Guys, one of the things that has been puzzling me is the desire of some men to be cuckolded by their wives or girlfriends. Can any of you enlighten me as to what might be behind this?
Whoops, double posting ! Sorry
But why would a man want to be humiliated?
Bizarrely it might be some fucked up sense of control over the woman (as these things usually are). One explanation could be that the fact that he is there puts him in a supervisory role as if he's delegated his duties to someone else. There are a lot of different power plays in operation here: watching, being watched, the still nature of female infidelity - all rolled into one.
Something perhaps more likely is the role of porn. Imagine a guy who watches a lot of porn (if you can). For hours and hours he gets himself off watching other people fuck - then goes to bed with his wife and can't get it up. Maybe his brain's rewired - maybe now he wants his wife to be the pornstar in his own private show. Does kind of bring us back to control again.
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Why not read some stories instead
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I caught my wife cheating with my best friend once and the first few months I was pissed but after awhile it turned me on a bit. I can only imagine that guys that are into this must like getting freaked out a bit. Or maybe they think their partner is so hot, they want to watch them have sex like watching a porn star. Or maybe they like thinking they are pimping her out. I don't think I could ever go through with this scenario as a spectator but I could do a threesome with her and another guy friend.
Cuckolds enjoy a type of mental masochism. The average cuckold is intelligent and well educated.
Quite possibly the cuckold videos and stories exaggerate the scenes to cartoonish dimensions; as do most BDSM videos. If a couple has a desire to do a MMF scene, but want the husband to feel, even if artificially, guilt free, then the obvious path would be 'woman-in-charge.' In most real life BDSM it is the submissive whose fantasy is being served first; the submissive controls the scene, although acting powerless so the conscience isn't bothered. I'm suspecting most real life cuckold scenes are the same, drawing out the desire in an odd type of extended foreplay.
Obviously, some men are masochists. Some have a major inferiority complex or both.
Among who are better adjusted or emotionally healthier, I'd say it also comes from an honest desire to see one's partner satisfied without the anxiety of having to perform well.
Small cocks?
