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Distract yourself by thinking about something boring or unpleasant. Use a condom. Focus your mind on that spider crawling across the ceiling or on the neighbor's dog barking. They keep you from enjoying the sex much, but women don't like hearing, "You're just so damn sexy, I couldn't wait."
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Keep changing your rhythm, depth and angle to alter which part of your cock is being stimulated. Changing positions will give you a moment or two of recovery before you start up again. Also if you're that concerned about lasting there's nothing wrong with stopping for some tongue action for her whilst you calm down a little.
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Get a mate and alternate while the other "recovers". With that strategy, you could have a very long session.
I'm a bit unclear about what you mean. Do you want to have longer sex "sessions", from graze of the thigh to paying her cab fare, or do you want to be able to have intercourse for a longer period of time before you blow your load?
I believe, in either case, better physical fitness and general good health will help your stamina. Also, practice controlling your orgasms if/when you masturbate; train your cock. Kegel exercises are a good shout, too.
I'm a bit unclear about what you mean. Do you want to have longer sex "sessions", from graze of the thigh to paying her cab fare, or do you want to be able to have intercourse for a longer period of time before you blow your load?
I believe, in either case, better physical fitness and general good health will help your stamina. Also, practice controlling your orgasms if/when you masturbate; train your cock. Kegel exercises are a good shout, too.
Last longer means what in your context? Last longer before you ejaculate once? In my experience, women often prefer a man who lasts longer in the sense of they don't just hump away for 15 minutes or less and then roll over to start snoring, but instead "last longer" by enjoying her and themselves for hours, days, weeks, months, years, decades. Last longer? Make the foreplay go on and on and on if that feels right. Last longer? Pleasure her with your mouth and hands until she's lost count of her climaxes before "going for the gold" and then give her all you're worth. Last longer? Show her unmistakably that you still desire her immensely after you've shot your bolt. Don't be a panda or a koala (Eats shoots and leaves).
PS It's not how long you pound away at her before cumming, it's making the cumming mean something special every single time.
PS It's not how long you pound away at her before cumming, it's making the cumming mean something special every single time.
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Last longer means what in your context? Last longer before you ejaculate once? In my experience, women often prefer a man who lasts longer in the sense of they don't just hump away for 15 minutes or less and then roll over to start snoring, but instead "last longer" by enjoying her and themselves for hours, days, weeks, months, years, decades. Last longer? Make the foreplay go on and on and on if that feels right. Last longer? Pleasure her with your mouth and hands until she's lost count of her climaxes before "going for the gold" and then give her all you're worth. Last longer? Show her unmistakably that you still desire her immensely after you've shot your bolt. Don't be a panda or a koala (Eats shoots and leaves).
PS It's not how long you pound away at her before cumming, it's making the cumming mean something special every single time.
Very well said.
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The only "last longer" interval that is difficult to control is the interval between insertion and when the woman comes from penetration. You could be giving her all kinds of foreplay including several orgasms, but if you get a cue that it's time for penetration, that's when you have to be hard but not too close to orgasm. Penetration starts a clock running depending on how close she really is to orgasm, you might have to postpone yours in a way that doesn't delay hers, so tricks like slowing down or changing positions might be self defeating. You also have to not lose your erection due to insufficient stimulation or physical exhaustion before she comes.
If she misjudges when to give you that cue, she'll still be disappointed and possibly irrationally resentful if you come before her. If she's on top or otherwise controlling the amount of stimulation you get, your options are limited, but she still might not take responsibility for the results, because you're supposed to perform perfectly no matter how little control you have. Any failure is your fault because that's what it means to be a man. Just ask her. If she's honest she'll confirm this, because that is the 'knight in shining armor' ideal that she wants to be able to hold you to.
You can find ways to ignore the stimulation you're getting. Those are the mental tricks. You risk loss of erection.
You can find ways to decrease the stimulation you're getting. Pull out and play is an example of that, but then putting it back in can be distracting to her because it upsets the rhythm that was working to get her there.
If you can find a position that allows you to give her enough stimulation, even including manual stimulation when necessary, while allowing you to pace yours, then you can remain inserted and focused mainly on her with just enough focus on you to stay hard until she comes or until you both come together.
If she's a real stickler for simultaneous orgasms, you have to keep yourself X strokes away from orgasm and then learn to tell when she's X strokes away from orgasm. Then you can drive for the prize and you can be wrong by one or two strokes and still satisfy.
If she misjudges when to give you that cue, she'll still be disappointed and possibly irrationally resentful if you come before her. If she's on top or otherwise controlling the amount of stimulation you get, your options are limited, but she still might not take responsibility for the results, because you're supposed to perform perfectly no matter how little control you have. Any failure is your fault because that's what it means to be a man. Just ask her. If she's honest she'll confirm this, because that is the 'knight in shining armor' ideal that she wants to be able to hold you to.
You can find ways to ignore the stimulation you're getting. Those are the mental tricks. You risk loss of erection.
You can find ways to decrease the stimulation you're getting. Pull out and play is an example of that, but then putting it back in can be distracting to her because it upsets the rhythm that was working to get her there.
If you can find a position that allows you to give her enough stimulation, even including manual stimulation when necessary, while allowing you to pace yours, then you can remain inserted and focused mainly on her with just enough focus on you to stay hard until she comes or until you both come together.
If she's a real stickler for simultaneous orgasms, you have to keep yourself X strokes away from orgasm and then learn to tell when she's X strokes away from orgasm. Then you can drive for the prize and you can be wrong by one or two strokes and still satisfy.
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I agree with the pull out and play
It builds it up and in my opinion it feels that much better when you slide back inside.
If you're already wearing a condom and changing rhythm isn't working. You need to have sex more often.
It builds it up and in my opinion it feels that much better when you slide back inside.
If you're already wearing a condom and changing rhythm isn't working. You need to have sex more often.