So let's say the woman you've chosen to sleep with isn't so gifted in oral, but you enjoy the sex.
Does the oral matter to you at all?
nope because least she tried and the sex made up for it.
Gee, I'm thinking no, although its been some time since I've made a choice. But I'd imagine that if I was enjoying the sex, the only thing that would make it a 'break' would be if she didn't 'choose' me...
A girl that won't do oral.
That would be a "break".
If she refused to, that'd be a break - maybe.
Why refuse? She should be more open minded and live a little.
Not good at it? That's another thing. I would live with it.
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It matters, but I may be able to get past it if she's gifted in other areas. Don't get me wrong, fellatio is great and all, but I enjoy other acts much more.
Depends on wether she makes up for it on the back end.
A girl can always be trained to give better blowjobs; my girlfriend's cock-sucking skills have improved significantly since we first met. But refusing to give oral altogether would be a big problem, the intimacy would suffer greatly and it would probably indicate immaturity on her part, since I will most definitely perform oral sex on my girl (and do it well), and returning the favour should be common courtesy, imo.
Oral is great, but not a requirement.
Current girlfriend doesn't like oral, she's good at it but doesn't like it. I does annoy me when i spend a long time warming her up and she won't do the same for me but after i good fucking i'm too sex dazed to care.
When life gives you lemons, keep them. 'Cause hey, free lemons!
I don't think I really ever minded whether she'd go down on me or not. I had one GF I lived with for two years who wouldn't and wouldn't let me go down on her either
Another GF preferred oral over intercourse and most times we'd please each other with just our lips and tongues...even doing 69 fairly regularly
My wife? She only doesn't like anal, but I can live with that as she's probably the best cock-sucker I've ever been with, even from the start of our relationship and even after 23 years, still has a nice, tight feel around me when we fuck.
I've had three wives and none of them were into oral. So I guess it is no big deal.
so long as she does it/tries, i'm happy.
No it wouldnt be a break for me, because for many years my wife didnt give me oral, yet our sex life was still great. In time she learn how to and now she gives me oral willingly.
Oral is a definite make. I love when a man can go down on you and enjoy it. Wants you to cum over and over. If a man goes down on me then I go down on him. I once was in a relationship with a man who could only get hard with me sucking him off. Which gets very old fast. He did not like going down on me.
The motto is: " if you want me to go down on you, gotta go down on me." That's why theres the 69 position
Of course it isn't. If a potential partner is totally unwilling to provide oral, that's not even a deal-breaker. A little silly to most of us maybe, but it's not the end of the world. Sexual compatibility is a complex question though. If it's somebody who is simply not confident in their skills, then they should just ask their partner what works and doesn't work for them. If they don't know or can't tell you, then experiment.
Not at all, if she doesn't want to or not interested in giving oral, it's ok. I love going down on a woman.
Lets just say I get turned on giving it and receiving it
Not a make or break. It's a wonderful appetizer but frankly I enjoying giving more than receiving unless of course SHE really gets off on giving. I think it's a case by case basis. If she gives great head but has no idea how to move her hips and enjoy having my cock in her then it's probably not going to work out
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She can always learn, as can we all. As long as she listens, then it's no big deal. I'd hope that any of my lovers would feel secure enough to give and receive feedback.