Is there any such thing...

29 Dec 2008

I was just curious if men think there is such a thing as too much masterbation. I am of course referring to male masterbation. We women can never have too many batteries. angel7

And no, this is not a sarcastic question, I have a reason for asking.

Ling~Li

29 Dec 2008

I would have to say yes. Anytime something interferes with the rest of your life. other than that I have never reached that point.

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst3029_My-Urologist.aspx as example.... poor batman giggle

29 Dec 2008

In theory... there can be no such thing as too much masturbation. I'm not sure how practical that theory is though, even if there was enough lube available.

30 Dec 2008

That's the thing: having enough lube.

I'd say, as long as it doesn't interfere with the rest of your life, it's ok.

31 Dec 2008

Rocco's right. If you are in a relationship, and masturbating by yourself, because of need, there's something the matter with your sex life. Nothing replaces the real thing. Nothing. And too much masturbation, in my expert opinion, impedes stamina (unless you train really, really, UNreally well).

Now I'm depressed. Thanks, Ling-Li.

31 Dec 2008

I'm sorry... I didn't mean to cause any sorrow.

I just had a question <SNIFF, SNIFF> crybaby

31 Dec 2008

Don't worry Ling-Li, Subtle is depressed every other week at no fault of your own. You just keep asking your questions you're fine.....

coffee

"Love all, trust a few, and do wrong to none."

31 Dec 2008

Yes there is.

Bat

31 Dec 2008

I agree with Bat. Yes there is. Ling-Li keep asking questions.

31 Dec 2008

Quote by Zafia
Don't worry Ling-Li, Subtle is depressed every other week at no fault of your own. You just keep asking your questions you're fine.....

It's New Year's! Where's my gun?!! Where's those New Year's bullets I've been saving?

Good bye, cruel world.

I hope you're satisfied, Zafia...

31 Dec 2008

Quote by ASubtlepassion
Quote by Zafia
Don't worry Ling-Li, Subtle is depressed every other week at no fault of your own. You just keep asking your questions you're fine.....

It's New Year's! Where's my gun?!! Where's those New Year's bullets I've been saving?

Good bye, cruel world.

I hope you're satisfied, Zafia...

Well before you leave.......you may want to enjoy this gift.....She may lift your spirits for the New Year.....

Don't say I never gave you anything......heh heh

"Love all, trust a few, and do wrong to none."

31 Dec 2008

Z, my fav postion.

Thanks

Bat

31 Dec 2008

Thanks people, I really just wanted to find a male opinion on that particular issue since I am wrestling with it currently and didn't know if I was being unreasonable.

And the day I stop asking questions will be the day they bury me... it's just in my nature to seek out information on all different subjects.

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Ling

31 Dec 2008

OK, Ling-Li. Now, next question.

Bat

1 Jan 2009

Oh, you let it out a bit...being unreasonable?

If this is about him doing it all the time, then it is a big deal. I don't know all the particulars, but...in a relationship, unless you both like mutual masturbation sessions, it can affect your sex life. Okay, enough from me.

3 Jan 2009

God i hope not, i get plenty and can find time for a wank or two as well, like while reading these stories, half the reason were on here is it not ? to fuel the imagination. my other half though is not a big user of her own body , she prefers to wait for me, or so she tells me.FKM7A6LMKYkDmNgz

3 Jan 2009

Quote by ASubtlepassion
Oh, you let it out a bit...being unreasonable?

If this is about him doing it all the time, then it is a big deal. I don't know all the particulars, but...in a relationship, unless you both like mutual masturbation sessions, it can affect your sex life. Okay, enough from me.

I don't mind sharing... a little anyway.

My bf and I have been dating for a little while and it seems that my libido FAAAAAAR outshines his (which is odd to me since he's younger). I discovered that he participates in that particular activity several times a day. I thought that might be a reason for at least some of his lack of interest but I wasn't sure if I was just making a mountain out of a mole hill. Boo hoo!

And FYI, I do enjoy all aspects of the bedroom, I only wish he shared my passion in that regard.

So how's this for another question Bat... is there anything I can do which might increase his libido? Short of spiking his tea with viagra that is?
help

Ling

7 Jan 2009

Why not tell him that you think watching your partner jack off is a big turn on to you and you would like to participate next time he gets the urge. You may want to endulge yourself while he is wacking. Try to bring it to the bedroom so he feels that he can share this pleasure with you anytime he wants to blow a load.

7 Jan 2009

Several times a day? no wonder he's not in the mood as much as you are. He doesn't have the "need". What a pity.
I had a friend in that same spot many years ago. It baffles me as to why a guy would want to do that so much when he has a willing woman waiting for him in the bed.

17 Jan 2009

If I don't have a regular partner I'm usually rubbing one out at least once a day, and I don't think I'm much different than most men. If I'm in a relationship, if we miss a day (and we usually don't!), I have to come, one way or the other. The tough part about is that masturbating, for the most part, is much more boring than having a partner. It takes on a chore-like quality, like vacuuming the living room. Get it done and move on.

5 Mar 2009

Other than the rduction in the amount of cum produced I'd say no-not for me anyway

29 Apr 2009

if you are masturbating without lube... definitely...

17 May 2009

If you do it too much in one day your penis would get too sore and swell up, not to imagine peeing would become a little uncomfortable as well, so yes there is such a thing as too much masturbation.

25 May 2009

Quote by Guest
Rocco's right. If you are in a relationship, and masturbating by yourself, because of need, there's something the matter with your sex life. Nothing replaces the real thing. Nothing. And too much masturbation, in my expert opinion, impedes stamina (unless you train really, really, UNreally well).

Now I'm depressed. Thanks, Ling-Li.

Dido....stamina takes a hit!

3 Jun 2009

I don't think so. As long as it feels good and nobody is harmed, why not. Enjoy it while it lasts. I estimate I have masturbated over 30,000 times now. Is that too much? Not for me. I enjoyed each and everty session....

Quote by Ling-Li
I was just curious if men think there is such a thing as too much masterbation. I am of course referring to male masterbation. We women can never have too many batteries.

And no, this is not a sarcastic question, I have a reason for asking.

Ling~Li

4 Jun 2009

Where is Ling, btw?

5 Jun 2009

Quote by roccotool
Where is Ling, btw?

Good question, Roc Band. She used to be in the 'currently online' list more often than not.

Maybe she's on the same UFO ship that beamed Blindfolded away too. I was on it briefly, but I pushed the 'stop UFO at next station' button and fell safely back to lushland in this, my favorite bikini.

Report back soon, Ling-Li, we miss you.

5 Jun 2009

"Put a glide in your stride, a dip in your hip, and come up to the Lush Mothership."

Light year groovy.

14 Jun 2009

It's so nice to know I was missed... Thanks guys (and gals).

Actually my computer (amongst other expensive things) was stolen recently and I just replaced it (temporarily). I'm waiting on the insurance check atm.

Ling