I’m sure this has been asked before. I did a search but couldn’t find it so apologies if it’s being asked again.
I rarely watch porn but when I have I’ve always been confused as to why a guy takes his cock out of a girl’s mouth to finish himself off by hand, eventually coming on her tongue or face.
I can’t imagine why he would do that and I wouldn’t want him to, I want to feel him through my lips and tongue when he cums.
Is this for visual effect in porn or do guys really prefer doing this to coming in a girl’s mouth?
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Cryptic Vigilante
There was a thread going on a short while ago with a much similar subject , if it can help: puzzles me about porn scenes
In which I answered:
That's often the way I do it myself: I prefer to jerk my own self and shoot my load anywhere (or everywhere) on her body from a certain distance to see my cum flying. I simply love the mess this creates, plus not every girl has the ability to make me cum with a blowjob.
The same also applies to vaginal sex, where I prefer retracting my dick from her pussy as I'm about to come, quickly removing/throwing the condom, jerking myself intensely and shooting my load somewhere on her body.
It's all about the visual of the cumshot. Apparently some prefer when the ejaculation happens inside the woman (both men and women), but personally I much prefer to release a huge flying cumshot on her body. That's unless we're in a relationship and have both been tested, and can have sex without a condom; then I also enjoy the unique opportunity to perform creampies and felching.
In which I answered:
That's often the way I do it myself: I prefer to jerk my own self and shoot my load anywhere (or everywhere) on her body from a certain distance to see my cum flying. I simply love the mess this creates, plus not every girl has the ability to make me cum with a blowjob.
The same also applies to vaginal sex, where I prefer retracting my dick from her pussy as I'm about to come, quickly removing/throwing the condom, jerking myself intensely and shooting my load somewhere on her body.
It's all about the visual of the cumshot. Apparently some prefer when the ejaculation happens inside the woman (both men and women), but personally I much prefer to release a huge flying cumshot on her body. That's unless we're in a relationship and have both been tested, and can have sex without a condom; then I also enjoy the unique opportunity to perform creampies and felching.
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Quote by SereneProdigy
That's often the way I do it myself: I prefer to jerk my own self and shoot my load anywhere (or everywhere) on her body from a certain distance to see my cum flying. I simply love the mess this creates, plus not every girl has the ability to make me cum with a blowjob.
The same also applies to vaginal sex, where I prefer retracting my dick from her pussy as I'm about to come, quickly removing/throwing the condom, jerking myself intensely and shooting my load somewhere on her body.
It's all about the visual of the cumshot.
There is something so fucking erotic about being marked with cum .... sexy sexy sexy!!
and I just love watching that intensity of my man furiously jerking, letting his orgasm burst onto me .... it's like winning a jackpot! 
Active Ink Slinger
I much much prefer to come inside. Part of it may be the fact that I have what my wife refers to as an external vagina, by which she means that I have a lot of feminine emotional attributes despite being a dude. One of these attributes is that I'm not nearly as visual as most guys seem to be; I really like to hold her close and feel our bodies move in concert as I have my spasms, and I like to then lay inside her and just be together. The emotional connection of being physically synced during orgasm holds far more pleasure for me, and that heightens the physical sensations that just can't be matched by an image.
On a less-personal note, I believe that dudes in porn used to be paid by cumshot, which necessitated coming where the camera could see. Later on in porn's maturation, they expanded guys' roles into a little more than cum-factory, but really not that much, so the cumshot is still often a determinant of pay, which is why it's so commonly seen in porn. In real sex, I'm 100% sure it's a lot less common to ejaculate outside, but apparently some dudes love it.
On a less-personal note, I believe that dudes in porn used to be paid by cumshot, which necessitated coming where the camera could see. Later on in porn's maturation, they expanded guys' roles into a little more than cum-factory, but really not that much, so the cumshot is still often a determinant of pay, which is why it's so commonly seen in porn. In real sex, I'm 100% sure it's a lot less common to ejaculate outside, but apparently some dudes love it.
The Linebacker
It's mostly porn and mostly originated with porn, and I think porn has led to more and more people pulling out and ejaculating on the face or body. Personally, I like it much better to ejaculate inside the vagina, ass or mouth. But my wife and before her some old girlfriends did like for me to occasionally cum on their face, tits or ass. I don't mind doing that to please but doing it all the time I would not like.
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Kim,
I would much rather you make me cum in your mouth, I dont really get the other appeal other than maybe once in a while to cum other than inside your pussy or mouth mmmm
I would much rather you make me cum in your mouth, I dont really get the other appeal other than maybe once in a while to cum other than inside your pussy or mouth mmmm
Active Ink Slinger
That annoys me too.
I've always hated that dumb aspect of 'visual' porn, whereby the director/producer seems to think the cumshot has to be visible.
