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Sluts? Why?
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I think men like sluts is the same reason that women like men that are going to treat them like crap.
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I must be different. I would prefer a good girl that I could keep around and have her try new things with me, then fuck a slut that is only looking to notch her headboard.
I think the psychological criticism of 'slut' is driven by men's (and society's) fear of female sexual power.
There are different things meant by 'slut'. Sometimes it's the coldly manipulative types, which can be understandably negative. And other times it's used against girls who are simply doing what many men want to do, have a good time. There's nothing wrong with that and I have contempt for jerks (both men and women) who abuse them with the label 'slut'.
There are different things meant by 'slut'. Sometimes it's the coldly manipulative types, which can be understandably negative. And other times it's used against girls who are simply doing what many men want to do, have a good time. There's nothing wrong with that and I have contempt for jerks (both men and women) who abuse them with the label 'slut'.
Quote by MMonroe
Guys like slutty girls because they're an easy lay and the most effort they'll have to put it in is by them some cheap vodka.
Also, the other thing to remember is that most guys wont bring a slutty girl home with them for the long term. Theyll fuck her once then move on to the next slutty girl until they meet one who they know wont run off with the next cock they see.
Well i say guys, but isnt this what everyone does
Agree with the above. And yes I do think they are looser at least in my mind.
A girl who knows how to turn her man on in the bedroom and being a bit kinky doesn't qualify to be a slut...
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Quote by Sexxiiee
I've noticed that a lot of guys on here tend to like the slutty girls who will do anything for a cock more than they do for the like of me who won't do anything For a cock and hates being called a slut! So I wanna know what you guys prefer and why?
And if a girl is a slut and has had many cocks wont she be loose?
Attitude is everything. If a man has many women because he enjoys them does that make him a bad person, or does it make him a man who loves women? If a woman enjoys sex and wants difference and spice in her sex life does that make her a bad woman? It's not about the name/label, it's about attitude. If you don't like being called a slut, say so. If you choose to limit your sex life, it's yours to do with as you please. As for me and my tastes, what people call a slut is a giving, loving woman. And tight is a relative thing anyway...so far, they all feel good to me!
You may confuse love and lust.
I'm old enough to know better.
Love is the same thing as lust, only longer.
If someone tells you that love is monogamous,
they don't love you, they want to own you.
I'm old enough to know better.
Love is the same thing as lust, only longer.
If someone tells you that love is monogamous,
they don't love you, they want to own you.
Active Ink Slinger
Slut is easy to get and she knows a way around a cock, unlike inexperienced girls, STD's are important issue but if there was a clean "normal" girl and clean slutty girl, I'd go with the latter, because I can do more with her without having my self being led into a odd situation.
Rookie Scribe
Desperation isn't really attractive in either gender. I learned that the hard way. That said, personally I think there is a point where promiscuity can be attractive and where it begins to be distasteful. I'm much more attracted to demure girls but I'd be full of it if I said a hot girl in a mini skirt wouldn't turn my head.
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In all fairness, I think there are many reasons why guys would like 'sluts.' However, I am going to point out there are plenty of guys out there that want more from a girl than just sex. However, I doubt you'll find many of those on here, I don't see many people going "Hey, I'm going to have some good ol'social interaction with some females on lushstories today!"
I think men are more willing to fuck than women are because there are fewer consequences for us, IE: we don't have to worry about getting pregnant. In addition, my point with that is girls have more to lose from sex, so they are more careful (in general) about choosing when and if they will sleep with a person.
I think men are more willing to fuck than women are because there are fewer consequences for us, IE: we don't have to worry about getting pregnant. In addition, my point with that is girls have more to lose from sex, so they are more careful (in general) about choosing when and if they will sleep with a person.
Quote by Sexxiiee
I've noticed that a lot of guys on here tend to like the slutty girls who will do anything for a cock more than they do for the like of me who won't do anything For a cock and hates being called a slut! So I wanna know what you guys prefer and why?
And if a girl is a slut and has had many cocks wont she be loose?
