in a relationship with a guy and i am not sure what to do.. i mean i know what to do when it comes to fucking and sucking
what i don't know what to do is....
it is all about his needs being meet. him getting sucked on and then me fucking him
how do i get him to give me what i want and need. which is lots and lots of foreplay til i cum, my pussy licked, sucked and fingered til i cum and then finally my pussy fucked long, hard and deep.
lost at what to do to get what i want
If he seems uninterested in pleasing you, there probably isn't much you can do. If he's just unskilled/unaware of your dissatisfaction, withhold what he wants, coach him and reward him when you get it.
being selfish in bed cannot be cured...move on..please....
a guy who does not give in bed ..will not give in ..life..
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
I don't buy the timidity thing. If he makes it known that he wants his dick sucked, then he should know that you want to be pleased in different ways as well. It's one thing if he's oblivious. Then the simplest thing to do is to just tell him. I've found that women who are the least sexually satisfied are the ones who are least vocal about what they want sexually. Even if it means guiding his hand or his head to where you want him to touch/kiss you, you need to express what you want to HIM. That's the easiest way to produce results. Perhaps he doesn't know HOW; then in this case you should teach him. And if for any reason he refuses, then it's time to move on.
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In general I'd agree with Littlemiss....but we really need more info. If your guy is a "cocky all about me kinda guy" in general, you might as well move on. Sounds like you want a man that appreciates you and lives to please you for the wonderful creation that you are. If so, that guy will NEVER put you first in any area of life. BUT if he's just insecure, inexperienced, or just "shy" in bed, he could be a blank slate just waiting for you to form into exactly what you want! You can train him because once he know what you need, he will bend over backwards to give it to you. In bed and all areas of life! Maybe in his last relationship, going down on, or fingering her was out of the question.
I'll bet you know which guy you have.
If he don't give you what you need he doesn't get what he needs from you. He will get the hint and if he doesn't talk to him about it and let him know that you want to show him what you want. Have him relax and use your hands to guide his hands or his head to do what you want him to do. He will get the hint or should and after a couple of times he should be able to do it himself without you showing him.
he needs to know how you feel. If he is not willing to do what you want at least a little bit, then he doesnt deserve you
Balzestcyr is 100% correct. A guy that is going to satisfy you is going to do so because he wants to. If he is a good lover, he will do it because he loves to make you feel that way. If the guy has to be told..........then it will be a hollow attempt at best.
