I’m surprised at how many people here tell me they never masturbate within view of, or with their partner because they’re too shy. They’re too embarrassed to do so.
I’m curious to know how common this is, although I expect a result with a higher percentage of yes votes than average because of the nature of the site. If you don’t want to comment, please vote.
If you’re happy to share, I’d like to know why you do or don’t.
My wife and I mastubate watching each other and while watching porn a lot! So hot
I get off watching her watch me get off! She will not let me watch.....yet!
I will masturbate in front of my partners, certainly. It's generally a lead up to or part of a more involved sexual encounter though.
I masturbate as my wife dangles her breasts in my face. I suck on her nipples and flesh and wank. She can't reach my cock when she dangles so she's OK with it.
Don't tell me me I've been doing something wrong all these years - LOL!
I used to be a pervert. In here, I'm normal!
Watch this space...She is really - cumming soon!
Our guys will masturbate openly as we will when we feel like it. There is no shame in masturbating so why hide it.
It's normal in same sex relationships, and fucking turn on ;)
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I can not imagine why anyone would be embarrassed to Masturbate in front of a person you have or will Fuck.
This really strange to me.
Why do oneself when you are in that position?? Get her / him to do it for you as a handjob / fingering ... would be lots more enjoyable IMHO.???
Sometimes I’m in the mood and my woman isn’t. She’s quite happy for me to stroke one off with her watching, and she tickles my balls deliciously while I’m Wanking. Early in our relationship she even asked me to show her how a guy masturbates and me doing it has fascinated her ever since!
My wife and I think nothing of masturbating in front of each other, either as part sex or if one is too tired/ not in the mood. In the days we were first together we did this a lot and it was always difficult not to get aroused and joined in if the other was masturbating. It’s more rare now that that happens and I wouldn’t ask as much these days if she minded if I did it, probably more likely to wait till alone. But we both touch ourwelves during aex and foreplay still.
If I’m with another person I typically would rather be fucking them instead of having them just watch me jack off.
Normally I want privacy as masturbation is really all about that cerebral release, usually involving some sort of fantasy or memory. Having another person there is just too distracting to escape fully. Plus, it can make me weirdly self conscious about the sounds and faces I am making instead of letting everything go naturally.
I have jerked off in front of someone before. In both cases they were people with whom I was in a serious relationship and it was because they asked me to ‘give them a show’. Something about being asked to do it takes the edge off and can really make it fun. Being caught or walked in on has the opposite effect and can totally ruin the mood for me. Hell, I won’t even have the sound on in porn unless I know the house is empty.
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I answered never (wife is a bit prudish about masturbation) but that's not quite accurate now that I think about it. My wife did give me handjobs when she ws pregnant (wasn't supposed to have sex for reasons) so I guess that comes close.
Double post and I didn't even notice.
Some of my partners did not like it. Others really enjoy watching. Had several women who once satisfied "loved seeing men jack off." One started to orgasm when she saw me ejaculate.