A friend of mine is a lesbian, and is writing a story that involves cocksucking. Since she doesn't know what a man feels, she asked for my thoughts on what makes it pleasurable. I gave her my thoughts, but thought that I would generalize the question, and broaden it somewhat. I've also asked a parallel question from the gals on the opposite forum, so:
What would make having her (or him, your choice) suck your cock even more pleasurable? What could she do that would really send you through the roof, make you explode BIG-time? Are there places you wish she'd reach, either with her mouth, or hands? Other parts of your body you'd like her to manipulate to add double the pleasure, double the fun (e.g. balls, ass, etc.)? Things she could do that would help (e.g., moan, look into your eyes, etc.)?
Is deep throating better than gagging? Do you prefer fast strokes or long, slow ones?
Likewise, what does she do that is a turn-off? What would you wish she would not do that would make it better? Again, it can do with technique, places she touches you wish she wouldn't, things she says ("Is that IT?"), facial expressions, anything at all that turns down the heat, takes the kettle off the boil, or pick your own metaphor…
Now's the time to let the little darlings (and also the great big ones) know what you'd really like for Christmas…
Thanks, guys!
James
An incredibly talented, but modest Polar Bear, often mischievous, but never malicious!
I love when a woman sucks my dick slow & deep. No choking cuz my dick is only 6&1/2 but slow & deep is excellent. Also running her nails gently around my balls while she is sucking my dick adds pleasure. I DO NOT LIKE when a woman uses her hands on my shaft while sucking. It is TOO distracting. Her mouth & lips are just fine. Rolling her tongue around the head feels good then slip it all the way in...OOOOoo
Best is when she sucks me in 69 position with my head clamped between her thighs and her nipples tickling my belly. Beat that!
If she's open to it, face fucking is the quickest way to orgasm. Not necessarily for the roughness or dominance but simply for getting to be in control and do whatever feels best. It's not inherently about gagging. I mean, there is such a thing as slow, shallow fucking.
But when leaving her in control, the more she focuses her mouth and tongue on the underside of the tip, makes smiling eye-contact, and uses her hands to stroke the shaft and rub the balls then the easier it will be for her to make him cum. It also goes a long way if she gives him something sexy to look at, like exposing her tits or actively playing with herself. Some encouraging dirty talk is highly recommended as well.
I've heard some guys claim that they cum quicker with a little ass play but I don't think that's necessarily a universal truth.
- I wouldn't say that deepthroat is better than gagging or vice versa. It's more accurate to call them different styles of the same concept: going in deep.
- Start with slow strokes and work to faster ones. It's not really about the speed as much as it is about having some kind of acceleration going on, even if it's a very, very slow acceleration. Think about the way one fucks (slow to fast) and that's pretty much the magic tempo
The biggest blowjob disappointment is if it's taking longer than she would like and it becomes apparent in her words, expression, or body language. It adds a performance pressure that makes it all the more difficult to finish which in turn causes her to further convey disinterest. So if it's taking too long, hide that fact. Pretend like you're having so much fun or else it can make a bad situation worse.
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Agreed with above response. 69 with her on top. Otherwise when she start by stroking and kissing me and moves down and lays between my legs and goes slow and deep while playing with my balls and maybe a wet finger in my ass. I will explode and scream every time. Remember the edges of the cock head and the underside of the head. A lot of women forget.
