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Is it OK for your female partner to have a lesbian lover?

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Sorry but...NO! If she wanted to enjoy and SHARE a bisexual lover...ok. BUT, to effectively enjoy herself while at the same time "locking me out"? WRONG! That's as silly as asking "Gals would you mind your BF/husband having a straight female lover on the side?" What a couple SHARES as a part of their relationship is fine, but what you're talking about here ISN'T sharing...it's selfishness.
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Nope! We agreed a long time ago that as long as we're together, neither of us will hook up with anyone else without sharing
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Sure! Provided that your female "partner" is simply you business partner or your lab partner in biology class. Yes I know this seems like a smart ass reply but truthfully, the original question just said female partner. It did not specify romantic partner but I realize it was is implied. Well for me, my female partner is my wife! So no, it would not be okay for her to have a lover, lesbian or not! I'm her lover! For better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, forsaking all others until death do us part! Those vows apply to same sex marriage as well as opposite sex marriage.
Idk... Gryffindor?
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I'm gonna' say no because it's the same thing as fooling around with another guy, except with different equipment. Unless we're in some kind of threesome-type of situation (which ain't happening anytime soon), she's mine.

*does old-timey boxing pose* And if any wishes to contend for her, we shall come to fisticuffs!
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I'd be totally fine with it.
"Being male is a matter of birth.
Being a man is a matter of age.
Being a gentleman is a matter of choice."
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if my wife wanted to have another woman in bed with her I tell her to go for it then see if I could join them in bed
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I would feel like I'm not good enough or like she doesn't want me anymore. Even if it didn't harm our relationship. But it would. When I have a partner, we're together, and that's that. I'm not going to go around fucking other people(male or female) and neither is she. If she wants someone else to please her, then I see no point in staying with her.
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Sure - if that pleases her and helps our sex life!
*THE DEVIL*
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The ultimate femdom! My wife cuckolding me with a dominate (lesbian) mistress. NICE!
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Would love to lol
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It would be ok with me, I'd love to watch them.
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Only if she was decree with the encounter, some companies may fire someone on this issue.
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If it was strictly a sexual relationship and I would be a part of it regularly or at my discretion then I would not mind so much. If it evolves into a romantic relationship then I will have a problem and will nip it in the bud.
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I have no problem at all with my wife having a bi lover and I've made that clear to her, as long as I know about it (no sneaking around my back and that works both ways). In fact, she discovered that she was bi when she invited a friend to come over so I could satisfy the girl. Her boyfriend of 12 years apparently had a short fuse and he wasn't into oral sex, except for her sucking his cock. I was well on my way toward taking care of the girl when my wife came in to see how we were doing, because she was curious. My wife got so hot watching me do to the girl what I normally do to my wife that when I suggested it, my wife joined in. She got her first taste of pussy and has been bi ever since.

It was also the woman's first bi experience and the two of them had a lot of fun exploring. It simply made my wife that more sexual and sensual.
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Sure, why not?
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Of course she can have a female lover as long as I am the female! HAHA


OK, if I was to have a guy partner, he would have to be OK with me being Bi and wanting to be with women too.

And for the record, my Annie can have anyone she likes as long as she tells me and doesn't do it behind my back. And she feels same about me...............isn't life great!!
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yes as long as it's just for fun, she does. I don't watch unless they ask me to.
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I have no issue with my lady having a lesbian lover, even if Im not involved. Just some things a girl can do to a girl a guy cant
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Only if there are pictures, and I am invited.
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I'm greedy, I want my girl all for myself and nobody else, I don't care if it's a man or woman :P.

I really don't understand why it should be any different with different genders.... having a girlfriend bi is admittedly more risky - double competition smile
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Of course,why ever not.My first two loves both had lesbian relationships,don't know if it was ever with each other.Not sure about Pussycat though,but with the Atlantic between us for most of the year,I wouldn't know,or ask her.
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As long as I know about it, and am welcome to join in to some degree, then it would be highly encouraged
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We're monogamous. Gender and orientation of another person doesn't change that.
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bisexuality is natural
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Quote by LarsKaiden
Guys,

How would you feel if your female partner had a lesbian lover? So long as their relationship did not interfere with the relationship between you and your female partner, would this be an acceptable situation to you? Why or why not?

GW.
...most definately
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Short answer is yes. I hate the idea of her being with another bloke but female yes
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Quote by MindsEye
As long as I know about it, and am welcome to join in to some degree, then it would be highly encouraged


What he said
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yes it would be ok and she got one and so do i.
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I would find it "cum in my pants" exciting to even hear about it -BUT- as a sex, not as lovers.