Looking for a sexy guy to chat with

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She's probably a he looking to take advantage of some poor lonely desperate dude.

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She's probably a he looking to take advantage of some poor lonely desperate dude.

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How rude and unnecessary.

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I agree he likely could have worded it better ...but what he is saying isnt exactly an impossibility here Dani Ive seen it countless times in chat rooms and forums and its usually the more forward women such as the OP who tend to be women posing as blokes from what ive seen but thats just my humble opinion.

This bird made 2 forum posts thus far and has made this thread...I dont think Ajax meant any offence I think he is just wondering as I am why one would do so and also thinks its a little on the dodgy side.

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Yes, I'm aware that people are not always who they claim to be. Two forum posts is hardly anything to ring alarm bells. I myself had an account here for over a year before I actually started using the damn thing. I hope no one thought I was 'suspicious' based on my nonexistent forum post count prior to me being active in the forum.

What compels anyone to want to chat with someone? Perhaps this person got lonely and took to the forum to find someone to talk to. People do it all the time.

Outwardly accusing a member of being the opposite gender of what they claim to be groundlessly is beyond offensive. It's also distasteful. So is referring to someone as 'this bird' when clearly they have a name.

It's not like she's asking for personal information or asking to take their communication somewhere off the site. She wants anyone that wants to chat to message her. If that doesn't appeal to you, move on or express your disapproval in a way that doesn't require insulting her.

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I dont think he was Dani. but who says he isnt right? ..One never knows here so equally after her 2 forum posts who are you to either? You made a Judgement calll as did he albeit you chose her as being correct and honest he didnt.

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I didn't say whether or not I agreed. Whether she is or isn't a man trolling isn't my call. I made no judgment call. I saw something rude and addressed it as such.

I'm also asking a couple of members to refrain from being rude to others for no reason. As a forum moderator, it's my obligation to do so.


Please and thank you.

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... It's also distasteful. So is referring to someone as 'this bird' when clearly they have a name.

r.

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Years ago when I started travelling internationally, one of my first trips was to London - and my UK based colleague offered some advice before we went. I was going with a group of coworkers - some women and men. He told us don't get alarmed if any of the guys get called "blokes" or the women get called "birds" - it's just British slang for guys and women - and nothing rude is meant by it.

We all thought it sounded funny - and sure as heck, we heard it when we were there lol..

One of the best parts about travelling all over is learning about different things - so for what it's worth, the bird reference was not distasteful.

As for the original posting, I've found my best chat friends by accident - not really looking - just roaming around the forum threads and you'll find lots of interesting, fun, nice people. Have fun

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Years ago when I started travelling internationally, one of my first trips was to London - and my UK based colleague offered some advice before we went. I was going with a group of coworkers - some women and men. He told us don't get alarmed if any of the guys get called "blokes" or the women get called "birds" - it's just British slang for guys and women - and nothing rude is meant by it.

We all thought it sounded funny - and sure as heck, we heard it when we were there lol..

One of the best parts about travelling all over is learning about different things - so for what it's worth, the bird reference was not distasteful.

As for the original posting, I've found my best chat friends by accident - not really looking - just roaming around the forum threads and you'll find lots of interesting, fun, nice people. Have fun

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It can be depending on it's use. Like a lot of other terms, it can be very insulting to different people. I have been called a bird and felt it very demeaning.

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Try Milik...

(Everyone else does...)

*LAUGHS!*

xx SF

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Try Milik...

(Everyone else does...)

*LAUGHS!*

xx SF

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It can be depending on it's use. Like a lot of other terms, it can be very insulting to different people. I have been called a bird and felt it very demeaning.

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Yes, this has been explained to me several times over by several different people.

In regards to the whole 'this bird' thing, I was mistaken. In America we say 'chick' in the UK they say 'bird'. I totally missed that connection.

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At "sexy" I thought I was out of the running. But "lonely" and "desperate" are adjectives I can get on board with.

hmu bb.

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Yeah, about that... The Lush Stories Sexy, Lonely and Desperate Club (UK Branch) meet on the first Thursday of every month... And in July you never showed up. I was there on my own man, I looked like a wanker, Clum... See you on Thursday, yeah?

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Sorry, I... had a thing. I'll be there Thursday (it's my turn to bring the Pringles, I think).

(You don't even live in the UK...)

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It is not so much if we (the guys) think we fit the description. It is if you do. To different people different things are sexy. What is a turn on for some is a deal breaker for others... So all I can say is, this is me. If you find me "sexy" great. If not, oh well.

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Clum: "WHAT 'LAYDEEZ'??????"

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I have never, in my life, said anything in such a way as to warrant so many question marks.