There's so much more decent independent porn out on the web now than the crap boilerplate templates given to us since the 80s and 90s.
But to answer your question, I prefer to cum inside her mouth. If she can swallow most yet manage a discrete oral creampie at the same time then she's got real talent ;)
I've always hated that dumb aspect of 'visual' porn, whereby the director/producer seems to think the cumshot has to be visible.
There's so much more decent independent porn out on the web now than the crap boilerplate templates given to us since the 80s and 90s.
But to answer your question, I prefer to cum inside her mouth. If she can swallow most yet manage a discrete oral creampie at the same time then she's got real talent ;)
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Balloonmeister
I haven't read all the response so this may have already been said. Just a gimmick for the movies to show that the guy is actually cumming. Called the "money shot". I don't do it unless she asks for it. I always ask ahead or at least let her know I'm ready and let her say where. Just the polite thing to do.
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Rookie Scribe
2 things about it. If i do it myself the last say 30 sec i can put the pressure and rythm just where it is best. The other thing is, Men are MUCH more visual oriented than women. It really really turns me on to see her take the cum, and most of all to see her WANT the cum.
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Quote by Kimasa
I have had guys cum on my face and they've very much enjoyed making a mess on me. I'm ok with it if it's giving them a lot of pleasure but given the choice I would always swallow and lick it clean afterwards. Guys twitch a lot when I do that
Mmmm... you're a good woman!
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Quote by Kimasa
I’m sure this has been asked before. I did a search but couldn’t find it so apologies if it’s being asked again.
I rarely watch porn but when I have I’ve always been confused as to why a guy takes his cock out of a girl’s mouth to finish himself off by hand, eventually coming on her tongue or face.
I can’t imagine why he would do that and I wouldn’t want him to, I want to feel him through my lips and tongue when he cums.
Is this for visual effect in porn or do guys really prefer doing this to coming in a girl’s mouth?
I believe it originated in porn, so viewers could see that the guy was actually coming. For myself, good acting works fine; I don't need to see the cumshot. There are a number of tropes in porn that don't appeal to me, in fact, such as spitting, slapping, cumshots, lengthy closeups (I want to watch people fucking, nor organs fucking) etc. But I'm getting afield...
Since a lot of guys get a lot of their sex ed from porn, a lot of guys have come to think that's "the way it's done." Personally, if a partner wanted me to come on her, I'd be happy to do it for her, but even then I'd rather have her doing the jacking. I can masturbate any old time (well, almost...); why do it when I have a perfectly good partner there who's willing to get me off with her hand, mouth, etc.?
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I personally prefer coming inside her, no matter the hole she gives me. I've done it a few times where I shot my load on a pets breasts or ass, but I definitely prefer coming internally as opposed to externally...
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Quote by Kimasa
I have had guys cum on my face and they've very much enjoyed making a mess on me. I'm ok with it if it's giving them a lot of pleasure but given the choice I would always swallow and lick it clean afterwards. Guys twitch a lot when I do that
Yes, the twitching is a good feeling while being swallowed and licked clean afterwards which often leads to more fun and pleasure for the both of us!
It's All Good! :-)
Active Ink Slinger
Much rather shot inside. The clean-up twitches are great too.
Quote by Kimasa
I’m sure this has been asked before. I did a search but couldn’t find it so apologies if it’s being asked again.
I rarely watch porn but when I have I’ve always been confused as to why a guy takes his cock out of a girl’s mouth to finish himself off by hand, eventually coming on her tongue or face.
I can’t imagine why he would do that and I wouldn’t want him to, I want to feel him through my lips and tongue when he cums.
Is this for visual effect in porn or do guys really prefer doing this to coming in a girl’s mouth?
The only reason I see is due to the visual effects. Rather it would be better if the guy cums in my mouth and then I show my cumm filled mouth in closeup.
....................... Don t really know
Active Ink Slinger
Visual effect is what I believe. Feels so much better to cum inside if you ask me.
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not all women like the taste of cum, if the lady says no then i respect that,if she doesn't well down the throat it goes
Advanced Wordsmith
I suppose it would have to do with a guy's preference. For some, the visual thing is a big turn on. For me, the preference is to do it with a partner, rather than on a partner.
Porn is like a surrealist show. There's not a lot of real pleasure in those money shots.
Porn is like a surrealist show. There's not a lot of real pleasure in those money shots.
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Visual effect.
I have never wanted to pull out and watch myself cum so I dont really understand it. I have seen a few porns where they cum inside and then show you. I prefer those. There are some good ones out there, but I much prefer to cum INSIDE.
I have never wanted to pull out and watch myself cum so I dont really understand it. I have seen a few porns where they cum inside and then show you. I prefer those. There are some good ones out there, but I much prefer to cum INSIDE.