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Orgasm vs Ejaculation
Active Ink Slinger
No the two go together for me, couldn't say if the same for all men.
Even a dry ejaculation after cumming many times with orgasm feels like ejaculation with spunk.
Even a dry ejaculation after cumming many times with orgasm feels like ejaculation with spunk.
Active Ink Slinger
If it is possible... I have no idea how to do it.
I just want to be someone's everything....is that a problem?
Gentleman Stranger
I've read that it's possible to put pressure at the base of the penis and cause the semen to be forced into the bladder instead of being ejaculated, although your body is still trying very hard to do so and the orgasm is still experienced. Supposedly it's harmless and the cum exits the next time the guy pees, but it raises the question; why would anyone do that? Or, in other words, WTF???
Never tried it, and don't expect to.
Never tried it, and don't expect to.
No i have Never heard of this happening, and its something i have personally never experienced myself. Maybe the nearest thing would be in *tantric sex* with a "mental" orgasm rather than a physical one. When i edge myself for a long time sometimes mentally i get So close to orgasm that even if i stop, still a little bit of sperm will come out.
Can be very difficult to hold it back at that point so i kinda think that that is as close to orgasm as a guy can get without ejaculating. And that when we let it go, or simply cant cant control it any longer, then we pump sperm in total orgasm. Or as we say in the UK "spunk- up". Of course i can only really speak for myself though, but i'd find it hard to believe that any guy could truthfully claim to have orgasmed without ejaculating too.
Active Ink Slinger
It can happen when the well runnith dry. I can assure y'all it is possible. I have seen it with Hubbie often and with others. Especially with members of our swing group which has ten guys in it. It usually happens after two to Four orgasms with ejaculation. I and / or one of there other lovers have fucked and / or sucked him / them dry. I have seen him / them have a very strong orgasm with absolutely no fluid at all. This will happen during very erotic events.
Brandie
Brandie
Quote by NOLAHotGal
It can happen when the well runnith dry. I can assure y'all it is possible. I have seen it with Hubbie often and with others. Especially with members of our swing group which has ten guys in it. It usually happens after two to Four orgasms with ejaculation. I and / or one of there other lovers have fucked and / or sucked him / them dry. I have seen him / them have a very strong orgasm with absolutely no fluid at all. This will happen during very erotic events.
Brandie
I appreciate and get what you are saying, but is that not as i said a "mental" rather than physical thing?. If a gun is out of bullets but you can still pull the trigger, has the gun Really shot again??!!. I would say Not! xxx
Active Ink Slinger
It's happened to me before. The feeling isn't nearly as intense, but it still feels like an orgasm.
Quote by Becky4Texas
Guys....can you have an orgasm without ejaculating?
Yes, I have experienced this.
It hasn't happened very often and when it has happened it was generally with a second or subsequent orgasm in a series of orgasms.
It has also happened when I have been unwell, though, for the life of me, I can't remember what the ailment was.
Active Ink Slinger
Yes, once or twice after coming several times. The 80's and 90's were very good to me.
Advanced Wordsmith
Yes, it is still possible to orgasm without ejaculating. The well does run dry as HotGal says.
Quote by Dave69fan
I appreciate and get what you are saying, but is that not as i said a "mental" rather than physical thing?. If a gun is out of bullets but you can still pull the trigger, has the gun Really shot again??!!. I would say Not! xxx
According to Webster......the physical and emotional sensation experienced at the peak of sexual excitation, usually resulting from stimulation of the sexual organ and usually accompanied in the male by ejaculation.
notice it says usually accompanied in the male by ejaculation.....women orgasm and rarely ejaculate any fluid from our bodies, but it is a physical and emotional sensation......just wondering whether guys here experience the same.....the guy I am currently intimate with, says he has orgasms without ejaculating and while the sensation is not as strong as when he ejaculates, it is still quite pleasing to him. It has nothing to do with the well running dry, as he will have an orgasm without ejaculating and then ejaculate later on.
Clumeleon
Yeah, this can happen, and not just when "the well has run dry". I can only think of a couple of occasions when I've done this. Usually achieved by applying pressure at the base of the penis at the moment of orgasm, to "stem the flow", so to speak.