Speaking from my own experience, I don't mind a girl with history, BUT..... I like a Classy, Clever, Funny Girl..... I need to be proud that I'm with her..... I ALSO need her to be a Slut.... But MY Slut, on our time.... And nobody else needs to know.....
xx Steph
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I ALSO need her to be a Slut.... But MY Slut, on our time.... And nobody else needs to know.....
xx Steph
This.
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Slut definition : A person, especially a woman, considered sexually promiscuous. Isnt it like horses for courses ?? If all one wants is to engage in sex for only physical reward then fine. Want more then dont perhaps engage a slut. In the context of Lush though many ladies dont want, or very little, chat etc before 'wanna go pvt' and thats fine. That doesnt make her a slut though.
Guys are generally fuck-machines: meaning, they want a quick lay. Some girls are like that too, until they meet "The One". A minority of girls are true sluts and are slutty all the time ( I don't mean the back-stabbing slutty types -- I mean the truly polysexual, 'I will fuck anything that moves', slutty type). I like those girls.
I don't generally like girls who aren't interested in sex. Why? I like sex. I'm also a freak in bed. I like it kinky. If she wants sex and can match me kink for kink then that's cool.
All that being said, I do like a girl who can actually hold a conversation. Most guys aren't like that, though. They like low-hanging fruit. Fucking is low-hanging fruit and the lowest common denominator. I want both. A freak in bed and someone who is actually a person to me.
But, that also is a tall order and means that I have to hold out for a long time.
And besides, this is a sex/erotica website. If someone wasn't interested in sex, kinky, slutty, sexually forward in some manner, or all of the above then why are they on the site? To read the sexy stories? Yeah. But like-minds tend to attract. And minds that like sex will congregate. An that means more of the sexually-free/slutty types.
I don't generally like girls who aren't interested in sex. Why? I like sex. I'm also a freak in bed. I like it kinky. If she wants sex and can match me kink for kink then that's cool.
All that being said, I do like a girl who can actually hold a conversation. Most guys aren't like that, though. They like low-hanging fruit. Fucking is low-hanging fruit and the lowest common denominator. I want both. A freak in bed and someone who is actually a person to me.
But, that also is a tall order and means that I have to hold out for a long time.
And besides, this is a sex/erotica website. If someone wasn't interested in sex, kinky, slutty, sexually forward in some manner, or all of the above then why are they on the site? To read the sexy stories? Yeah. But like-minds tend to attract. And minds that like sex will congregate. An that means more of the sexually-free/slutty types.
Constant Gardener
Quote by simplyjohn
Slut definition : A person, especially a woman, considered sexually promiscuous. Isnt it like horses for courses ?? If all one wants is to engage in sex for only physical reward then fine. Want more then dont perhaps engage a slut. In the context of Lush though many ladies dont want, or very little, chat etc before 'wanna go pvt' and thats fine. That doesnt make her a slut though.
John, you won't admit to ever having your slut phases?
I've enjoyed several such in my life. Hell, some who know me, might say that I have been and continue to be, the biggest damned, nondisparaging slut in the entire midwest of America.
I do know a handful of male sluts who make me look like a rookie. (and that's just between Cincinnati and Denver). There are hundreds of thousands in my class (above & just below me).
Own it, John... The truth will set you free.
I've embraced and enjoyed my slutdom.
Fuck the rest of you judgmental, jealous bastards and bitches. I've had a blast and continue to do so.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Advanced Wordsmith
We really want that old saying, "Slut in the bedroom, Cook in the kitchen, and a Lady in public" An old timer once told me there were two kinds of women. Ones you fuck and ones you marry.
