Quote by sundancer2004
thank God I finally found myself and determined theres a little bit of Lesbian in me.................
yeah, i took a wrong turn and ended up in your esophagus. now, if you don't mind, i'd like to get out, please.
Quote by sundancer2004
thank God I finally found myself and determined theres a little bit of Lesbian in me.................
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Quote by Simmerdownchick
Butt ugly chicks use stolen pictures to represent themselves....yep, your right.
Quote by MonsoonMicky
This has given the whole debate a completely different perspective. It's good input. Well done.
This site is a form of entertainment and should be treated as such. Even if the person you're chatting with is a guy posing as a woman, as long as you're having fun and achieving what you desire, who gives a fuck.
This site is also a great source of information. If we listen to the opinions and advice given out by certain people we might all learn something at the end of the day.
So if we all lie back, chill out, have a laugh and enjoy the ride, I'm sure we can all find some form of gratification in one way or another.
Quote by kiera
I don't agree with you.
Chatty is bi but even so you don't have the right to cheat a person onto a situation that they would not normally do or sexually care for.
Quote by MonsoonMicky
Well, you raise a good point there.
I can see where you're coming from, but you must realise that people are here for various different reasons. Some people are here for sexual gratification, and if two blokes are getting their kicks out of posing as lesbians and talking dirty to each other, what harm are they doing?
But I can see what you mean: if someone is incognito and posing as the opposite sex to dupe people into doing things they wouldn't normally do, sexual or otherwise, then a moral boundary has been crossed in my opinion.
I've been duped many times online and, as a result, I'm extremely cautious now. I make acquaintances now rather than friends because I don't trust anybody. The key is to stay vigilant and assume everyone is lying about their identity until you find proof that suggests otherwise. We all have an obligation to ourselves to protect our best interests.
Quote by kiera
Thank you.
It hasn't ever personally happened to me thankfully.
Had a few men pose as women, though to my lesbian friends, which just isn't right.
I personally am honest here. My pics are me and I'm friends with SJ, who has met me as we are friends I wouldn't get away with lying, but I wouldn't do anyway, as I am who I am but I don't lie about it or try to deceive people.. even online that's just wrong IMHO.
Quote by Maryana
Since this is not a dating site why do you care?
Quote by Simmerdownchick
Lol, calm down, Prince Charming. I only made a correlation between your avatar and the point you're (trying?) to make. It's not like I was calling you out for calling all the women here "retarded cheerleaders"
like you did last week. ?
Quote by sundancer2004
Exactly, have you ever noticed, in almost, oh hell, in ALL the social webs, when you become interested insomeone and sky them if they have Skype or Yahoo, they almost always come back with: my cam is broken, I Don't have a cam, I'm intending to buy one< well thats a dead giveaway in my mind that they either are A: a man poseing, B: A woman leading youon....... either way, not worth pursuing
Quote by Jessica_Jones
^^^This crap really gets under my skin! A lot of men online have this notion that it's okay to force women onto cam, by making them feel like they need to prove their sex. That is the BIGGEST turn off ever... If i'm going to be on cam with someone, it's because I trust them, and like them. Never ever ever because they don't trust me, and I feel like I need to prove myself. Because once I do get on cam, and their jaw drops from me being exactly who I described myself as, or because I am perfectly depicted by the beautiful pictures I have sent... by the time they stop staring, and blabbering about how they just wanted to be sure, i've already told them they can now go fuck themselves. --deeeeeeeep breath--
the moral of the story is; if you're going to try to connect with someone, don't start off with "I think you're actually a guy so you have to prove it to me first."
I do have , I do have a cam, it's not broken, but I NEVER cam to prove I am who I say I am. You have to trust me first, then I would trust you..
Quote by Simmerdownchick
https://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postsm2287518_DEFINE-YOURSELF-IN-FIVE-MOVIES-You-DON39T-get-THIS-YOU-WON39T-GET-ME.aspx
Not sure how you deleted that I'm sure you know exactly what I'm talking about.
Quote by Simmerdownchick
I don't dislike you, Felix. I do think you are very pugnacious, and yes, you have directed some hostility towards me. I have no hard feelings, and appreciate your comment. You claim that I am lying, we both know it's not true. That's okay, I won't bring it up again. I really don't like to argue with you either. I don't like arguing with anyone, because it's negative energy that I'd rather not poison myself with. Yes, you push my buttons, but I assume I push yours as well. Let it go, and I will too. I don't want to look at my timeline and only see nasty, disrespectful and argumentative comments on it. I really don't think you mean to insult anyone, but (and please don't take this personally, I'm just trying to be honest with you) quite a lot of your responses to posts seem to be very arguementative and sometimes even insulting (although I expect you don't see it that way, but some comments can be percieved that way). I admit, I don't back down either. I have a big mouth and that's my worst quality. I'll be nice to anyone who is nice to me, but if I feel personally disrespected, I'm not a shrinking violet either. And you're not either, I get it. I understand you don't care, and will continue to offend, and, unless it's directed at me, or if you were to say things like 'all but 2% of women are butt ugly, blah blah blah (you take my point) I will completely let it go. I'd much rather be friends, or at least not enemies. Life is way too short for all this crap. So, I know you'll respond. You're very on top of it when it comes to responding (pretty amazaing at it really), but let's keep it to a communication level and not a game of throwing insults back and forth, ok?
Peace~
Quote by Simmerdownchick
Oh Felix. Felix, Felix, Felix...ok baby. It's gonna be alright
Quote by Jessica_Jones
On lush specifically, I would say it has a higher percentage of real women than most online sites. I would say maybe 60% are real women? 30% are men pretending to be lesbians, and the other 10% are cross loggers who have both male and female accounts, just to play head games with people. But really, who cares? You're not going to meat(haha a pun) the person in real life. If you enjoy their company and you click, why does it matter? I would say chances are that the promiscuous men and women on here have most likely cybered with the wrong sex.. and guess what? You loved it...
Quote by simplyjohn
What about the 'real' male member who has some 'fun' with a female only for 'her' to own up sometime later, with a new male gender account, that the former member was him!!! ... who cares? ... I would suggest that the fooled male member did/does.
Anyway in my view ALL the accounts here that state female as the gender are blokes. Not one supposed female has given me their contact details yet. There can be no other logical conclusion to draw from that.
Quote by Jessica_Jones
Oh John... but did you enjoy yourself at the time? And are you scarred for life?... I don't think so, and looking back now, i'm sure you're all the wiser! And I think we all know why you're not getting any contact information... You don't even know how to hang up a housecoat properly! I mean, who can commit to that? Also, certain things don't belong on the table! Tables are for glasses, not for asses...