i think that Fredrick's is geared more towards what guys want to see women than what women actually find sexy. it takes a lot of self confidence for a girl to go that route and it's more for pulling out on special occasions in the bed room or for really wild nights out. i like GCs comment on FoH being more vulgar - nothing wrong with that sometimes, but yeah, VS is more classy. that said, sometimes you should have something super slutty and just put it on cause you know your partner would enjoy it. release your inner slut.
this goes both ways, btw, men take heed of this.
personally, we don't really do the Fredrick's stuff, but there's some pretty crazy stuff in our special drawers for role play etc. as a side note, looking good in that kind of lingerie takes work and it's not just something you throw on at a whim - you need to get it just right to look like the models. don't expect miracles. most of us don't look like the girls in the catalog and i'm telling you, if you even look like you're judging us when we've put ourselves out there to please you, it's probably not going to happen again - be enthusiastically appreciative, even if you notice the stretch marks, the extra 5 pounds, the not quite as perky as they used to be breasts. THAT will get you a repeat performance. this will not:
"oh, baby, you need to go to the gym more often."