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My sig other is a lush!!

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Who is more deceptive?

Me chatting him up, without him knowing it's me.

Him chatting me up, thinking it isn't me.

Crossing the lines...??? At least he is sexy this way.
I think it would be fun---Dangerous, but fun
Aslong as you don't feel bad about it and think he wouldn't mind.
But don't try and get him to think that you are someone else, he might fall for that made up person and I can't see anything good coming from that.
Hm.. I mean... don't let it go to far with the makebelief
This forum thread made me laugh...

All male Lushies that have 'significant others' are probably sitting a little more uncomfortably today, and starting to wonder... Hmmm.... is it "MY" wife/girlfriend? LMAO

On a more serious note, be sure you really want to know what you're trying to find out. And know how you will deal with the outcome.

If it's more of a fun thing, like "hey, I caught ya with your hand in the cookie jar", then why not?

But if you think your man is cybering or flirting with other Lush-females and you feel like this would be a deal-breaker to your relationship, then just be prepared for what you might find out.

A friend of mine did some snooping with her boyfriend, and found a bunch of email exchanges with other women that were really upsetting to her. But she felt so 'in the wrong' about looking through his emails in the first place, she didn't feel comfortable confronting him, or asking him about them. Basically, her suspicions continued to grow and fester... which led to resentment/insecurities... and eventually the relationship was ruined on its own.
I think any kind of deception is rotten.
I am not worried about him. As long as he is happy, then, we are happy. If he finds joy here, then it only works it's way home. Here he can be who you perceive him to be. When I read his words, his stories, I read pieces of me. When you have been together this long, anything that makes him "ready" is good for me.

It is fun though. It is actually invigorating. Couldn't wait to get on tonight to talk to him. When I am done. I will close out the account I use and let him enjoy his world here, without intrusion.
It cuts to a deeper question. Is cybering cheating? Certainly one is sharing fantasies of a sexual nature and if they are masturbating while they cybering, they are at least engaging in sex mentally. On the other hand, there is no danger of exposing you partner to a disease or causing a pregnancy outside of you marriage. It may come down to something very simple, if you feel you have to hide it, your probably cheating.
For the record, if my lady managed to seduce me online, Id be seriously turned on when I found out it was her. It wouldn't be easy though, I don't cyber much.
what an interesting and thought provoking thread!!

it begs to ask lots of questions regarding the relationship and what you are both doing outside your relationship.

but I must so agree with Milik ..... seduce my mind ..... and watch out!

Quote by Milik_The_Red
For the record, if my lady managed to seduce me online, Id be seriously turned on when I found out it was her. It wouldn't be easy though, I don't cyber much.


Keep us up to date on what happens!

Good Luck!!
Sporty here is an idea for you. Chat him up creating a certain fantasy that drives him wild. Include specific lingerie and toys. Then one evening when he gets home from work be ready to make that fantasy come true. When he sees the familiar lingerie and toys SURPRISE! Well that's what I'd do anyway.
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