieber or Chace Crawford? You might not even know who those young dudes are, which would prove my point.

Bring on the graceful age, this world keeps getting better and better!



There's another guy in here with about your same attitude.. he's never made love to a woman either....
Isn't this a thread about your favourite sad song? Not about why someone would or would not have a sad song.
That thread is here... Wait let me look it up.... Hmmm, cant find it..... Ooooh maybe because it's not there!
You are right, we got a little sidetracked. Other than situations similar to the one I listed above, I'm not really inclined to listen to a particular sad song. If anything, I tend to sit down with my guitar and play until something resembling a new song comes out that deals in some way with what I feel inside.

If I listen to a particular song as a standard fall back, it's either going to be "Let it Be" by The Beatles, because I know I need to let go, or She Ain't Pretty by a Canadian band called The Northern Pikes.



I like because I have known a few girls like the character in the song.
The last time I played a 'sad song' over and over and over...it was on an 8 track tape player I custom installed in the metal center console of my 1969 Pontiac Firebird (which was 8 years old at the time).

Christine 16 - by KISS. That's as sad as it ever became for me. Fuck a bunch of licking your balls like a forlorn puppy dog for a few weeks, when a relationship ends. That is a major waste of energy.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
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well.. at the risk of being a sissy.. when my high school first love left me for another boy.. 'Don't Let the Sun Catch You Crying' by Gerry & the Pacemakers was playing.. that's my sad song..


I have heard that song before, good song.
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When some woman rips out my heart, sets my balls aflame and emasculates what remaining threads of my tattered masculinity might remain...instead of soaking myself in Dan Fogelberg or Bette Midler ballads...I slap on some 1980's one hit wonders ...and - Party on, Garth!

Yannno..cuz I know what women want. And the next one might be watching how I react to being Nagasakied by the last dominatrix to shred me.



Get with the program, Driver...if you're gonna go retro with the spiked hair, go really retro with the tunes too. This only works with two sizes-too-tight - Pacific blue OP jams, a white wife-beater muscle T and some 3/4 high top Air Jordans though. Laces undone.




Oh my god, brill WMM I totally forgot about this track.
My all time favourite sad song is called "Fell from a great height" by Toni Childs & Stephen Cummings



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