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I guess generally when I think of MILFs, I think of the Mrs Robinson scenario, a Cougar and her younger admirers - totally hot, in fantasy anyway.
But thinking of the MILF from her side....it's gotta be great to not feel like your period of blossoming and being attractive and buzzed about is limited to a short span of time, and that you still or always have it. So, I salute the MILFs whose attitude and femininity still oozes sexuality - the confidence and verve and zest for life makes the world a better place for many of us.
I usually find myself slipping into Mrs Robinson-type fantasies when I think of a MILF....young guys lusting after the experienced woman...and she, if a Cougar, enjoying their exuberant attentions and buzzing about while she teases them...
However, I see plenty of MILFs here, and they are still often approaching their sexual prime. Some might have complained that in the scheme of things, that life is unfair, and they as women blossom for such a short time, and then the allure is gone. Well, sadly, some men let them feel that way, and some women go there on their own. But, there are plenty of hot mature women running around (ok, not enough for everyone who wants....) and I salute those that carry on, that still ooze sensuality, that take care, and who by force of personality, attitude and its attendant confidence, still make our heads snap, necks twist, jaws drop, hearts flutter, breathing stop, and our minds race..... we love and appreciate (and often want) you
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As a youngster entering puberty I was constantly finding myself aroused by the mothers of my friends often hearing "Dude, that's my Mom!!!' I believe that's the situation that 'MILF' originally applied to. Not every mother is a Mom I'd Like to Fuck. I imagine some guys might have a fetish for having sex with women who have experienced childbirth first hand (Mommy Issues), but I only lust after women I'm attracted to, whether or not they've ever given birth is inconsequential.
A topic I'm more interested in is the number of younger girls who end up having sex with older guys due to 'Daddy Issues'.
most guys want a hot, older woman teaching him about sex
Parents are assumed (often wrongly) to be mature. Maybe that's why.... maturity doesn't necessarily go hand in hand with age, but older women have had more experience in life so there's an added sense, possibly, of a connection beyond just the physical for the man towards the woman. And what experience is more maturing than having children, except perhaps the loss of a loved one?
Also taking care of kids would (hopefully) make her become more affectionate and warm in her personality. That's always a plus. I once saw a book entitled "Why Men Love Bitches." My only comment to that author is dream on. It might be initially entertaining, but no guy, at least over the long term, wants to spend time with a gorgan, unless he just happens to be a masochist.
A third possibility is that the a lot of guys may have unresolved Oedipal Complexes. Who knows?
I was never that fussed about older women until I found one who I actually really fancied. The confidence and openess she displayed was like nothing I had ever witnessed as a 17 year old and from that day on I have dated about 3 women under 30 in 7 years. The rest have been milfs or just single mature women without kids. I couldn't imagine it any other way conversationally or sexually really.
There is little not to enjoy about a MILF.
Many reasons:
1. Moms are mature enough to understand their men's needs
2. Moms are experienced and do make better partners
3. Moms are more likely to avoid unwanted pregnancies
4. Moms are fuller, rounder and have more between their ears!
Many more reasons, but these four make up 80% of my reason to love a MILF.
I think there is a little thing about fucking an older woman. It's pretty common nowadays, but it never used to happen at all. I remember wanting to fuck my best friends mom back in middle school, but never even considered the possibility of it ever happening.
Back in my high school and college days I was never interested in girls my own age because they were boring, immature and an emotional train wreck. To a young guy a MILF is a sexually experienced woman, probably married just looking for a fling without any type of commitment.
At my age now, a MILF is still way more alluring than a young woman. A MILF is mature, experienced, more secure in her own skin, and knows what she wants and is not embarrassed about going after it, however it may seem to the rest of us.
Even when I was younger I always had an attraction to women in their 30's or 40's. This is because a women at that age is usually past being embarrassed by their desires or hung up by a repressive upbringing. I like to be able to communicate openly with a lady about what turns her on and what she likes in bed.
An experianced women will tell you up front how she wants to be touched or what about your technique works, and what does not. To me, this openness is incredibly sexy.
Had my first MILF at 18. She was amazing.