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Watching your wife/partner with another man

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Rookie Scribe
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1 yes
2 yes no yes no
3 yes (loved it then hated it still unsure but still get turned on by it)

you know the old saying........be carefull what you wish for.....
Active Ink Slinger
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1) Yes
2) Not sure
3) No

I'm thinking this is fairly normal
Advanced Wordsmith
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I've been with women that enjoyed watching me with another woman or her and another woman at the same time. That's fine if it pleases her. But me, I don't like to share... not at the same time. I have a couple of friends with benefits and one of them has sex with another man when she's not with me but not while I'm watching.
Active Ink Slinger
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1) yeah one of my biggest fantasies
2) yeah
3) only once, it was with a close mate of ours and it was amazing. Rules are key though
Lurker
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1) Yes.....many times!!!!
2) Not sure, it would really hot
3) No

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Lurker
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1) Yes
2) Yes
3) Yes
It's only sex. Don't be so uptight and live a little!
Lurker
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1)No
2)No
3)No
Lurker
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1) Do you ever fantasize about seeing your wife/partner have sex with another man?
Yeah, the thought has come across my mind a couple of times.
2) Would you really like it to happen?
Probably not. best left to my fantasy life
3) Have you actually seen your wife/partner have sex with another man?
No
Lurker
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1) Yes
2) Yes
3) Yes
Lurker
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1. No
2. No
3. No
I would rather kill him for that.
Lurker
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Thanks to everyone who responded for satisfying my curiosity. On balance it would seem that the gals are slightly keener on this than us guys, but not by much.
Lurker
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1) Do you ever fantasize about seeing your wife/partner have sex with another man?
A) YES

2) Would you really like it to happen?
A) NO

3) Have you actually seen your wife/partner have sex with another man?
A) YES
Rookie Scribe
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1 Yes
2 Yes
3 Yes

Ironically she think's she wouldn't be able to handle the reverse ie me with a another women but would jump at a bit of girl on girl with me there.

I can live in hope!
Lurker
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1) Do you ever fantasize about seeing your wife/partner have sex with another man?
Yes!

2) Would you really like it to happen?
Not really sure.

3) Have you actually seen your wife/partner have sex with another man?
Yes and no. I saw a home made porno my wife made with her ex-husband on thier honeymoon, but I have never seen her with another man in real life.
Active Ink Slinger
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1) Do you ever fantasize about seeing your wife/partner have sex with another man?
Yes I do it really gets me excited
2) Would you really like it to happen?
Only if I'm there to watch, I think
3) Have you actually seen your wife/partner have sex with another man?
No
Rookie Scribe
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1) yes
2) yes
3) yes but with rules it's amazing experience. Love watching my partner making someone else cum. Anf there's always the option to join in!!
Rookie Scribe
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1) Yes
2) Yes
3) Yes, also put on a show for her with the other guy and had sex with her at same time as the other guy ;-) Loved every minute of it :-)
Active Ink Slinger
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Could never share it takes a very strong and open relationship to do that and couldn't watch another guy Fuck my girl
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Yes
Yes
OMG Yes. She only has sex with men who have large cocks now!
Story Verifier
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1) Do you ever fantasize about seeing your wife/partner have sex with another man?
I think anyone who says no is lying - fantasizing about an act doesn't necessarily mean acceptance of the practice, so yes for me
2) Would you really like it to happen?
Not with a relationship any deeper than 'fuck-buddies', I couldn't bear to have a soul-mate or the love of my life do that.
3) Have you actually seen your wife/partner have sex with another man?
Only twice in swap situations, again with someone who was a fuck-buddy I had only a casual no-strings sexual relationship with.
Lurker
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When it comes to thinking about my lover with another man, no... I'm a bit old fashioned and a little selfish I suppose. I would like to think we were enough for each other, but if it were a fantasy of hers and she talked to me about it, I would consider the possibility, but initially would probably be against it.
Active Ink Slinger
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1) YES!!!!!!!!
2) NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
3) no
Active Ink Slinger
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Just out of curiosity:

1) Do you ever fantasize about seeing your wife/partner have sex with another man?
2) Would you really like it to happen?
3) Have you actually seen your wife/partner have sex with another man?


1. Yes
2. Sometimes yes, but the scare of losing her emotionally turns me off
3. No.
Lurker
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Thought about it. Yes
Would I let it happen. Probably not. Although watching her get gangbanged is a fantasy. The thought of her being pounded until she can't take any more is a huge turn on. But I would like to try a full swap.
ever happen. No.
Active Ink Slinger
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Yes I did

Yes, in fact I haave encouraged it

Yes I have on multiple occasions.

I tell any woman that I am with that I am not mutually exclusive and that I will on occasion enjoy the company of another female. I go on to say that I can't forbid her from doing what I do. I encourage the swinging lifestyle, but if she chooses not to embrace the lifestyle, I encourage the occasional tryst if she chooses to do so. If after I plead my case, she decides that she can not abide by my lifestyle, she is free to exit the relationship, in fact I encourage it so that feelings do not get hurt in the future.
Active Ink Slinger
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yes on all three. we swing on occasion. have had both 3somes and 4 somes. so i have watched her have sex while i was having sex and while it was just her and the other guy. it keeps the spice in the relationship and is really hot to watch.
Bouncing is what Tiggers do best!!!!! So can i make you bounce?
Active Ink Slinger
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(1)Yes
(2)Yes
(3)Yes, was very enjoyable but could be the cause of my marriages failure I am told.
Lurker
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1) Do you ever fantasize about seeing your wife/partner have sex with another man?
All the time!!!

2) Would you really like it to happen?
I think I would, Initially I would be very excited and horny, but I'm not sure how I would feel after the deed is done when she really likes it and wants more or wants they other guy more than me.

3) Have you actually seen your wife/partner have sex with another man?
No
Primus Omnium
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Yes...Yes...No