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what makes for a really great blowjob?

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I think Sly Stalone said it best...."cup the balls...stroke the shaft."
When SouthernerEroticer that there was a very good thread on what makes a great blowjob, I found it.

The answers here are great and I would not want other girls not to see them as I think this is a great subject. So, I am bumping it up for others to see.
I've only received rave reviews for my blow job techniques, I've given quite a few to a number of men and I love doing it because I'm a dirty girl, there is no such thing as as perfect blow job as men respond differently, from the gentle sensual requirements to the face fucking brutes, I'm happy to service all requirements with the right man.

In general a rapid licking of the Frenulum is a far more effective form of stimulation than anything else I've tried.
Its really simple. Lick it like you would the ice cream that is dripping down the cone, the whole length of the shaft. Follow that by sucking as much in as you can while swirling your tongue around and stroking him at the same time.

Repeat as necessary until he cums.

Put your own twists in there like nuzzle his balls or looking into his eyes as you rub his cock across your face. It all comes down to the mouth and tongue though and its hard to mess it up.
With the number of women out there who would rather pluck their own eyes out than give a blowjob, to all of you I can only say "God bless you!"
Bwahahahahah! A woman's mouth!! (Nature will take care of the rest!) :-)
Enthusiasm. Eye contact. Noise. Sloppy wet is ok.
I think the best way to describe my ideal blowjob is to break down my favorite ones, blow by blow as it were:

-Start with taking hold of me in your hand, perhaps handjob me a bit first. A cool hand on my cock feels wonderful to start out with.

-Look at the head before you take me in your mouth. It feels like...you focus on it, and it fascinates you. Major turn on.

-Lick the slit. Way back when I had my first bj my girlfriend had started by jerking me off, and when I told her I was about to come she quickly went down and started tonguing the tip of my penis, tasting my pre-cum. That sent me over the edge with a vengeance.

-And right then, she took my head into her mouth and swallowed everything that came. She kept mouthing it for more even after I was done. I know some ladies don't like doing that, but damn it feels incredible. We can feel the muscles in your throat pulsing through our penis, swallowing what we give you. It's the most amazing sensation. It makes us feel like we're satisfying some hunger deep inside you...

Man. Just writing about these memories is getting my heart pumping.
definitely a little gagging
Not too big on the gagging, myself.

If a woman is a)into it/enthusiastic, b)turned-on, c)playful, that's all that's needed, the rest will take care of itself. I've had very "skilled" partners and newbies, and although technique is appreciated, it's more about heart and hotness than anything. I love the look in a girl's eyes when she's into it, and the satisfaction some women get from driving me absolutely crazy. It's the best when she really likes what she's doing.
i got a bit just below the end of my cock that when its sucked and licked feels amazing doing this inbetween sucking and licking while looking at me is amazing.
Her lips enveloping me,
her eyes upon me,
her lust consuming me.

And take your time.
The best thing she can do is to be into it and wanting to do it. Its just so much sexier when you know she wants to do it because shes enjoying it, rather than cause you want it. Thats the biggest turn on for me.
A lot of deepthroating, gagging, choking, tears, spit hanging from cock and actually going up and down it with your mouth. Don't concentrate on one area, and teeth are not welcome, maybe you can lightly tease but nothing more.
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best blow job for me when my girl start teasing me, while touching my dick she doing a dirty talk which really turned on and feels so good
The ingredients for the best BJ are:
1) Enthusiasm - she's got to wanna do it
2) Playful - If she is having fun, so am I
3) Clean - you have to be clean. Sand from the beach, not fun. Dirt, not fun. Now if you are hot and sweaty, that could work out.
4) Enjoyment - If she is enjoying herself, so am I
The ones I remember were always intense and she really was into it.
Under the boardwalk, that was fun.
In the car, oh yea.
At the state park, does it get any better?
As a morning wakeup, it does start the day off right.
Teeth...oh yes teeth being grazed up my shaft..squeezing tight while you stroke...flicking your tongue across the slit then plunging over the top....deep throating....ohhhhhh my godddd that would be awesome......where can I get my first blowjob.......and someone who will swallow as I watch....
As someone who has been on the receiving and giving end of a lot of blow jobs I would say that the person that enjoys giving is the best. Pay attention to the cock in your mouth and you will be able to tell what it likes. Like someone said before all cocks are different so enjoy it and listen and feel the cock tell you what is good.
eye contact is a must for starters makes us think your enjoying it just as much as us use your hands and lips not just tongue and the most important think is dont forget the balls 90% of women i had the pleasue of receiving a blow job off negleted the balls and im yet to find a woman who has made me climax through oral but every one is different
Watch gay porn and learn. Love what you're doing. Keep your mouth and body relaxed and comfortable. Use your hands and tits to touch his cock, balls, groin, ass, chest, and thighs and also, touch yourself. Learn how to breath and take easy deep breaths. Watch his face and concentrate on his cock. Don't swallow your mouth-water but let it soak him, your face and hands, bed, whatever. : ) Listen to what he tells you.
Torture the data long enough and they will confess to anything.
Have fun, dont use allot of teeth. Tongue on the base in your mouth for pressure. As said previous enjoy it and your partner will too. Listen to him, if he is reacting you are doing something he likes.
You all probably think im crazy - but I dont like blowjobs a lot. Key is that I am a very visual person. I like to watch and see things. The best part is if a woman puts on a good show and looks at me a lot - playing the dirty chick with the very dirty looks. But if a girl does that - most of the time we are doing something else very quick ...

I love to give head though - and I like to do it very slowly to enjoy the view as well.
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The ingredients for the best BJ are:
1) Enthusiasm - she's got to wanna do it
2) Playful - If she is having fun, so am I
3) Clean - you have to be clean. Sand from the beach, not fun. Dirt, not fun. Now if you are hot and sweaty, that could work out.
4) Enjoyment - If she is enjoying herself, so am I
The ones I remember were always intense and she really was into it.
Under the boardwalk, that was fun.
In the car, oh yea.
At the state park, does it get any better?
As a morning wakeup, it does start the day off right.


Well said!
Agree with the above. If it is as bad as going to the dentist, then no one is going to enjoy it. No particular method, depends on mood.

If hot and heavy and goal is get out a load of cum ASAP then suck like you were a Hoover... and don't forget those balls.

If it is part of the foreplay, nice and playful...and don't forget those balls.

oh and in case you did not catch it......and don't forget those balls. :-)