Quote by Becky4Texas
According to Webster......the physical and emotional sensation experienced at the peak of sexual excitation, usually resulting from stimulation of the sexual organ and usually accompanied in the male by ejaculation.
notice it says usually accompanied in the male by ejaculation.....women orgasm and rarely ejaculate any fluid from our bodies, but it is a physical and emotional sensation......just wondering whether guys here experience the same.....the guy I am currently intimate with, says he has orgasms without ejaculating and while the sensation is not as strong as when he ejaculates, it is still quite pleasing to him. It has nothing to do with the well running dry, as he will have an orgasm without ejaculating and then ejaculate later on.
Well Becky, i would imagine that just as with our sexual preferences and how we react to stimulation and situation, it is very much an Individual things. Then f course there is "squirting" which some women would say is female ejaculation, while others would say its just porn BS. And as with everything, there are Always exceptions to the rules.
Active Ink Slinger
I have not had one without the other. But they say we all are created differently and have different levels of satisfaction and needs.
Quote by Becky4Texas
which is why I started the thread to see if it has happened to others here.....wasnt meant to cause consternation and gnashing of teeth, just a question for the guys here whether they had ever experienced it or not
Sorry if you took my reply as "gnashing of teeth", i truly did not mean it that way. But reading some of the replies i have had simply for asking a question here i know what you are saying. xxx
Advanced Wordsmith
In my teens while looking for ways to not become a two pump chump I stumbled across a book called E.S.O , Extended sexual orgasm. The premise was to separate the ejaculatory reflex from the orgasmic, it took A LOT!!of practice both with and with out a partner. As a result I can orgasm as many as 3-4 times before I ejaculate, but when I do look out I think the term cumming in quarts is accurate.
Active Ink Slinger
It happens - guys pre-puberty achieve an orgasm but dont ejaculate.
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by coffeekid63
In my teens while looking for ways to not become a two pump chump I stumbled across a book called E.S.O , Extended sexual orgasm. The premise was to separate the ejaculatory reflex from the orgasmic, it took A LOT!!of practice both with and with out a partner. As a result I can orgasm as many as 3-4 times before I ejaculate, but when I do look out I think the term cumming in quarts is accurate.
This. It overlaps edging and Tantric sex. With practice I'm able to reach a intense orgasmic feeling of pleasure, both in the penis & all over. What is not included are the muscle contractions and ejaculation. Part of the male orgasm is the contraction of muscles that starts the flow of semen through the Uretha & out. Strictly speaking without this its a incomplete orgasm. However, when practiced the multiple sessions of orgasmic pleasure are as satisfying as orgasm with. That is two or three will leave me just as satiated as a orgasm with ejaculation. Some partners are not interested in this repeat skill & desire the cum or wish for complete satisfaction quickly & are not interested in a two hour session. Others prefer it. I've had several two - three hour sessions with men & women in the past couple years where multiple orgasms occurred before final release.
Rookie Scribe
Absolutely, especially with slow lovemaking or when she finishes with a small O . Edging close but not quite the same for me.
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by Becky4Texas
According to Webster......the physical and emotional sensation experienced at the peak of sexual excitation, usually resulting from stimulation of the sexual organ and usually accompanied in the male by ejaculation.
notice it says usually accompanied in the male by ejaculation.....women orgasm and rarely ejaculate any fluid from our bodies, but it is a physical and emotional sensation......just wondering whether guys here experience the same.....the guy I am currently intimate with, says he has orgasms without ejaculating and while the sensation is not as strong as when he ejaculates, it is still quite pleasing to him. It has nothing to do with the well running dry, as he will have an orgasm without ejaculating and then ejaculate later on.
Becky, men can have a prostate size reduction surgery called a "T. U. R. P." or "transurethral Prostate Resection." They have an enlarged prostate that has cut of their bladder, preventing it from emptying. So they reduce the size of the prostate or "resection" it. The effect is to allow his bladder to function, and also allowing him to have orgasms. But what he give up is the ability to ejaculate. Men can have huge orgasms but no ejaculation.
However, not all men will admit they have had one though---especially older men with enlarged prostates, that have had it done.
Active Ink Slinger
Happened the other day. Was the 3rd load in about an hour...very intense orgasm but no ejaculate !!
It's happened a few times. Once she laid on me and she fell asleep half on me, half off. We were getting primed for sex and she drifted off. With one arm pinned by her, I reached in her panties and just enjoyed her ass. Rubbing it and squeezing, I blew a load. It really turned me on. Wasn't expecting to cum, but I did.