Realistically, probably not. I would really love to start a family and the older I get, the less likely it is that a woman twenty years my senior would be willing to do that.
As long as you love each other and have similar goals in life then why not
I would have to be a really good match on some level for it to click. I'm on the junior end of a 9 year age gap and even that gap is creating retirement planning headaches as we head into our fifties since she will hit "normal retirement age" of 65 well before me.
That said, it obviously doesn't phase everyone. Apparently the director just tapped to direct the 50 Shades movie is married to a guy who is 23 years her junior (the star of a previous film).
At one point in my life I think I could have entertained this thought, but I was younger, and didn't have much value for common interests and experiences then. Now, as a man of 48, I think much differently. There has to be some kind of experience in culture that is common. It helps keep core values from being sticky points in a relationship.
I would marry someone 20 or 30 or even 40 years younger (if they'll have me).
Well, I'm 28 so she would be 48. Unless she's super fit and rich, probably not.
Short answer: No.
Long answer: Fuck no.
20 years is too much for me. Even if she was rich and hot. The one exception would be Martha Stewart but that would be like marrying Jesus. If Jesus was a hot, thick, creative, delicious, chef goddess.
I'm in a relationship where I'm 16 years older. You guys suck but represent how the rest of the world views older women. Again....you suck!
I would. The only women that I have dated have always been older than me. I love a mature woman.
I've dated women that were 10-15 years older than me.
Marry?
Not so sure about that for the following reasons:
1) I'm in my early 30's and I'd like the option of having kids one day.
2) Refer to reason number 1.
If I got to a point where kids would be irrelevant then I might change my mind.