Homosexuality is a sexual preference, a state of mind so to speak. If you are a male and sexually aroused by the thought of other men, then you certainly at least have bisexual tendencies. If you are a male and are not sexually aroused by women then you are homosexual. If you are not aroused by the thought of other men but sexually open minded and another man is giving you oral or and you enjoy it, it's just sex: no matter if you got hard right away or it took a while. IMHO
The only thing he (your friend)is, is a guy who enjoyed a blow job. Who you get a blow job from is irrelevant. I do not care who I get a blow job from, it feels good!! What makes you gay or bi is what a person does as in giving a blow job, being a bottom. Receiving a blow job and nothing else makes you normal.
That situation would never happen. I'm in to women and women only ! Love the gals... covet the gals....
I've heard that if you are getting sucked and you are thinking about a woman then it isn't gay :P
Or at least that's what Jemaine Clement from Flight of the Conchords seems to think... lol
Honestly. Who cares about labels. There's only two that I live by: 1) I like it, and 2) I don't like it.
No such thing as gay or straight, other than to communicate a thought with words.
Well it certainly doesn't make him gay or bi. However, it may open a few doors should something like that occur. Like a cell door for sexual assault, or maybe he thinks that wasn't at all bad and maybe he'd like to try that again to make sure he wasn't dreaming...
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In my opinion, you can only be classified as gay if you're physically and/or emotionally attached to the same sex. Meaning, if your friend woke up getting head from a dude, it doesn't make him gay. It just means he likes getting his dick sucked. If he only gets aroused by men, then yes, he's gay. But a guy's dick doesn't know the difference when it comes to these things.
If he was fully aware, it'd be totally different.
And I for one wouldn't take kindly to someone randomly going down on me if they've never done it while I was fully aware of who they were.
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The point is that you are asking this question at all.
That means you're not absolutely certain.
No, this situation does not make you gay but... I personally find it hard to believe you didn't at some point find anything unusual about the encounter. Perhaps subconsciously you had an idea it might be your room mate and didn't want to acknowledge it. Maybe you aren't quite ready to admit that to yourself. Either way, don't beat yourself up over it but you might want to talk to your room mate.
I a personally making real sure the person I am with is of the female gender. No offense but Im not gay or curious about becoming gay.
how did he feel about it afterwards? if he still enjoyed it then he could be bi .would he do it again?
if not then i`d say no not gay.
personally i had a 3som with wife and another guy and wife persuaded me to let other guy blow me and as soon as he put his mouth on me i flopped lol does that make me gay?
i didn`t enjoy it btw and wouldn`t try it again his tongue was a lot rougher so maybe your pal knew?
My concern with that story is that he didn't know who was giving him a blowjob...
I would not still be roommates with that guy.
I am straight...but my messauge guy likes to blow me..does that make me bi?
hmm.. no not gay.. but the roommate would be homeless..
I would suck a cock and swallow a big load of hot cum but would never consider myself gay. I love women but also like cocks and balls. I don't love men.
Of course a guy sucking another guys cock doesn't make you gay but it sure does open up new possibilities. I love to suck cock and don't consider myself gay. I'm bi and I love it.
i would let you suck mine,,n i would more than likely gobble yours
I guess we all have opinions on this but I think to be gay you need to be attracted to men.
Kissing guys for me would be the boundary. If you found a man attractive and desired to kiss him - then you're more than likely gay.
Oral sex is just an act. A comedian in my college days put that into perspective by saying:
"I've often thought about being gay. Yes, I have. I thought about how it would be to give a blow job. What put me off was the thought of looking up and seeing a guy with a beard and a pipe, saying (yorkshire accent) - that's it, suck it lad, suck it!
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I don't find myself attracted to men, but I've both sucked, and been sucked by, another guy (and I have very fond memories of it, too). Sometimes, while looking at pics, I'll see a mmf shot where the guys are interacting, and it might be hot as hell, but if it's just two guys, then I'm not interested.
As soon as someone comes up with a definition of what's "gay" and what's not....that we can all agree on, then we can make that decision whether getting sucked off by another guy is gay or not. Personally, I've been sucked off by a few guys and I enjoyed the feeling of power and control I had over them. I never would suck them off nor would I have any other contact than his mouth on my dick. I have let two husbands suck my dick while their wives watched...totally separate flings but I got several blow jobs from each guy....and I enjoyed 'lording' it over them...and their wives loved seeing me control them and have my way with them. There was a kid in high school who volunteered to blow me whenever I wanted....he said he had a crush on me and would do ANYTHING I wanted. Sometimes I would get so fucking horny....with big loads of hot, sticky cum trying to burst out of my prostate...and I literally couldn't stand it. Somehow....he would appear out of nowhere and offer up his mouth for my fucking pleasure. I had to have him suck me off three times before my horns were trimmed...but he loved doing it for me....again....no recip...at all!
Does not make either gay. Unless both does it more than one time. I would be telling the room mate if he does it again he will be looking for a new place to live and I would keep my mouth shut about the experience. Now does it go on the lines of ? Yes because it was unwanted form of sex. Question is now can oral sex be a form of ? And if so answer this how did the person get hurt during oral sex?
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