Ok guys so you are doing a woman from behind. You are stroking deep in her pussy. You look down and there before you is her tight pink asshole. What do you do? Do you leave it alone? Do you rub it with your thumb? Do you stick a finger in it? Do you ask first or just do it? Do you play with it because it gives you added pleasure or are you trying to give her that?
I usually rub it with my thumb first to see her reaction. If she enjoys it, I will try slowly put a finger in; otherwise I will just stop it and focus on what we're doing.
Beause I found it hot, and I found some women think it's hot too. But not everyone think so, so I usually test the waters first before further actions.
I'll gently rub it and slowly insert my thumb. If she says 'no', then I stop. If she likes it, then we may go a little further. It all depends on her.
As my finger traces across back or butt I pay attention. As I run my finger across the rosebud in question I try to gauge reaction, avoiding words. Since we are plugged in already I know a simple no will stop stop any further gentle probes. Because reactions, grunts and groans can be confusing and vary I have found that stopping on what I may perceive as communicated unpleasantness only gets a "What did you stop for" chastisement. Dames is so confusin' As long as we all know that no means no we can go from there. No?
i would rub a thumb and then insert
I just do it and watch the reaction, more moaning will mean more things to touch and experience!
I would much rather ask than just go ahead with any kind of touching in that area.
Every now and then a song comes to mind " You gotto lick it, before you stick it" I truely believe that is good advice....
i always like to rub and finger, but making sure first is a very good idea. you can get shut down very quickly, and that doesnt end well for anybody!
There is no sexier, titillating sensation than someone playing with mu butthole. I love being rimmed by my hubby and he does that doggy style for easier access. I can also play with my pussy lips and clitty and get my juices running. After a long foreplay, he will use my juices along with his saliva to use as a lubricant to ease his finger slowly into my butt. Once in, he can finger my butt before replacing his finger with his raging hardon. He will fuck me anally until he is nearly ready to cum. Hubby will them withdraw and fuck me with his cock and then at the same time, finger my ass, feeling his own cock thrust deep inside me. He will then shoot his full load deep inside me.
I watch the hole and then rub it if she likes that then I try to insert my fingure but if she tells me to stop then I stop. Even if it arouses me if it does nothing for her then it is not worth continuing.
My Wife does not enjoy me playing there so if Icould find someone that likes it I would be happy.
I rub her with my fingers , if she is in the moud I WILL INSERT ONE. She has never let me insert my hard on.
You gently rub it and maybe even pull out and give her a lil tongue too and see if she is into it and then if she is willing slip a well lubricated finger in and maybe more if your lucky.
Veni, vidi, vici" Julius Caesar 47 BC
I ask first then go from there.
I like to play with the butthole.
At times we play catch, fetch or even hide and go seek! Damn that butthole is also good at red rover and nikki nikki nine doors - what an ass!
heh, I thought this was a thread about boyfriends/husbands.
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Like to spit on it and let my saliva dripp down. Always a good way to gauge her reaction. If she doesn't really flinch or complain I would rub it with my thumb and lick it alternating till she is ready for
If i think shes in the mood for it i'll start with a rub with her juices then push in a finger if she'll let me
I gently press on her asshole with my thumb, teasing her and seeing how she responds...if she seems to like it I add pressure until I push my thumb inside. I think this is definite turn on for me, but also for her...that is, if she doesn't respond negatively. If she asks to stop, or moves the hand away, then I know better for next time...
Too many nerve endings for it to be ignored...but if she says no...then it's no...but anal play is always a go...
I'll suck my thumb, then rub her ass, if the response if good, insert. I love to feel my cock sliding in her pussy and feeling it with my thumb/finger through her ass.
I virtually always rub and press on her asshole with my thumb while fucking her pussy from behind, using saliva as a lubricant. Often it's already wet from me rimming her, which I absolutely love doing. But no girl has ever complained about a bit of gentle ass play - as long as the finger doesn't go too deep in. It definitely turns me on, and usually the girl as well. My gf says it just feels really naughty to expose her asshole to me like that.
Slide my hand around the hole and see if she likes it or not then go from there
totally depends on the mood and what my partner enjoys - if it's one of those evenings, then I might begin with some light teasing and if she responds by pressing up against me or some other signal, then I forge ahead, so to speak.
I prefer to rub my thumb over it and press gently. If she leans back into it, or my thumb slips right in, then we will see how far it goes from there. But of course, only going as for as she wants
Before penetrating with my member I would prefer to give oral pleasure, time there to test the water.
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