Active Ink Slinger
Let's face it, guys think about sex all the time and don't want all the games associated with trying to get sex. I myself would rather not have a slut around but when you want to do it, you want it now with no bs involved. Like the old saying goes, sluts are great as long as you are not married to one
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Quote by Buz
Sluts are always preferred. I am a slutty male that wants someone who can fuck my brains out, who talks dirty and shouts nasty things while receiving my throbbing erect cock! A woman who likes her hair pulled and her ass slapped, who says, "grease up that cock and ram it in my ass!" A slutty woman who gives long slow sloppy wet blow jobs. Who gets sloppy wet when she is sexually excited. Who screams, "fuck me!" A woman who will ride my face as if I am a race horse. A woman who will not let go of you and not let you stop licking her until she is cumming so hard she has to shove your head away. A woman who will dress slutty for me, wear crotchless panties and watch a porn movie and suggest we try what we just saw. A woman who revels in you giving her an orgasm as much or more than you receiving one. A woman who looks hot as hell, knows it and doesn't mind flaunting it!
Why? Why? Why? Why would any of us guys want someone who acts frigid and uninterested and does not want to rock our world?
my thoughts exactly!
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I used to be a good girl until I started realizing it wasn't any fun.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by Sexxiiee
And if a girl is a slut and has had many cocks wont she be loose?
I have actually never understood the logic behind the concept of a slutty girl being more 'loose'.
You can take a girl that's only ever had sex with one man, and let's say she's in a monogamous relationship having sex 1-2 times a day, and then compare it to a 'slut' who fucks let's say 2 new guys a week. Which girl has had more dick pounding away at her?
Even if the concept of 'lots of sex = a loose pussy' was true, it would be the quantity of sex, not the quantity of new cock that would determine it.
As for the question - meh, I think the term 'slut' has so many different connotations these days and means something different to everyone. One thing for sure is that women will judge other women far more than men will judge them. As a gender we are often our own worst enemy that way.
The Linebacker
100% of ALL men are sluts! So what if a woman enjoys and is good at sex? I'd much rather have a hottie that knows what she is doing and doesn't mind getting to it than have to work hard at getting some girl who only turns out to be a 'dead fish" in bed. (I am happy to be out that cycle anyhow!)
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Quote by Buz
Sluts are always preferred. I am a slutty male that wants someone who can fuck my brains out, who talks dirty and shouts nasty things while receiving my throbbing erect cock! A woman who likes her hair pulled and her ass slapped, who says, "grease up that cock and ram it in my ass!" A slutty woman who gives long slow sloppy wet blow jobs. Who gets sloppy wet when she is sexually excited. Who screams, "fuck me!" A woman who will ride my face as if I am a race horse. A woman who will not let go of you and not let you stop licking her until she is cumming so hard she has to shove your head away. A woman who will dress slutty for me, wear crotchless panties and watch a porn movie and suggest we try what we just saw. A woman who revels in you giving her an orgasm as much or more than you receiving one. A woman who looks hot as hell, knows it and doesn't mind flaunting it!
Why? Why? Why? Why would any of us guys want someone who acts frigid and uninterested and does not want to rock our world?
Buzz I think you just wraped this forum up nicely I dont believe there is anything else to say. Sluts are not bad they know what they want they go get it and and dont care who knows it.
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For me... I want my woman to be MY slut.
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by Sexxiiee
I've noticed that a lot of guys on here tend to like the slutty girls who will do anything for a cock more than they do for the like of me who won't do anything For a cock and hates being called a slut! So I wanna know what you guys prefer and why?
And if a girl is a slut and has had many cocks wont she be loose?
may be it will help if you knew a little about the way girl's bodies are made... (meaning anatomy and physiology {ways the human body works} and work
pussy is a very remarkable organ.. normally before child birth it is a very tight pqassage and could shrink to its original size even after accomodating a largish object like anothr girl's fist.. ( all five fingers.) the shrinking back to original one or two finger breadth is a normal faeture..the largest object which is allowed to pass through a girl's vahina is the baby's head.. from the forehead to the backside of the head .. called the occiput... the fronto occipital length is the largest dimention which can esily pass through the birth canal so it is a myth that women get " loose" and it is a male false idea/belief
so dont worry about it.. if any further doubts dont hesitate .. ask away
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The first woman I dated after my divorce was 5 years my junior and between dating and marriage had been out of the loop for almost 7 years and my thinking that the 8 women I'd been with was alot, but she had slept with nearly 30 men. now that was pretty slutty.