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Do you masturbate within view of your partner?

I’m surprised at how many people here tell me they never masturbate within view of, or with their partner because they’re too shy. They’re too embarrassed to do so.

I’m curious to know how common this is, although I expect a result with a higher percentage of yes votes than average because of the nature of the site. If you don’t want to comment, please vote.

If you’re happy to share, I’d like to know why you do or don’t.
My wife and I mastubate watching each other and while watching porn a lot! So hot
My GF is quite happy for me to "take care of that", if she's not in the mood or, has already been satisfied.
I'm quite willing to do as she suggests.
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I’m surprised at how many people here tell me they never masturbate within view of, or with their partner because they’re too shy. They’re too embarrassed to do so.

I’m curious to know how common this is, although I expect a result with a higher percentage of yes votes than average because of the nature of the site. If you don’t want to comment, please vote.

If you’re happy to share, I’d like to know why you do or don’t.


I will if she enjoys it, but doing it in front of her when it's just for me feels weird.
I get off watching her watch me get off! She will not let me watch.....yet!
This can be a deeply emotional and very personal act.

When you have a partner that enjoys watching you and at that ultimate moment, loves to wrap their lips around you.

This is pure heaven.

This of course prevents you being taken into custody and charged with 'Reckless Abandonment' ! ! !
I masturbate as my wife dangles her breasts in my face. I suck on her nipples and flesh and wank. She can't reach my cock when she dangles so she's OK with it.

Don't tell me me I've been doing something wrong all these years - LOL!

I used to be a pervert. In here, I'm normal!

Watch this space...She is really - cumming soon!

My late wife and I started out with phone/video sex before we ever met in person, so it was never particularly weird with her. She got herself off with her skirt pulled up and her panties pulled aside on the ride home from the airport the first day we met.

Still, there were quirks. Every so often, she would catch me when I thought she was dead asleep or something after I got home from work. That would embarrass the hell out of me. She loved catching me, though. Almost every time resulted in us having sex, or at least finishing in her mouth.

She was a camgirl. Her job was to masturbate for people's viewing pleasure. She did it for me frequently, and loved doing it. But, she couldn't have me in the room while she was in a private show. That would make her turn as red as a stop sign.

Everybody has their hang-ups.

I'm fine doing it for a woman, but getting caught is embarrassing as hell for me, even by someone I'm comfortable with, and even after the fact.

"What were you doing in the bathroom?" *wink*

She loved to see me blush, but never dragged it out, and always made up for it. smile
Our guys will masturbate openly as we will when we feel like it. There is no shame in masturbating so why hide it.
It's normal in same sex relationships, and fucking turn on ;)
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Είμαι ταξιδιώτης τόσο στο χρόνο όσο και στο διάστημα
I can not imagine why anyone would be embarrassed to Masturbate in front of a person you have or will Fuck.

This really strange to me.
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I can not imagine why anyone would be embarrassed to Masturbate in front of a person you have or will Fuck.

This really strange to me.


There are various reasons why some people are too embarrassed. It commonly stems from an upbringing by parents and/or teachers who say it’s not normal or it’s naughty, or you should only touch yourself in private. Of course religion is another reason that’s responsible. Some people are completely sexually inhibited for the same reasons or just naturally that way and very shy. Some of them get lucky and find an understanding partner who can help them overcome this while some people are like that forever.

Personally I think it’s something that can be very special to share with someone.
Masturbation is a sin. God doesn't like it. Those of you doing it, knock it off or He will smite you.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

Sometimes I’m in the mood and my woman isn’t. She’s quite happy for me to stroke one off with her watching, and she tickles my balls deliciously while I’m Wanking. Early in our relationship she even asked me to show her how a guy masturbates and me doing it has fascinated her ever since!
My wife and I think nothing of masturbating in front of each other, either as part sex or if one is too tired/ not in the mood. In the days we were first together we did this a lot and it was always difficult not to get aroused and joined in if the other was masturbating. It’s more rare now that that happens and I wouldn’t ask as much these days if she minded if I did it, probably more likely to wait till alone. But we both touch ourwelves during aex and foreplay still.
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My wife and I think nothing of masturbating in front of each other, either as part sex or if one is too tired/ not in the mood. In the days we were first together we did this a lot and it was always difficult not to get aroused and joined in if the other was masturbating. It’s more rare now that that happens and I wouldn’t ask as much these days if she minded if I did it, probably more likely to wait till alone. But we both touch ourwelves during aex and foreplay still.


Why are you less likely to ask her if she minds? And, are you both in the habit of asking each other that question if you’re going to take care of it yourselves? Lastly, why are you more likely to wait until you are alone?

Feel free to PM me if you’d rather not post here.
If I’m with another person I typically would rather be fucking them instead of having them just watch me jack off.

Normally I want privacy as masturbation is really all about that cerebral release, usually involving some sort of fantasy or memory. Having another person there is just too distracting to escape fully. Plus, it can make me weirdly self conscious about the sounds and faces I am making instead of letting everything go naturally.

I have jerked off in front of someone before. In both cases they were people with whom I was in a serious relationship and it was because they asked me to ‘give them a show’. Something about being asked to do it takes the edge off and can really make it fun. Being caught or walked in on has the opposite effect and can totally ruin the mood for me. Hell, I won’t even have the sound on in porn unless I know the house is empty.

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Quote by ChandlerAja2
I can not imagine why anyone would be embarrassed to Masturbate in front of a person you have or will Fuck.

This really strange to me.


I agree. My wife and I masturbate for each other and the experience is incredible.
Occasionally, she asks me to strip and jack off for her. This is, by far, my favorite, because I love the CFNM thing.
I have told her I will do this for her anywhere, any time, as long as it wont lead to one or both of us being arrested.
I answered never (wife is a bit prudish about masturbation) but that's not quite accurate now that I think about it. My wife did give me handjobs when she ws pregnant (wasn't supposed to have sex for reasons) so I guess that comes close.
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I’m surprised at how many people here tell me they never masturbate within view of, or with their partner because they’re too shy. They’re too embarrassed to do so.

I’m curious to know how common this is, although I expect a result with a higher percentage of yes votes than average because of the nature of the site. If you don’t want to comment, please vote.

If you’re happy to share, I’d like to know why you do or don’t.


Women enkoy watching me masturbate and so I have no problem letting them watch me stoke for thor viewing pleasure. It's a total turn on - a mutual one too so it's win-win for everybody.
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Masturbation is a sin. God doesn't like it. Those of you doing it, knock it off or He will smite you.


Ooh, smite me, baby, smite me! Harder!
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It has always fascinated me Don’t judge


Call me! ;)
Some of my partners did not like it. Others really enjoy watching. Had several women who once satisfied "loved seeing men jack off." One started to orgasm when she saw me ejaculate.